When do you prefer to do it?

[Kittyhawk]

Why wasn't I told about this thread earlier!!

Anytime....anywhere...doggie doggie doggie!

What happens when you are in a relationship, its all going well then the romance and intimacy has faded away over time? How do you get this back?

[Disco Dan]

Why wasn't I told about this thread earlier!!

Anytime....anywhere...doggie doggie doggie!

What happens when you are in a relationship, its all going well then the romance and intimacy has faded away over time? How do you get this back?

have a shag with someonelse usually does the trick.

[crack]

i voted anytime... i dont know what i prefer really... possibly really early in the morning ... possibly afternoon... who knows... so therefore.. anytime...

I voted ANYTIME, ANYTIME,ANYTIME,ANYTIME,ANYTIME,ANYTIME:

But in reality, Anytime,Anywhere,Anything.(IE Female)everyone you miss out on is one you will never regain.

I do sometimes suffer from too much blood to the head, usually at about Oh dark 30.

Blood to the head, now this reminds me:

A F/o of mine once used viagra, he got a hard on at 30000 feet, and it would not go down, yes he suffered for about 7 hr's, the medics inserted a needle, and drained off blood, to make it go flacid, poor sod then told me that it is a side affect one can suffer from viagra, any one else care to comment:

[Kittyhawk]

have a shag with someonelse usually does the trick.

Dosent solve the problem long term.

[Deviant Esq]

Why wasn't I told about this thread earlier!!

Anytime....anywhere...doggie doggie doggie!

Hot damn!
I think I need to go have a cold shower and a lie down!

[Blue Babe]

It's yum to be woken in the morning with a horny guy next to you. It's especially nice when you've been fast asleep & are woken with a hand caressing you. I also like it at night, especially after a very romantic evening, with a nice meal, candles, wine & maybe even a bubble bath.
I'm a Very Lucky Girl as I often get all this + I like to turn him on in the Mornings too.

[Blue Babe]

What happens when you are in a relationship, its all going well then the romance and intimacy has faded away over time? How do you get this back?

You make sure you have time together on your own. Do the romantic stuff. The rest should come naturally. I love it when the kids aren't around & we can experiment & have fun. Does the relationship good & You too.

[Squeak the Rat]

When I am in the mood, I am in the mood. Although to me sex is emotional as well as physical. Has to be foreplay involved!!! No quickies!!! Thats all I have to say on the subject.

Was thinking about this last night. This might be some of the problem...... Generalising here, but women expect foreplay, while men are more genetically programmed to just root.

So guys basically have an expectation that they have to do it the way the woman wants all the time. When humans know they have to do something the natural instinct is to dislike and avoid it.

So if your man isn't putting out you may want to compromise (as you should in a relationship). Sometimes it needs to be just about having a root. And if you take away the perception that sex is hard work (or show him it's about him occassionally) then he'll probably reciprocate with what you want (and he'll enjoy it too).

[crashe]

Was thinking about this last night. This might be some of the problem...... Generalising here, but women expect foreplay, while men are more genetically programmed to just root.

So guys basically have an expectation that they have to do it the way the woman wants all the time. When humans know they have to do something the natural instinct is to dislike and avoid it.

So if your man isn't putting out you may want to compromise (as you should in a relationship). Sometimes it needs to be just about having a root. And if you take away the perception that sex is hard work (or show him it's about him occassionally) then he'll probably reciprocate with what you want (and he'll enjoy it too).

No women also want to be totally satisfied.

So a guy just wants a root...... good for him..... so he is satisfied and the woman is not. No wonder it turns to custard for some couples.

The man only thinks of himself.

Its about BOTH being satified...... not just one.
Foreplay can work for both.....

Oh and guys....... rolling over and going to sleep afterwards...... is NOT very romantic either. Give your woman a hug etc and go to sleep in each others arms.


(whether you be straight or gay/lesbian/bi-sexual or transgender both parties should be totally satisfied)

[wybmadiity]

Im basically a willy with a human attached

I can vouch for that.

[Squeak the Rat]

No women also want to be totally satisfied.

So a guy just wants a root...... good for him..... so he is satified and the woman is not. No wonder it turns to custard for some couples.

The man only thinks of himself.

Its about BOTH being satified...... not just one.
Foreplay can work for both.....

I'm not advocating a quick root all the time, but your post is exactly my point. The women always demand that's the way it should be, because that's how she likes it. No wonder guys can't be bothered sometimes......?

