Yeah, four for me too.
Funny how that happens. One day, carefree happy and with money in the pocket.
The next - you feel like Al Bundy.
Oh well, I've still got most of my hair. Pity its falling off my head and landing on my back.
Kids are fun (mostly), and hard work.
Advice - just remember:
1. It's supposed to be a challenge. Look at what you are raising.
2. You are supposed to be broke. This helps you realise a) how good you had it; and b) how good it will be when they leave.
3. Kids will say "I love you" and "I hate you" in equal quantities - even before they start to speak. Don't take it to heart.
4. Don't sweat the small stuff.
5. And whatever else - be understanding - you thought you were wrong a lot before - wait until after the sprog's born.
Enjoy fatherhood.
And I to my motorcycle parked like the soul of the junkyard. Restored, a bicycle fleshed with power, and tore off. Up Highway 106 continually drunk on the wind in my mouth. Wringing the handlebar for speed, wild to be wreckage forever.
- James Dickey, Cherrylog Road.
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