Need ideas for really special dates

**cowpoos** · 3rd October 2006, 09:45

Originally Posted by Finn

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

FUCKING BRILLENT!!!!

**oldrider** · 3rd October 2006, 10:48

Jeez man, 50/50 is just her way of telling you that you aint quite cutting the mustard for her!
Stop thinking and talking about "you" and start focusing on "her".
It's not much use doing all this marketing if you can't supply the goods.
A satisfied woman is just like a homing pigeon, home is where her heart is!
No matter how far away they fly, they just gotta come home. Think about it! She wants "comitment". 50/50? This is just nesting talk!
Is it her that's 50/50 or is it really just you!

How much does she really mean to you? That's what "she" wants to know! Good luck, John.

**The_Dover** · 3rd October 2006, 10:54

My 2c.

Stop asking others for ideas and do what you feel would make her happy.

Artists dont ask their mates what they should paint and songwriters don't canvas for ideas either. Unless they are crap.

For it to mean anything at all it's got to come from YOU for HER.

Not fucking cowpoos, oldrider or anyone else.

Hell, even my KY and oversized cucumber is from my heart and not yours.

**Motoracer** · 3rd October 2006, 12:12

Originally Posted by Finn

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

Thanks man! Along with Dover, my opinion about you has changed too. Thanks heaps guys.

**Motoracer** · 3rd October 2006, 12:15

Originally Posted by oldrider

Jeez man, 50/50 is just her way of telling you that you aint quite cutting the mustard for her!
Stop thinking and talking about "you" and start focusing on "her".
It's not much use doing all this marketing if you can't supply the goods.
A satisfied woman is just like a homing pigeon, home is where her heart is!
No matter how far away they fly, they just gotta come home. Think about it! She wants "comitment". 50/50? This is just nesting talk!
Is it her that's 50/50 or is it really just you!

How much does she really mean to you? That's what "she" wants to know! Good luck, John.

Some thought provoking points there... Cheers. Not the sort of answers that I've got ready right at this minute, even to myself. Thanks.

Commitment is a scarry word for sure...

**HDTboy** · 3rd October 2006, 13:19

Originally Posted by The_Dover

My 2c.

Stop asking others for ideas and do what you feel would make her happy.

Artists dont ask their mates what they should paint and songwriters don't canvas for ideas either. Unless they are crap.

For it to mean anything at all it's got to come from YOU for HER.

Not fucking cowpoos, oldrider or anyone else.

Hell, even my KY and oversized cucumber is from my heart and not yours.

He's fuckin right

**mstriumph** · 3rd October 2006, 13:30

Originally Posted by SARGE

........... avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ......

**Finn** · 3rd October 2006, 13:38

Originally Posted by mstriumph

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ......

Damn right. After renting Schindlers List tonight, MR's gonna be bombing her bunker with his dambuster! Woohoo!

**SARGE** · 3rd October 2006, 13:47

Originally Posted by mstriumph

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ......

my wife and i kept up a long distance relationship for almost 3 years before i moved here .. it was a hard time for both of us.. i scrimped and saved and sold everything i owned to get here for good after 3 years of flying back and forth ( on a positive note .. i now have enough Frequent Flier Miles to get to Mars and back..)..left all my mates and a lucrative 20 year career 20,000 miles away..its not something i recommend doing ..its painfull and lonely at times to be this far from family and friends.. you dont have a support network you can fall back on.. you have to start from scratch when you only know one person in the country..you deal with massive culture shock and all kinds of drama ..

but yes Ms.T .. sometimes it does work out ..i have my soulmate and i doubt i would change much about it .

MR.. she may be dealing with the same thing i did when i came over .. talk to her about it .. seriously.. homesickness sucks.. if she means something to you .. find out what she needs in order to stay..

good luck whatever the outcome

**Finn** · 3rd October 2006, 14:18

Originally Posted by SARGE

left all my mates and a lucrative 20 year career 20,000 miles away.

Now I'm confused. I thought you were American. Given the earth's circumference is only 24900 miles, that places your homeland only 4900 miles from NZ, like Jakarta. You're a bloody muslim aren't you? Busted SARGET!!!

**SARGE** · 3rd October 2006, 14:20

Originally Posted by Finn

Now I'm confused. I thought you were American. Given the earth's circumference is only 24900 miles, that places your homeland only 4900 miles from NZ, like Jakarta. You're a bloody muslim aren't you? Busted SARGET!!!

maths were never my strong point there Finn..

much like social skill arent yours ..

i still love ya though dwarf-boy

( and i mean that in a Chicago Bears/ Pittsburgh Steelers way .. not in a Rent-boy Masterbator / ShitMark way..)