Harley riding fuckwits being their usual selves

[unstuck]

There is no 100 percent answer.

I got bullied on the schoolbus by a 7th former almost daily for months, one day I snapped and smashed the fuck out of him and spread his nose all over his face. He never touched me again. 100 percent effective.

[Gadget1]

The reason a lot of people get bullied is because they do nothing about it, or are told to do something about it themselves, which leaves them feeling hopeless.
I agree that taking SOME action is the start to a solution though. Even retaliation and revenge are a step up the emotional scale from hopelessness and depression.

Gotcha now. I won't ask about the retaliation and revenge.

[unstuck]

Gotcha now. I won't ask about the retaliation and revenge.

Tis all about taking the power back.

[Gadget1]

No bullies want power but granted getting a reaction is actually power in some circumstances....... its about control.
Ignoring might not work, redirection can, so can greying them out.
There is no 100 percent answer.

From what I've been told and read about, bullies are bullies for a range of reasons. There's also a range of solutions.

[Gadget1]

I got bullied on the schoolbus by a 7th former almost daily for months, one day I snapped and smashed the fuck out of him and spread his nose all over his face. He never touched me again. 100 percent effective.

Typical bloody punker... it worked though.

[FJRider]

From what I've been told and read about, bullies are bullies for a range of reasons. There's also a range of solutions.

Solution (1.) Break their fucking nose ...

[Gadget1]

Tis all about taking the power back.

That's one way of putting it...

[unstuck]

That's one way of putting it...

Self emPOWERment is what I mean.

[FJRider]

Self emPOWERment is what I mean.

Power behind the punch is what I mean ...

[Smifffy]

Not just Harley riders, not just NZ:

dailytelegraph.com.au/entertainment/sydney-confidential/red-faced-ivy-nightclub-forced-to-apologise

[husaberg]

I got bullied on the schoolbus by a 7th former almost daily for months, one day I snapped and smashed the fuck out of him and spread his nose all over his face. He never touched me again. 100 percent effective.

Is that going to work on a female.........?

[FJRider]

Is that going to work on a female.........?

It will ... and has. A bully has no gender.

[Gadget1]

Self emPOWERment is what I mean.

I'm hearing ya.

[Gadget1]

Not just Harley riders, not just NZ:

dailytelegraph.com.au/entertainment/sydney-confidential/red-faced-ivy-nightclub-forced-to-apologise

Yeah, but he probably rides a HD or knows someone who has one or saw one today. The bastard!

[husaberg]

From what I've been told and read about, bullies are bullies for a range of reasons. There's also a range of solutions.

Yes but normally they will project their own inadequacies or insecurities on to their chosen target.
Unfortunately the only 100 cent effective solution is removal of the target from the situation.
Other solutions are can and do work such as unstuck's assertive approach.

It will ... and has. A bully has no gender.

I think you will find generally if a man responds to a female who is bullying him by hitting her, most people might side with the female............Sexist but true.
Also if its is a co-worker or your boss it might be fraught to hit them if either male or female.