A girly issue

[BuFfY]

Well the doc said he was sorry for talking to mum and not me, he thought she had my permission, but she didn't. Makes mum feel like she is included so it is ok.
Some of the stuff he told me was kind of shocking and scary. I will be at the Southern Cross Hospital in Wairau, cause I have medical insurance. I have been talking to my associate and she said for me to do what ever I need to do. So I will most probably have my op next tuesday. Mainly cause I have the class to myself on wednesday and I feel it isn't enough notice to give the school.
He said it is important to go as soon as possible. I now have to have a colposcopy 6 months after this thing and then a smear every year for the rest of my life. he is only taking away the bad cells. They will most probably come back which is why I have to be so regular
No sex for 3-6 weeks. Not that I will want to! After being violated! I will be under general anaesthetic and will most probably take the next day off school as it can be quite painful.
Um... oh and I will most probably have to have a c section if I have bubbas, but atleast he is saying I can have them!!
So, BuFfY is slightly sad. but is being brave.

[Magua]

That hospital is just around the corner from a lot of us. If you want some visitors just let us know.

[klingon]

Buffy, I presume it is outpatient surgery - they aren't keeping you in overnight?

Please plan to take it easy on Wednesday. I would like you to at least talk to the school about not working that day. People get sick - it's just one of those things. And you will be sore and more than likely a bit miserable on Wednesday. You won't be doing anyone a favour by being there and not being at your best.

If you had suddenly caught the mumps they would have to find a replacement for the day. So they must be able to find a replacement for you while you recover from surgery!

[Curious_AJ]

omg, buffs. here for yooooouu!!!

and you be strong, you're a powerful lady AJ thinks so muchly.

and as mag said, if you want visitors, i'll be there in 2 seconds!

[Toaster]

So, BuFfY is slightly sad. but is being brave.

You already know what I think my friend. You are certainly in all our thoughts and have our best wishes as you go through all this.

You were an absolute pleasure to meet in person a while back. I hope I see that smiling face again one day. Take good care now. And yes you are brave. You rock BuFfy.

[Mystery]

He said it is important to go as soon as possible. I now have to have a colposcopy 6 months after this thing and then a smear every year for the rest of my life. he is only taking away the bad cells. They will most probably come back which is why I have to be so regular

Hey BuFfy

What Klingon said, please take some time to get over it! You may be really surprised at the emotional effect it has on you. The fear and worry leading up to the op and the releif of getting it done may take their toll so please give yourself a little break!

Specialists are always very careful to keep a close eye on things, it doesnt necessarily mean they will be back. I go for smears yearly after having bad cells removed 16 years ago and they have all been clear.

Be strong and stay positive hon Im here for you if you need to chat

[crashe]

BuFfy - Trust me on this ok.
I have been in and had (a few) day surgery(ies) in the past.... do NOT go to work/school on Wednesday.
Take that day off work... for one you are NOT allowed to drive for a couple of days. You will be sore and will not be wanting to put up with screaming delightful children. You need REST after this ok.

The general anesthetic makes you feel all funny for a few days.... afterwards.

Pyrocam - best you be reading this and listen to what I am saying and make sure she takes the Wednesday off.


The school/work will understand and they will get in a relief teacher for the day.

This is your life we are talking about here so rest up.

[BuFfY]

Yeah I am fairly sure I will be taking the wednesday off. My associate said for me to do what ever I need to do so that is nice of her.
Had a talk to dad today, text him and said can you ring I need to tell you some stuff. So he was slightly freaked! Made me realise that the general might mess me up more than I thought (seen as I have never had one I actually have no idea what to expect)
But yes, I do not think I will be much use at school the next day, especially seen as it is PE in the morning and then sport in the afternoon! So I will just lie on the couch and read a book and watch DVDs.

Oh and this might sound completely silly, but do they take your make up off when you go in? Like, can I wear it?

[007XX]

Yeah I am fairly sure I will be taking the wednesday off. My associate said for me to do what ever I need to do so that is nice of her.
Had a talk to dad today, text him and said can you ring I need to tell you some stuff. So he was slightly freaked! Made me realise that the general might mess me up more than I thought (seen as I have never had one I actually have no idea what to expect)
But yes, I do not think I will be much use at school the next day, especially seen as it is PE in the morning and then sport in the afternoon! So I will just lie on the couch and read a book and watch DVDs.

