job offer

[heavenly.talker]

Hmmm

This kind of got my alert goosebumps up!

Never do business with someone that makes you feel uneasy (physically or ethically).

It will come back and bite you in the bum some how.

Keep asking questions until you are satisfied that it is legit! If you get to this stage then ask for everything to be written down on paper.
Good luck and let us know how it all pans out :-)

[NotaGoth]

An indication being me sitting in there in the corner reading a mag minding my own business?Thats like stopping someone on the street and asking them if they work as a stripper just because you find them good looking?

No guy has ever asked me if I work in a massage parlour. So this will be the first.

I was there for a WOF, not sitting there looking pretty seeing if I could grab anyones attention, then again I'm female so blokes do have a right to "approach me" and ask if I work in a place like that, right? (wrong) Its actually insulting in a way.

next time I'll just jump in his car and go for coffee hey. Its not like I haven;t sat back and thought that it could have been a possible no harm intended job offer. Sadly certain things indicate other wise.

At the moment I have a job, have had the same job for the past 4 years, but would like to seek different career paths in hopes of going further than what I can if I stay working where I do. I think if the guy was genuinely offering me a job, he should have gone a different way about it. Like maybe, minus the "massage parlour" crack. Least that way I wouldn't have had to wonder

A couple of queries,
How many potential employers have approached you without any indication that you were looking for work?
How many guys (in general, of any age) have asked you if you work in a massage parlour?
Without meaning to be offensive, do you think he got the idea that you may have been a massage parlour worker from any indication you might have given him? It's a fairly out there question to ask someone you don't know well.

How about a different slant on things,
Could it be possible he's been into a massage parlour (they're legal now) and thought he'd seen you and was offering you a job to 'save' you? ie. get you out of that despicable industry so to speak.

Bottom line is that if anything at all makes you uncomfortable about this guy then you can afford to be patient - that's what the social welfare benefit system is for. And before anyone gets up in arms about dole bludgers etc. I would far rather see a young woman given choices than feel she has to do something (a job) that makes her uncomfortable. The job market is fairly bouyant at the moment so I'm sure that option would be short term.

[SARGE]

Kittie....



run.. dont walk.. this guy is up to something devious

1) the massage parlor comment..
2) the coffee invite
3) the call at 10 pm ( thats beyond normal civilized hours)

might just be the fact that i trust no-one to begin with..


its not paranoia is someone IS out to get you..


if you are looking to get a new job.. grab your CV and cold call if you need to... this guy sounds dodgy as hell

[Rhino]

Also - if you ring him, use 0172 (I think it is) in front of his number - it blocks your caller ID stuff so he can't capture that info. On the flip side - you CAN capture his info on your phone (if you haven't already).

Keep a diary of when he calls too, and if you ask him to stop, note that also. Anything beyond that becomes harrassment and the cops and Telecom take that very seriously.

Good luck
MDU

Hi Kittie,

Firstly, if you do ring this guy, the number to use is 0197 if calling from Telecom. If you use Vodafone, dial #31# before the number. This will withold your Caller ID from him. Secondly, if you complain to Telecom about him harrassing you with calls, note that Telecom will demand that you agree to press charges before they will put a trace on, or supply Calling Party Records to you.

Thirty Seven years in the Telecommunications Industry eventually has some use.

[NotaGoth]

Hi Kittie,

Firstly, if you do ring this guy, the number to use is 0197 if calling from Telecom. If you use Vodafone, dial #31# before the number. This will withold your Caller ID from him. Secondly, if you complain to Telecom about him harrassing you with calls, note that Telecom will demand that you agree to press charges before they will put a trace on, or supply Calling Party Records to you.

Thirty Seven years in the Telecommunications Industry eventually has some use.

thankyou Rhino, I doubt it would boil down to anything like that happening and me having to take any of those steps, but I'll make a note of that

[John]

hey dont need to talk about me puplicly, i mean fuck i just called for abit of lovin now this??? crazy.

[NotaGoth]

hey dont need to talk about me puplicly, i mean fuck i just called for abit of lovin now this??? crazy.

*rollZ* eyes.. look out cause i'll get that tall blonde guy who was fondling cucumbers in the NW to molest you

[John]

*rollZ* eyes.. look out cause i'll get that tall blonde guy who was fondling cucumbers in the NW to molest you

I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?

[NotaGoth]

I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?

does he stareee at you in that same lovinggggg way that he stared at mee..? kind of... horrified... umm.. confused........ err.. afraid............. god I don't know.. dAMMIT does he raise his brow at you too?

damn i didn't see those ones..

[SixPackBack]

sounds like u ride the cucumber pooftah

[John]

sounds like u ride the cucumber pooftah

no, but your dad does.

[madboy]

Girl - run. Aside from the cucumber mental pictures, everything else about this thread sounds wrong. Forget the job, not interested, no way no how. I can't see how this can have a happy ending if it starts like this.

[John]

I am sure kitty is educated enough to know that she should promptly ignore the sex deprived foot fetish fellow....

[SixPackBack]

I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?

Bbbbbbaaaaahhhhh......I got room for the butternut pumpkin after lovin with you Johny boy

[John]

Bbbbbbaaaaahhhhh......I got room for the butternut pumpkin after lovin with you Johny boy

is that all I was hoping I could shove a crate of bananas up there and smuggle them through the fruit boarders of africa and make millions of dollars, maybe you need another working over you dirty dagged bitch eh?