How much?

**Lou Girardin** · 29th April 2006, 11:55

Originally Posted by Sniper

DISCLAIMER: This question in no way means we are getting married or plan to.

But MissSniper and I were discussing the cost of a wedding. She mentioned some extraordinary amount that made my eyes water and my testicals shrink into the safety regions of my stomach. For those that have been married and those planning to and those who may one day meet a blind person, what would be your thought to the average cost of a wedding? Also, what would you include in that cost, if you want to, you can add why.

Poll included.

Not as much as a divorce.

**Edbear** · 29th April 2006, 12:16

Originally Posted by Lou Girardin

Not as much as a divorce.

Quite right! Back in '77 when we got married, the Father-in-Law gave us $500 and said,"Do whatever you want". We hired a hall and sent invites sayin' "Everyone can come, bring a plate". Bought most of the booze, probably all up about a grand or so. HAte to tally up what a divorce would cost me now!
Daughter gets married in July. Taking place in Aus 'cause Rudy's family are there and as his parents are chefs they offered to cater. Still, by the time we factor in travel and accomodation it's costing us about $5k+ and Rudy's, (the Groom), paying for a lot, he's spent about $5k but they're having a few special treats. Not sure what the In-laws are spending but it won't be a little amount. My sister and her husband probably spent about $10k on my neice's wedding recently. Adds up real quick!

**SpeedyGirl** · 29th April 2006, 16:00

Well I recon that you should let Miss Sniper spend whatever she wants...otherwise she may break your other arm

Seriously my mate got married 3 years ago and it was over $20,000

**Jantar** · 17th June 2006, 19:15

Originally Posted by Sniper

I have a mate who is getting maried soon and he reckons we can do the wedding for under $500.

1. I could get ordained over the internet ($250)
2. We could drive to A beach ($30)
3. We could have the reception at my house and everyone brings their own food ect (Free)
4. Wedding bands can be radiator ring clips ($2 a peice)
5. For the honeymoon he can stay in the spare room. (Power)

Smartarse, no we are not getting married, but a close friend has, hence the speculation

I would say the cost of a wedding would be very close to $20,000.

Once again, Congratulations to both of you.

**riffer** · 17th June 2006, 19:49

MSTRS is right. You spend what you can afford.

Virginia and I had a traditional celtic handfasting. The groom and his party were in full kilt (yes I went Commando), and the bride and maidens were in mediaeval dresses. All made by family.

As her parents had a magnificent 20-acre garden in Akatarawa Valley, it was the perfect setting. The priestess was her oldest friend, and the celebrant my great-aunt. I borrowed a claymore of my Father-in-Law, who also piped Gini in.

The food was barbecue and salad, brought by family and friends, and we sprung for the kegs and wine.

A fantastic day, beautiful weather, 100 guests, and each set of parents helped heaps. Friends and family all participated and everyone felt part of the day and the wedding. No arguments, no stress, just a great day.

As we had so much help from family and friends, we pretty much just had to pay for the booze, food, and materials for the clothing. All up, we spent about $3000.

Don't get suckered into doing anything you don't want. This is the time to set the tone for the rest of your married life, and really really really concentrate on the communication.

Just remember Stu, that YOU are just as big a part of this as your wife to be. Too many guys just sit back and let the Mother-in-Law and wife to be take over and end up thinking that the day didn't really have anything to do with them. Marriage is a partnership, and this day is about the TWO of you.

Best of luck with your planning. As for the new bike, that will come. Don't push the point too hard. You'll end up with something great if you learn some give and take... just like marriage really. There will be fights and arguments about the wedding plans - this is normal. Roll with the punches.

**MSTRS:Me** · 17th June 2006, 19:57

Wise words and true, Riffer. Main thing is to have fun and DO IT YOUR WAY.

**Smokin** · 18th June 2006, 14:28

cant say i remember exactly but i think we spent about $12g and the catering was a gift from a mate

If i can offer some advice i would spend a little more on your selves and save a bit on your guests, After all it's really only a party to them, If they have a feed with plenty of booze they are happy, spend the extra coin on photo's, Brides dress, suit hire and the bits and pieces that are going to make the pair of you happy on the day and give you lasting memorys.

**Sniper** · 18th June 2006, 14:31

I know, I lied, does that make me a bad person?

**chic 'n' charge** · 18th June 2006, 14:48

I'm so glad that you're getting the chance to talk about weddings - good on you both. Talk lots about what you can afford before and after the big day and you'll be sweet.

Congrats

**Sniper** · 18th June 2006, 14:51

Originally Posted by chic 'n' charge

I'm so glad that you're getting the chance to talk about weddings - good on you both. Talk lots about what you can afford before and after the big day and you'll be sweet.

Congrats

Thanks CinC, but have you seen the other thread?

**The Pastor** · 18th June 2006, 15:35

For the reception just get a pig on the spit and some beer. Salads are for pussys.

**scumdog** · 2nd February 2012, 20:56

Holy thread-dredge Batman!!

**Big Dave** · 2nd February 2012, 21:14

Is this a repost?

**scumdog** · 2nd February 2012, 21:18

Originally Posted by Big Dave

Is this a repost?

You might have a long wait for Sniper to answer that...

**The Pastor** · 8th February 2012, 12:37

Originally Posted by Deano

That's a bit morbid isn't it ?

I'm pretty sure everyone who came to our wedding had a ball. It looks like it from the photos.

Small private church, photos through a friend, cake through a work contact, hirage of a venue, catered meal for 65, drinks for about 90. 1967 Impala for wedding car, hirage of wine glasses, home made invites, DJ, flowers...........probably forgot a few little things..all for about $10k.

Definitely pool any resources you may have though - we must have saved at least a grand.

i dont like weddings, and dislike going to them.