When do you prefer to do it?

**avgas** · 16th March 2007, 15:40

Sex is awesome fun. like ridding fluffy scoots on oil covered roads.
I've been drinking

**SixPackBack** · 16th March 2007, 15:44

BRACE YERSELF WOMEN I'M CUMIN' IN

**mstriumph** · 16th March 2007, 15:55

Originally Posted by ManDownUnder

.......... but it can be hard when you're well and truly pissed off at someone.

i thought all this was about it NOT being hard .....

**mstriumph** · 16th March 2007, 16:21

Originally Posted by crashe

............(whether you be straight or gay/lesbian/bi-sexual or transgender both parties should be totally satisfied)

'should' - a word that causes all sorts of problems by raising sometimes unfulfillable expectations

total sexual satisfaction every time is probably one of these

it's in the nature of things, for a zillion reasons, that there will be times things will work better for one partner than the other .........

yep, don't you just LOVE it when the earth moves simulaneously for both of you ....... but, on the occassions it doesn't, there's also a great deal of pleasure in having MADE the earth move for the other person?

my 2c anyway

**ManDownUnder** · 16th March 2007, 16:21

Originally Posted by mstriumph

i thought all this was about it NOT being hard .....

LOL no no no.... it HAS to be hard - otherwise it doesn't wanna go in

**MikeyG** · 16th March 2007, 16:34

Originally Posted by ManDownUnder

I'd be more concerned about the release he gets from giving hugs...

He hugged me the other day. Now I feel so dirty

**mstriumph** · 16th March 2007, 17:19

Originally Posted by MikeyG

He hugged me the other day. Now I feel so dirty

*sniff* he's NEVER hugged ME!! ........ now i feel soooooooo - well, quite ok about it, really ......

**crashe** · 16th March 2007, 17:32

Originally Posted by mstriumph

*sniff* he's NEVER hugged ME!! ........ now i feel soooooooo - well, quite ok about it, really ......

He has hugged me........ and I will never be the same again.....
well the arm wont be..... lol

**oldrider** · 16th March 2007, 19:21

My biggest fear of growing old, Dementia and Alzheimer's, never being able to even remember sex, let alone how good bad or indifferent it was!!!

So much to do, so little time..............ANYTIME, Anything, anywhere,

(Fantasizes wildly, gulping and gasping!!)

Then bloody reality comes along and ruins my day again.

Even worse, imagine never ever being able to remember riding your "BIKE"!!

Now that's terrifying.

John.

**scumdog** · 16th March 2007, 20:30

Originally Posted by crashe

No women also want to be totally satisfied.

....... rolling over and going to sleep afterwards...... is NOT very romantic either. Give your woman a hug etc and go to sleep in each others arms.

(whether you be straight or gay/lesbian/bi-sexual or transgender both parties should be totally satisfied)

So being told to "go to sleep, it's already 5am and we've both got work at 8 o'clock" counts for something???

**NighthawkNZ:Me** · 16th March 2007, 21:11

Originally Posted by LilSel

So... when do you prefer to get down n dirty?? (have sex!)

When ever I can fracking get it ... like hello

**crack** · 17th March 2007, 01:00

Originally Posted by Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

Too bloody often. In this day and age I expect a man to know how to pleasure a woman - if he cannot - he's down the road that damn fast - my ex husband wasn't even interested in learning - boy did he miss out on a lot. My last ex - only one part of the anatomy seemed to exist despite lovingly saying what I enjoyed - so satisfaction for me went out the window. I would stroke and massage him for ages - wd have enjoyed reciprocation but only happened about twice.

I have given up on relationships - my experiences have been too bad and they certainly have not been worth all the bullshit I have had to put up with. It seems to be an inbuilt mechanism in me to find the sickest fucktard and try and have a relationship with them. Ex husband alcoholic, last one a drug addict. Probably a murderer next!! It's true in my case to say woman pick men like their father - well I'm truly stuffed despite 11.5 years of working on myself!! Safer for me not to go there.

The one thing I have enjoyed about having a regular "buddy" is it is actually a more honest relationship - no crap - there's passion, excitement and fun every time we meet. Best I have ever had. My emotions are not involved, we respect each other, laugh chat flirt. And he even asks occasionally - are you still happy with our situation.

As far as I'm concerned - I'm missing out on nothing. I have never had a man be there for me emotionally i.e. when I'm sick, or need TLC, or if I am down, to just hug me or attend a funeral with me. I don't want a man to fix my problems, I'm more than capable of that but to understand and be there. I have never known true love in my life - I thought I did in my last relationship but that all proved to be a lie - he was not there for me when I was sick, down or lost loved ones. Sometimes the words were sd but no action followed. I am not self pitying but accepting of this aspect of my life.

I can have great sex without being emotionally involved. And I'm superbitch if I am celibate too long. I am not afraid of talking about any subject. A spade is a front-end-loader.

Shit,Damn, I would love to get inside your head:

**desmo dave** · 17th March 2007, 07:12

Originally Posted by Kittyhawk

Why wasn't I told about this thread earlier!!

Anytime....anywhere...doggie doggie doggie!

What happens when you are in a relationship, its all going well then the romance and intimacy has faded away over time? How do you get this back?

And do a trade in.

**geoffm** · 17th March 2007, 08:20

Married, children, and get home from work just in time to go to bed. What is sex?
G

**_Gina_** · 17th March 2007, 08:55

IMO

Sometimes people keep their fantasies and real sexual drivers quite deep inside and this in itself can inhibit a random and spontanious sexlife once the first year or so has passed.
People in relationships sometimes inadvertently say something negative about something sexual that the other person finds to be a sexual driver.
The comment will probably be a flippant one and without any real thought, but none the less the other person will feel shame or fear rejection and will be less inclined to suggest it as something to try.

Then that limits the options and there is only so many times you can do it (for example) doggy style.

And then the inhibited sexual driver can actually build into something else and sometimes becomes (in the mind) the only thing that "really" turns a person on.

Hmmmmm, god I ramble on !

Anyway, relevant or not, you choose.

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