Oh and this might sound completely silly, but do they take your make up off when you go in? Like, can I wear it?

hey hun...I know it's scary, but you're going to be ok...Like everyone else said, you're strong, so keep your chin up...

I agree with Crashe in the fact that an op like that is going to have a mental as well as a physical effect on you. So take the time off, and don't bottle anything in...make sure to have family and friends there, but only if you want them there...

It is a time you will need to be selfish and think of number One first and foremost....

As far the makeup goes, your nurse or doctor should be able to let you know prior to the op...In my experience, it's best you take it off...Panda eyes when you get out of it is not the most attractive sight anyway!

Good luck Chicky, my thoughts will be with you on Tuesday.

[klingon]

My Little Sis had an op recently and I was amazed how much the general anaesthetic knocked her around. This was her second op so this time she had some idea of the side effects but it was still hard on her. And hard on me being by her bedside when she woke up and there was nothing I could do to make her feel better! Once a Big Sister, always a Big Sister!

As for the makeup, you will need to remove it, and also any nail polish on fingers and toes. They need to be able to see your proper skin tone as often that's one clue about your general health - eg if you're getting a rash or rosey cheeks or your extremities are a good pink colour or turning a bit blue!

There is no doubt about it, this experience will not be fun. But it will be worth every bit of discomfort to have the best possible outcome. I will be thinking of you all day.

Have a hug.

[MVnut]

All the best from the Mainland Buffy, we'll be thinking of you

[crashe]

Remove all make up...
Remove all jewellery as well - Thats watch, earings, rings and necklaces, ankle bracelets and bracelets oh and all studs (nose, eyebrow etc etc).


I have been under the knife a few times now......
3 nose jobs (due to a nasty break), a clean out inside with/including a camera and a full adominal Hysterectomy. So I know how you will be feeling after the operation.

If you are by any chance a shallow breather, make sure that they know this.
As this is very important in the recovery room. This is due to the oxygen levels that they need to get into you.

If you need to be placed on your which ever side after the op, let the nurse know this before hand and the reason why. (I have to be placed on my side after any operations due to a chronic bad back)

Take any med's that you are on, in with you, so that way they are aware of them. They will also ask if you are allergic to any med's etc...
The forms are very complex and you will be asked the same things over and over by different medical staff.

As they wheel you in they double check that you are you and what the op is for etc.

When they put the lure (needle) in your hand, start thinking nice thoughts like what a lovely day it is etc... do NOT swear when it goes in...... or when the anesthetic is going in you (it feels cold) cos if you do you are more likely to come out of it swearing like a trooper.......lol.

Afterwards, you will go into the recovery room until they left you go home (since you are only there for the day)...
If you feel sick at all let them know...... they can give you something to help you stop feeling sick..... unless its too late and you upchuck in a wee tiny bowl.
They wont let you go home unless they are happy with everything...

About 30 minutes before you go home then contact your driver to come and get you... they are allowed to park the car out front and they get downstairs to ring it throu that they are there.

If you need to know anything else, ask away or pm me.....

[buellbabe]

DO IT!!!!!!!!!

Buffy my doctor did the same thing... had me booked in before even ringing me. And yeah I also have to be tested every year...waiting for the results every year is a stressful experience but its been 7 years now and all good since the surgery.

Be thankful that something is being done. I know its a freakout but the alternative is NOT an option.

hang in there... sending positive thoughts your way

[Nasty]

All the best Buffy ... we are sending postive energies your way from Wellystown

[Paul in NZ]

Go for it.... Plenty of rest afterwards though because anytime you have general knock out (ok I cant spell anna whatever OK) it seems to linger for a long while... Sort of feel a bit crap for a few weeks...

Dr Paul says Definately take the following day off - I was a hero after my vastectomy and ended up with a bruised banana and a couple of black boy peaches - not nice...

Jeese but we live in an age of wonder eh? It would not have been possible a 100 years ago mate... probably would have ended up with the local witch doctor in a sweat box and stuffing a mustard filled gerbil up there .....

Actually that sounds kinda fun.....