Bitch

[Brownbikerbabe]

When a man calls you a "bitch" or "bitchy" how do you as a woman interpret that? Do you find it flattering or uplifting or demeaning and derrogatory?

Men use that word like it was a punctuation at the end of a sentence. I find it derrogatory and demeaning to women.

I for one HATE that word and I despise any man who uses that word to describe a woman as that.

"Man" well any guy that uses that word to describe a woman/lady with that word, to me, is not a man all. Most men respect their women and treat them like a lady, but the few pea brained men who obviously have not reached puberty (even at 40) do use that word to describe their girlfriends or wives have no clue as to how demeaning that is to a woman. Some women out there like being called that, but I am curious to know just how many woman truly like being called a bitch.

So, how do you as a woman. interpret it? Just a question.

[Str8 Jacket]

When a man calls you a "bitch" or "bitchy" how do you as a woman interpret that?

Usually as nasty and then I punch them in the face.


(p/t) for all you PC nazis....

[Karma]

It's gotta be better than 'ho.

As long as women tolerate these terms they'll continue to be used.

[Kendog]

I don't really mind bitch. I refer to myself as a bitch often, my husband says I'm a stink bitch whenever I won't give him what he wants and my parents used to call me a little bitch all the time. Can think of a lot worse things to be called, like the C word that I really take offence to!! If you ain't got one, you don't have the right to use the word!
Mrs KD

[Cibby]

Hmm... Are you secretly american?

If i am actually being a bitch, then i probably deserve to be called that.

Its the same as any name the describes bad behavior,, bastard, geek, retard,shit head, arsehole, etc etc.. whats the difference?

There are some women who let labeled bitch unfairly if they are being simply assertive, however there are a lot more women who rightly deserve the title, and some guys to..

[MSTRS:Me]

.... like the C word that I really take offence to!! If you ain't got one, you don't have the right to use the word!

But I do....I own the bitch

[thatHurt]

women who rightly deserve the title, and some guys to..

That's right. Don't have to be a chick to be a bitch. Ho either me thinks.

[jimbo600]

Ontario Canada? Great place, where abouts Ottowa?

Anyhow I think the whole "bitch" and "ho" thing as all too US gangsta really. It is degrading to women. Personally I am pretty thick skinned and tolerate all sorts of crap. I admit I have used the term when BSing with other blokes (as you know blokes talk utter crap when together), but would never call a woman "bitch" or "my bitch" to her face.

In NZ a more common term is wahine. (Maori for female)

[Switch]

I don't think its a very nice thing to call a woman at all. Unless some people use it in a "naughty" way haha

[Hitcher]

"Bitch" is just a word, like any others. It is how it is used that is the issue, rather than the word itself. If it is used intentially to hurt or diminish the person at whom it is directed, then I have a problem with that.

[Devil]

There are plenty of appropriate places for the word 'bitch'. eg. "I'm Rick James, bitch.". Just like there are plenty of appropriate places for 'nigger'.
"Fuck your couch, nigger! Fuck your couch!".

[The_Dover]

I like to say

"Take it all bitch, yeah, both inches"

[placidfemme]

I like to say

"Take it all bitch, yeah, both inches"

lol

I don't mind the word... I've been called a lot of things, and 90% are worse than bitch...

But my relationship is sweet... I call her my bitch and she calls me her bitch... lol As for other people... who cares what they call you...

[Postie]

and its always funny when some one says "BIAATCH" in a Cartman voice

[Mental Trousers]

I'm the Juggernaut bitch - the dumb arse gangster way of using the word (stolen from another thread somewhere in these boards). It's rather large btw, but very amusing.