Hello (Len)

[MarkH]

but i also love the feeling of going fast and leaning right over, flicking the bike through the bends etc

I'm thinking that you don't really want a Harley.
There are lots and lots of good bikes that would suit what you want, you may need to ride a few to find out what you like.
Work towards your full license so that when the arsehole cop pulls you over there is nothing to ticket you for.