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

I'm back off to mars now

[ManDownUnder]

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

LOL... dude it's rare that I see a post nail a topic quite so well as you just did.

Ab-so-fucken-lute-ly ON THE MONEY!

[Kittyhawk]

I'm not advocating a quick root all the time, but your post is exactly my point. The women always demand that's the way it should be, because that's how she likes it. No wonder guys can't be bothered sometimes......?

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

I'm back off to mars now

I have to agree....There have been times where I've sastified the other half and not expected it myself. And he's done it to me at times. There has to be that mutual understanding.

No starfish tho... it just aint as fun.

Communication is one of key factors to a good sex life..

*starts thinking doggie doggie doggie*mmmmm

[Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)]

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

Too bloody often. In this day and age I expect a man to know how to pleasure a woman - if he cannot - he's down the road that damn fast - my ex husband wasn't even interested in learning - boy did he miss out on a lot. My last ex - only one part of the anatomy seemed to exist despite lovingly saying what I enjoyed - so satisfaction for me went out the window. I would stroke and massage him for ages - wd have enjoyed reciprocation but only happened about twice.

I have given up on relationships - my experiences have been too bad and they certainly have not been worth all the bullshit I have had to put up with. It seems to be an inbuilt mechanism in me to find the sickest fucktard and try and have a relationship with them. Ex husband alcoholic, last one a drug addict. Probably a murderer next!! It's true in my case to say woman pick men like their father - well I'm truly stuffed despite 11.5 years of working on myself!! Safer for me not to go there.

The one thing I have enjoyed about having a regular "buddy" is it is actually a more honest relationship - no crap - there's passion, excitement and fun every time we meet. Best I have ever had. My emotions are not involved, we respect each other, laugh chat flirt. And he even asks occasionally - are you still happy with our situation.

As far as I'm concerned - I'm missing out on nothing. I have never had a man be there for me emotionally i.e. when I'm sick, or need TLC, or if I am down, to just hug me or attend a funeral with me. I don't want a man to fix my problems, I'm more than capable of that but to understand and be there. I have never known true love in my life - I thought I did in my last relationship but that all proved to be a lie - he was not there for me when I was sick, down or lost loved ones. Sometimes the words were sd but no action followed. I am not self pitying but accepting of this aspect of my life.

I can have great sex without being emotionally involved. And I'm superbitch if I am celibate too long. I am not afraid of talking about any subject. A spade is a front-end-loader.

[Blue Babe]

Have you never given some one satisfaction without expecting anything in return? Relationships are about give and take from both parties. Find a happy middle ground that you occupy most of the time, but sometimes do something for your partner.

Too bloody often. In this day and age I expect a man to know how to pleasure a woman - if he cannot - he's down the road that damn fast - my ex husband wasn't even interested in learning - boy did he miss out on a lot. My last ex - only one part of the anatomy seemed to exist despite lovingly saying what I enjoyed - so satisfaction for me went out the window. I would stroke and massage him for ages - wd have enjoyed reciprocation but only happened about twice.

I have given up on relationships - my experiences have been too bad and they certainly have not been worth all the bullshit I have had to put up with. It seems to be an inbuilt mechanism in me to find the sickest fucktard and try and have a relationship with them. Ex husband alcoholic, last one a drug addict. Probably a murderer next!! It's true in my case to say woman pick men like their father - well I'm truly stuffed despite 11.5 years of working on myself!! Safer for me not to go there.

The one thing I have enjoyed about having a regular "buddy" is it is actually a more honest relationship - no crap - there's passion, excitement and fun every time we meet. Best I have ever had. My emotions are not involved, we respect each other, laugh chat flirt. And he even asks occasionally - are you still happy with our situation.

As far as I'm concerned - I'm missing out on nothing. I have never had a man be there for me emotionally i.e. when I'm sick, or need TLC, or if I am down, to just hug me or attend a funeral with me. I don't want a man to fix my problems, I'm more than capable of that but to understand and be there. I have never known true love in my life - I thought I did in my last relationship but that all proved to be a lie - he was not there for me when I was sick, down or lost loved ones. Sometimes the words were sd but no action followed. I am not self pitying but accepting of this aspect of my life.

I can have great sex without being emotionally involved. And I'm superbitch if I am celibate too long. I am not afraid of talking about any subject. A spade is a front-end-loader.

Couldn't have said it better My Self. One thing though it is awesome to have him there for all the emotional stuff too, when you're sick or what ever happens in ones life.