For the lonely ones on here: Biker Dating

[Waylander]

...hum...no I mean so many sooooo nice people here...but now find THE one is really a challenge for sure !

I've noticed relationships come when you stop looking, as MSTRS said and others have said.

[MSTRS:Me]

Not everything is a challenge but getting out of my comfort zone or habits I have had for a very long time become challenges to to overcome for me...Like Riding, meeting new people as i used to be shy and wait to be introduced, moving away and starting fresh. I have overcome these. So meeting someone that you want in your life like that to me is a challenge due to certain circumstances that have happened in my life.

When you have changed some major stuff in your life, it pays to let the dust settle before you add another change. One hurdle at a time, and don't get ahead of yourself.

[Stickchick]

When you have changed some major stuff in your life, it pays to let the dust settle before you add another change. One hurdle at a time, and don't get ahead of yourself.

Well said I suppose....Dam do you and Gixxer have to be so wise!!!!!

[yungatart]

Well said I suppose....Dam do you and Gixxer have to be so wise!!!!!

Nah, they not wise, they just old!!!!! (And me, I'm older than both of them)
But, actually what they say is true.
Don't go looking for your soulmate..when you are ready they will appear!
Just go out and have fun, live life to the fullest and enjoy what you have, rather than hankering for what you are "missing out on".

[Gremlin]

...hum...no I mean so many sooooo nice people here...but now find THE one (not sure he exists by the way lol) is really a challenge for sure !

maybe you should lower your standards

In my opinion you need to stop looking. Just go out and do what you enjoy doing. You will come across people with similar interests. They are the people you need to spend time with. Just stick around the groups of people doing your thing and you will find people you like.

HAH, I call bull!! I have tried this... and still have nada Just a bunch of wankers (mostly single) who hassle the shit out of me... no matter which bike I own.

Taking off the helmet is the mistake, isn't it?

[Str8 Jacket]

Finding them isn't hard. Finding good ones is the challenge.

Fuck yeah! Though Im not exactly a catch myself!!

[Xile]

I've noticed relationships come when you stop looking, as MSTRS said and others have said.

I agree with that...my point was just that I'm often dissappointed after some time with some boyfriends!

maybe you should lower your standards

Mine: has a bike among others lol (preferably a big one, but not too tall as I can touch the ground when I ride it)

[007XX]

maybe you should lower your standards

it's not having high standards that is the problem, it's having unreasonnable ones...

It just takes a while to adjust between the two and stay true to yourself.

[chanceyy]

I don't normally read any threads outside of meeting and events but fell over this one. I can't understand all the grief people have with this finding soul mates. In my opinion you need to stop looking. Just go out and do what you enjoy doing. You will come across people with similar interests. They are the people you need to spend time with. Just stick around the groups of people doing your thing and you will find people you like. Like minded people do similar things. They have friends and so on and so on.
You got to drop the "hunting for" thing and just get stuck in to life. Life is a great thing that is too precious to spend unhappy. You can never regain the last minute. So look up and ride the wave of life. Make life good for others and it comes back a hundred times better to you. Be like the warm sunny day and radiate out to others.
Don't come back with a lecture on what shit has gone down cos that is negative. I could do the same thing but you gota look passed that and look forward. Life is truly great. Ride if you love bikes. Just ride and do it.

Amen ..


One can never have enough freinds .. KB surely has given me some of those, great rides, great company, tons of fun ....

if it happens it happens ... no biggie cause there is always another ride tomorrow

[Waylander]

I agree with that...my point was just that I'm often dissappointed after some time with some boyfriends!

If it was easy would it be worth it?

[Xile]

If it was easy would it be worth it?

It's not hard to find someone, it's just hard to find someone good for you. Searching and meet lots of different people is a great part and I really do like it!
Suffering and making mistakes help you to grow up, learning from that and make you better (sounds like very weird TV programms sorry lol), but I want my reward now!!! Enough suffering for the moment...

[Waylander]

It's not hard to find someone, it's just hard to find someone good for you. Searching and meet lots of different people is a great part and I really do like it!
Suffering and making mistakes help you to grow up, learning from that and make you better (sounds like very weird TV programms sorry lol), but I want my reward now!!! Enough suffering for the moment...

Patience is a virtue or so I've been told.

[Toaster]

it's not having high standards that is the problem, it's having unreasonnable ones...

It just takes a while to adjust between the two and stay true to yourself.

Well said there 007... now pass me my Martini.

[Toaster]

A good man is hard to find. And a hard man....

Hey you been stalking me dude?! Its the viagra I tell ya!!

[Gixxer 4 ever]

You are a very wise person Chicky. You just need to believe in yourself. MSTRS and Tart have good life experience. A lot of the comments here are good. I have seen someone here with the tag line " Life is not a practise run" or similar. That is the key. The glass is half full. Rock on fellow riders.

Back to my little corner of KB.