
Originally Posted by
yokel
and If some woman ever tries to remove my kids from me she could very well end up in a pine box? this is why I've had any just yet.

Originally Posted by
rgvsmoker
You've missed the point mate. The problems facing men (& fathers) today is not about bad females (also a problem) but the system that's been put in place.
Like Yokel said, it all enables a decision they can make at any time to "take their rights" as females - ie. take the kids, most money, assets,
let me see ... Yokel, in the post quoted above, has threatened to kill any woman who every tries to take his kids.
If I was a judge deciding in a breakup of his relationship, whether the kids were better of with their mother, or with the man who has threatened to kill their mother - I would make a very easy choice .. The mother gets the kids, the father has shown that he is potentially murderously dangerous.
Then Yokel would be screaming about the unfairness the system ...
Well, I call BULLSHIT .. look at your own attitudes and behaviours ...
and have the man paying for most of his life under the excuse that she can't work (as much) due to the children she wants (and gets) custody of!! Family courts enable this as men are seen as the bad guy in breakups*. 92% of single parents in the UK separated from children are fathers. Yet the false narrative is that this is because of (a small number of) deadbeat dads while women are the stoic (welfare enabled) heroes!!
And I have had dealings with many men in the past exactly like Yokel .. they show that they are prepared to use violence to keep their kids .. and are therefore shown to be potentially dangerous fathers ...
*This decision to flick the switch (ie. divorce) is being initiated by women 70% of the time - US stats. (These sometimes come with false accusations... then she gets the kids.)
I wonder why women would walk out on a family, financial support and all ??? What have men done to have this occur ?? (Yes, I do agree that relationships have two people involved) .. but the question needs to be asked ... (not all women are money-hungry bitches .. bugger all of them are actually)
It's no surprise when you have free stuff or welfare open to abuse, it ends up getting abused!! Yet we as men are supposed be tough, deny there's a problem and accept it.
Bullshit - prove you are a better parent and you'll get the kids ... with all the anger thrown around by men at the time of a breakup it's easy to see why the courts give the children to the mother - the display of anger does make it harder to prove the father is the better parent.
Of the 38,000 US suicides in 2010, guess how many are men? 30,000!!
- see links below for details.
It's not about that at all. The "independence" is just a result of not wanting to enter this raw ball-shredding deal. It is an entirely rational reaction from men and its becoming more and more obvious.
Suicide is never a rational reaction ... are you seriously suggesting that children should be raised by parents who are unbalanced enough to consider suicide a rational decision ??? You have to be kidding me ..
"So if you meet me, have some sympathy, have some courtesy, have some taste ..."
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