So what the hell is she moaning about then?....
In 2001 i moved from Rotorua to Papatoetoe....had no problem with the social life, lived by myself which was the hardest part cos i was used to a wife and 3 kids for 10 years prior....didnt grizzle about it, just got on with cos thats what had to happen, other wise ya end up in a 'poor me' space!
I wouldn't say you're over-reacting. Its perfectly normal to feel lonely/secluded in a brand new city. I felt what you're feeling when I first moved to Wellington. I had many friends in Palmy, and all of a sudden they weren't instantly there for me anymore. I felt depressed and I took it hard. It took a lot of adjusting but after a few months I started to get to know people. I found going into town with my flatmates helped a lot, you got to meet their friends, and their friends etc etc. Now I have great mates and life is good. Took a few months in the beginning but I got there.
Life always gets better! Being pro-active about your situation will change everything.![]()
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