Parents avoid jail for mistreating children

[Banditbandit]

The left part of my brain agrees with you. The right part of my brain wants to eat chicken.
Cortex wants sex and or sleep and frontal lobe has started to hum the Mr Whippy song.

It's called Greensleeves - and fuck you for that - now so is mine !!!! Damm you ...

[mashman]

I come from a long line of quitters, determination is not in my vocabulary. 13 high profile people leaving the study shows it for what it is.

Prolly at least half the world has been corrupted by brain virus and trojan.

I have written some code that I endeavour to splice onto these bugs, and send them back into artspace

NZ ranks 2nd worst in developed countries for bullying. NZ high rate of infanticide and abuse is a symptom of NZ bullying culture.

'Undiagnosed autism's amongst NZ most vulnerable, least educated and lower socio economic population is a major driver of child abuse.
The seeds of child abuse were sown by early settlers of dubious mental health who came to NZ in search of a better life and mated with the natives.'

maybe I should join the study! I wonder how much the above paragraph is worth?

My mate has been dating a bikini model Samoan Irish girl. Very beautiful, intelligent but crazy as fuck, thanks to her Irish dad [military man] who is a high functioning autistic. My mate has now split up with her and I know where she works IYKWIM

I have dated beautiful half autistic cross breeds when I was a young man... lovely to look at... smart.... emotional intelligence of a 12 yr old... needy and lost due to an undiagnosed disorder

Could be a match made in heaven but no.... no no
A ship needs a rudder

Ah well, it's only kids and people who won't complain... it ain't as if anyone notices.

Nailin yer loony mates ex should be highly entertaining for him. I have watched similar happen before and it's fuckin hilarious when they deny that it'll happen to them. Keep it under six months . Might I suggest you add a dash of Catholicism in there next time, just for that added extra crazy

[scissorhands]

Keep it under six months

Oh yeah like I'm going to give up a total babe when 6 months is up... its a long time between drinks for some auties

[mashman]

Oh yeah like I'm going to give up a total babe when 6 months is up... its a long time between drinks for some auties

Bon chance mon ami... watch out for flying objects and right hooks for no particular reason

[Road kill]

Sometimes poverty can make a good child...
It [mostly] comes down to parenting
Mine were utter shite

Many polynesians and low income families have undiagnosed mental conditions
These tend to be the abusers
no help for them
And no help for their spawn

Adding low intelligence to the mix
and adding alcohol and/or drugs
magnifies the mental condition's

So all we have to do is identify people like you an sterilize them before breeding age and it will all be good from there on in ?

Sorry but you spend a lot of time telling people about your mental issues "boring as hell btw" and then you also say you have shite parents.

The lines over there mate,,just wait your turn aye.

[scissorhands]

So all we have to do is identify people like you an sterilize them before breeding age and it will all be good from there on in ?

Sorry but you spend a lot of time telling people about your mental issues "boring as hell btw" and then you also say you have shite parents.

The lines over there mate,,just wait your turn aye.

Your the first to complain.
I thought I was offering good advice
Rather than the usual KB hand wringing when these atrocities make the news....

All they need is a diagnoses at school, rather than trying to be 'normal'.
But sterilizations, pre pregnancy screenings and financial incentives will all come to pass one day soon.

Now with awareness, screenings and recommendations for downs syndrome, very few downs children are conceived compared to a few years ago. Most other birth defects can be avoided too

Sorry to bore you with this type of talk, but some others might find it interesting?

I'm trying to help families and NZ achieve a healthier population.....

What are you doing?

[newhere]

Money, or lack of, has nothing to do with bad parenting...

I think that a certain license should be achieved - showing that you will have a providing environment.
These are kids we are talking about after all - not dolls...

No money is no factor in the raising of children. if you have to go without so your children can have, then so be it. If this doesn't sit well with you then you shouldn't be having kids. Cyfs are not here to raise some one else's children, they are there to offer help when needed...

You guys are awesome, I really like the way you put these. There are heaps of others but I couldn't bothered quoting them all...

It really doesn't matter which way we slice and dice it, or who is right or wrong in our posts, at the end of it all there are still a bunch of little kids out there without parents who will take care of their basic needs let alone provide any kind of healthy emotional environment for them. I can't stand it, it sucks, as a parent I can't wrap my head around what kind of person could do this stuff to a child, it SUCKS! As to what to do about it, who the fuck knows but I personally disagree that it comes down to money or race, its more about basic humanity and some people just don't have any idea.

