What would you do?

**Sniper** · 4th October 2005, 10:35

Originally Posted by Kornholio

Seriously tho, move on and get on with life...its way too short

I have to say this... How can life be too short. Its the longest thing anybody does. What can be longer

**Lou Girardin** · 4th October 2005, 10:39

There was a story of a medical survey being done in a smallish English village back in the 50's. They were blood testing for some reason, but started to discover that around half the children did not belong to their fathers. Needless to say, the testing was abandoned very quickly.
Some times ignorance is bliss. Let her find out from him. (one way or another).
No one gets thanked for bringing that sort of news.

**Sniper** · 4th October 2005, 11:27

Seddon or Ward? Maybe Picton?

**avgas** · 4th October 2005, 11:51

By a bike, do a big burnout, do a crazy sprint on it yelling your head off, then get drunk so bad you dont wake up for 2 days.........works for us guys

Originally Posted by Celtic_Sea_lily

If you found out someone you had previously dated was married when they were seeing you? (The signs pointed to it but he denied it when confronted and it didn't last that long anyway)

I have been told the name of his wife and I know he is listed in the phone book...I wouldn't do anything psycho like going round to the house but, the thought has crossed my mind that I should write a letter to his wife.

Hmmmmmmm...what to do, what to do.....

**Timber020** · 4th October 2005, 19:59

The world is a dangerous place, not because of bad people doing wrong things, but because good people stand by and let it happen.

If he gets away with it, then hes learned nothing and may do worse next time.

Let her know, not doing anything is to condone his actions and indirectly support his behaviour. Doing nothing is easier, but when was doing the right thing easy?

**M1CRO:Me** · 4th October 2005, 22:26

Yup, let sleeping dogs lie, move on, learn from it (if you can)... after all, we are the products of our life experience's

**Lou Girardin** · 5th October 2005, 12:01

Originally Posted by Timber020

The world is a dangerous place, not because of bad people doing wrong things, but because good people stand by and let it happen.

If he gets away with it, then hes learned nothing and may do worse next time.

Let her know, not doing anything is to condone his actions and indirectly support his behaviour. Doing nothing is easier, but when was doing the right thing easy?

What if this was the one and only lapse in his life?

**Ms Piggy** · 5th October 2005, 15:57

Well after having a think, talking to my current man and a few others, and readng the myriad responses on KBs I've decided not to pursue this creep any further.

Not b/c I think I should walk away and simply chalk it up to a 'life lesson' and not b/c I think cheating is acceptable on any level

But b/c I am not sure if the guy is in fact still with his wife. I actually spoke to the woman who gave me the info again and she agreed that he could've in fact been seperated or he could in fact just be a low down, rotten dirty cheater...I think the latter is very likely, however I don't wish to waste my energy on a man who isn't worth spitting on. I'm 90% sure (due to his behaviour and unreliability) that he was married but I don't have absolute proof..oh that hindsight is a wonderful thing aint it!!

Thanks for those who Pm'd too