Its something from the past that keeps kicking me in the teeth.. I can't fix it.. I've tried..Originally Posted by Fumeux
Hardcore Biker
Its something from the past that keeps kicking me in the teeth.. I can't fix it.. I've tried..
Hardcore Biker
of course u will.fix it..it takes time....without knowing it..you have a lot of friends here that are going to support u.take 2 KBs and a glass of water...iam sure your life will change for the better soon...Positive thinking
Hardcore Biker
How long do phone companies keep hold of phone records??? Conversations and all..? And are you able to simple request copies?
Backroads Blaster
Shit happens - I don't believe it happens for a reason, it just happens. The big difference between people is in their attitude to the things that happen and how they choose to react.
People warm to and want to help someone who is trying and keeps a positive attitude. The negative wingers all gather together and wallow in their own problems and will never change themselves until they change their attitude.
The future is first created in your mind and then in reality - if you don't think about a realistic plan for the future you want, then you will waste time extending the present that you are in.
You can change and deal with the problems you have - but take responsibility for it yourself rather than blaming others and relying on others. There will be changes you can make that will make a difference.
Don't let what you can't do stop you from doing what you can do - Sir Tim Wallis
Just faidin away!
When you look at the new day in the morning, only you can decide whether it is good or bad, it's an individual conclusion!
We have been married 43 years in what some might say is a perfect marriage but we could write your story above a thousand times over, it's called life!
There are good times and bad times, you just have to work out what you want out of life and then work even harder at making it happen!
What you think about, will happen, so be careful what you let your mind dwell on, let loose it will play tricks on you, so stay in control.
No one ever said it would be easy but you have to make it good management rather than just good luck.
Here's good luck from us anyway.Cheers John.
needs to work harder
Or is it that experience is wasted on the old? I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that it is the responsibility of us grey haired old gits (35 in my case) to pass on pithy insights that are valuable, short, and tested to destruction in our own lives. Sadly, the best I can come up with is an "Onion" article I've been thinking about for three days straight because it's true:
http://www.theonion.com/content/node/27698
But....
Bad things don't happen to bad people, the world would be a better place if they did. Some bad things just happen, and some are caused by arseholes. You just need to get away from them, I'm afraid. And I know it's not easy.
Kitty ... you're twenty ... you won't believe how many cool things are going to happen. You're on the crest of a great part of your life. Some of the shit you need to push through, some you need to get away from and some will pass of it's own accord. But you do need to keep rolling the dice - concentrate on living and give things a try even though they might go wrong. It's the key to a happy and fulfilling life, I'm sure of it.
Dave
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needs to work harder
Damn nearly forever. They don't know the contents of the conversation, unless you're being bugged and then they're unlikely to admit to it. You can get repeat bills but I would have thought the limit on this was about three months. Anything more and you'd need to extract them through some legal requirement.
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Hardcore Biker
The one major major issue.. I don't just blame someone else.. I also blame myself for letting things end up how they have..
Don't get me wrong.. I do take responsibilty... I work extremely hard compaired to most people my age.. Have done since I was 15.. I don't rely on others to fix my mistakes.. As mentioned, sometimes it just starts to wear you down..
I don't feel that it is whinging.. To me its opening up, and asking for advice which I have recieved ALOT and there has been a fair few things mentioned that I will now work on.. Things that I haven't thought about myself, and also things that I did think about but pushed into the back of my mind.. Why be ashamed in being honest?Fact is when you feel you need to ask for opinions or help, it is okay to do so.. Its nice to get advice from people who have had more experience in life than myself.. In my eyes, I'm still a child.. Everyday is a learning curve for me..
Advice can help you take huge steps forward... Instead of baby steps..
Backroads Blaster
Well good on you - but don't waste time on the blame thing either. The key thing is looking ahead and talking with people who can help you create a better future. As others have said in different ways you have to create that future every day and make choices about how you are going to react to the shit. It does sound like you've got a toughie to deal with and if so you need friends who can help you see a better future and create a path to it.
For the record I wasn't suggesting you were winging OK - just keep away from negative people
Don't let what you can't do stop you from doing what you can do - Sir Tim Wallis
needs to work harder
Ping! Is the correct answer!
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Last edited by Blondini; 14th July 2007 at 21:10. Reason: more lol xxx
Hibernating
every day when you wake up you have two choices .. you can look forward to the day & the lifes lessons its going to teach you .. or you can think of the past & drag that into your day
its called living postively or negatively ..
we all go through high stress periods .. I know how that feels at the mo .. but apart from giving into the stress for a week or so I still asked myself what is the lesson this is teaching me .. & I try to turn it into a positive .. no its not always easy & only those close to me will know when I am going through it ...
certainly something worth reading is "the secret: its so old its new again ..
Have to
Large Falcon Collider
I can't read all of this good advice but all I can say is that you can't do alot about the bad stuff thats out of your control. You can't be down on yourself for that stuff eh. Hope you feel better soon Kittie.
"If life gives you a shit sandwich..." someone please complete this expression
stormrider
Wow have you got it bad, give some details & mabey we can help
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