[BoristheBiter]

Your the first to complain.
I thought I was offering good advice
Rather than the usual KB hand wringing when these atrocities make the news....

All they need is a diagnoses at school, rather than trying to be 'normal'.
But sterilizations, pre pregnancy screenings and financial incentives will all come to pass one day soon.

Now with awareness, screenings and recommendations for downs syndrome, very few downs children are conceived compared to a few years ago. Most other birth defects can be avoided too

Sorry to bore you with this type of talk, but some others might find it interesting?

I'm trying to help families and NZ achieve a healthier population.....

What are you doing?

It just seems in your posts that you want to label everyone that does something wrong/bad/stupid with a disorder.
It sounds more like making excuses than awareness but i just think that is how you post so never have bothered you about it.
But yes it has become a bit ............ repetitive.

[scissorhands]

Okay.

My first hand experience of growing up with an undiagnosed disorder...
ripped the family apart really
sister hated me to death, she got fat and turned into a hippo till her mid 30's
I carried on in my youngest child fantasy world, whilst waiting to become a stoner as an adult to mitigate the ill feeling of others
parents were lost as no professional opinion was offered
parents had genetic problems themselves.....
mother tried to take her life
dad was an alcoholic
but he had 2 masters degrees with honours?
shirley that indicates no problems???

Many kids take their own lives too
Youtube 'bullied to death'
Most severely bullied kids have
*undiagnosed hidden [to most] birth defects*
lucky for me I was good at sports, and had a loving mum

A wise old woman once said
'its all in the breeding dearie'

peeps with new ideas get harangued till general acceptance occurs
all change happens this way
some proponents of change get arrested and worse!!
the herd dont want no non noddies
we must all nod together
seig heil!
nod nod

But seeing as many here are afraid of change
I will endeavour to not be 'repetitive'

It seems many prefer the voice of authority telling them how things are. Sorry kiddies, your being lied too!

Next time a really sick kid is in the news [needing an operation or whatever], check the parents. You may notice something is amiss if you look carefully

Odd genetics also make champions and innovators, so its a fine line to walk. Brilliance and insanity are only a kiss away.

Same as models of vehicles. Some are shit, some like this, some like that. Things change in time, Skoda got good when it mated with Volkswagon

Everything is fluid..... modern living is severely affecting the fat of the land that once made healthy families. All empires wither and fail. Top notch family lines wither and fail, eventually

More money for some eh??

Talk to any breeder of animals....

As you were then.

[gwigs]

Good post Scissorhands +1

Must spread..

[unstuck]

You catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

[scissorhands]

You catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

fucking innuendo, had to look it up and think hard

'This means that it is easier to persuade people if you use polite arguments and flattery than if you are confrontational.'

I'm a fucking aspie! I can do politeness and flattery no better than the other smartass site crazy, Drewcifer


Go find a salesman or a politician if you want flattery and a hand job! You may as well ask a dog to purr!

All I got for you softies is hard facts.

Sheesh

[Road kill]

Your the first to complain.
I thought I was offering good advice
Rather than the usual KB hand wringing when these atrocities make the news....

All they need is a diagnoses at school, rather than trying to be 'normal'.
But sterilizations, pre pregnancy screenings and financial incentives will all come to pass one day soon.

Now with awareness, screenings and recommendations for downs syndrome, very few downs children are conceived compared to a few years ago. Most other birth defects can be avoided too

Sorry to bore you with this type of talk, but some others might find it interesting?

I'm trying to help families and NZ achieve a healthier population.....

What are you doing?

I wasn't complaining I was just pointing out the obvious irony to your post.

You can go to the head of the line now.

[unstuck]

fucking innuendo, had to look it up and think hard

'This means that it is easier to persuade people if you use polite arguments and flattery than if you are confrontational.'

I'm a fucking aspie! I can do politeness and flattery no better than the other smartass site crazy, Drewcifer


Go find a salesman or a politician if you want flattery and a hand job! You may as well ask a dog to purr!

All I got for you softies is hard facts.

Sheesh

Thats one way of looking at it. What I was meaning though is that you can influence more people coming from a place of power, rather than a place of disempowerment. In other words, focusing more on the positive improvements you are making in your life to deal with whatever issues you may have, rather than banging the drum of what is wrong with your life, which keeps you stuck in the issue rather than helping you to make a change to something a little more inspirational. But where ever you find yourself in life, there is ALWAYS with EVERY situation the chance to change it to something more to your liking.