
Originally Posted by
jrandom
Being the titular head of and bacon-bringer for a young middle income (singular) family myself, I have to say, it's beyond me too.
It's not any easier in Welly either. Gini and I sold our house in Johnsonville and bought out in Upper Hutt a year ago as the mortgage payments at $1600 a month were just not going to happen for us.
Once I take out child support payments for the kids that my ex won't hardly let me talk to, let alone see, I have a salary about the same as Greenhorn.
Then I have to feed, clothe and house the three of us (Gini, Tim, me and one on the way) and its not easy. Especially when you add horrendous lawyers bills to the mix. Hence why I ride an old shitter of a sports bike.
However, I get home at 4.30 each afternoon and get to spend much more time with the family. I used to have a job that paid $85,000 a year, plus carparking, medical, life insurance, lunches and other expenses. But I started work at 8 in the morning and very rarely got out before 8 at night. And it was stressful. So I took a nearly 50% cut in pay, lost my perks, and now I sleep at night. And life is simpler and much more fun.
Yeah, I'd like more money - who wouldn't? But I value my time more.
And I to my motorcycle parked like the soul of the junkyard. Restored, a bicycle fleshed with power, and tore off. Up Highway 106 continually drunk on the wind in my mouth. Wringing the handlebar for speed, wild to be wreckage forever.
- James Dickey, Cherrylog Road.
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