the best weight is the weight that you're most healthy at, I think anyway.
being too fat OR too thin is not good for you... so eat, drink, be merry but do it in suitable amounts ^_^
psytrance junkie
the best weight is the weight that you're most healthy at, I think anyway.
being too fat OR too thin is not good for you... so eat, drink, be merry but do it in suitable amounts ^_^
"Take life one day at a time. Make mistakes. Learn from them. Come out a better person. Never regret the things that have gotten you where you are today."
Po ta toes
Yep, basically what I was getting at.Originally Posted by 007XX
Worth taking a good, long hard look at ourselves before throwing the stone, eh???
Agreed...surprising how many forget to do that
It's very easy to say "Geeze go on a diet and get some exercise" to someone who's overweight or "Eat a pie for Christ's sake" to someone who's underweight, but we don't know what has made that person that way really, and the reality is, would you say that to their faces, a stranger in the street? I know I wouldn't, it's none of my business, they may be happy the way they are, and if they're not, me going up to them and saying "geeze, here have my pie, you need it more than I do" is not going to make a blind bit of difference. Rant over.
psytrance junkie
here here!!
agreed with above statement!
"Take life one day at a time. Make mistakes. Learn from them. Come out a better person. Never regret the things that have gotten you where you are today."
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Righto...it is confirmed...I definitely wish to meet you when in Wellie nextYep, basically what I was getting at.
It's very easy to say "Geeze go on a diet and get some exercise" to someone who's overweight or "Eat a pie for Christ's sake" to someone who's underweight, but we don't know what has made that person that way really, and the reality is, would you say that to their faces, a stranger in the street? I know I wouldn't, it's none of my business, they may be happy the way they are, and if they're not, me going up to them and saying "geeze, here have my pie, you need it more than I do" is not going to make a blind bit of difference. Rant over.
and we'll have a pie, or a pizza, or whatever the heck we like
Po ta toes
Hehe, I reckon!! A pizza and a dozen Speights to celebrate my thunder thighs sounds good to me, what's your poison and affliction?Righto...it is confirmed...I definitely wish to meet you when in Wellie next
and we'll have a pie, or a pizza, or whatever the heck we like
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I'm afflicted with a less than satisfying occupation (read: my boss is a stressful, dispiriting twat)...Poison: JamiesonHehe, I reckon!! A pizza and a dozen Speights to celebrate my thunder thighs sounds good to me, what's your poison and affliction?
But I don't want to get this thread off the track, so I'll PM you further on this subject?
Girls, at any rate...you are worth more than anyone who is trying to bring you down. And anytime you have the need to chat, just get on line and I know everyone will be right behind you...
will swallow your soul
And guys, as there's absolutely no pressure to conform to an ideal an unattainable body image for you, you'd best just HTFU and stop eating pies. Or eat more pies. Or something.
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Oh, sorryAnd guys, as there's absolutely no pressure to conform to an ideal an unattainable body image for you, you'd best just HTFU and stop eating pies. Or eat more pies. Or something.
...I didn't mean to sound so gender specific. I guess I was just trying to answer the girl's stories as they'd hit home pretty sharply.
But by all means, please rest assured that I believe men to have a really tough time of it as well. They just don't speak of it as freely as we girls do, I guess.
We ALL struggle with our body image sometimes and all deserve an ear to listen to us in those moments.
I'm happy to be that hear for ladies or gents
will swallow your soul
I was yanking your chain, don't fret.
There's that, and I believe that men and women care differently about different things. By and large men have simpler insecurities.But by all means, please rest assured that I believe men to have a really tough time of it as well. They just don't speak of it as freely as we girls do, I guess.
Melicious
OMG.... ME TOO, I'll bring the pizza!... and a croissant!Hehe, I reckon!! A pizza and a dozen Speights to celebrate my thunder thighs sounds good to me, what's your poison and affliction?
A part of growing up is not trying to change yourself for anyone. Be happy with who you are. Beauty to me is on the inside. So many 'good looking' people have personaities of a dog, and in that makes them 'ugly' in my eyes.
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Hardcore Biker
yes but anyone who says looks dont matter is also a liar!
i wouldnt want to be caught dead in the same grave as me.
Hibernating
Agree with ya posts there Trudie girl .. my motto .. ppl either have to accept me as I am or fuck off ... simple really .. weight has always been an issue for me, & slowly but surely its coming off .. but every day is a struggle and can be frustrating esp when you want results more quicklyYep, basically what I was getting at.
It's very easy to say "Geeze go on a diet and get some exercise" to someone who's overweight or "Eat a pie for Christ's sake" to someone who's underweight, but we don't know what has made that person that way really, and the reality is, would you say that to their faces, a stranger in the street? I know I wouldn't, it's none of my business, they may be happy the way they are, and if they're not, me going up to them and saying "geeze, here have my pie, you need it more than I do" is not going to make a blind bit of difference. Rant over.
My g/f opposite end of spectrum she was far to skinny .. ate way more than I did & used to hate that everyone mentioned how skinny she was .. funny really .. two ppl polar opposites in weight & we both had our insecurities .. was great to be able to talk freely about it & understand where each person came from
also age is a great thing .. you really get past being self conscious & worrying about others opinions .. & you begin to really live your life ...
Have toKarma ... Justice catches up eventually !!
e mare libertas
You know what scares me?
18-year-old girls talking in the tone of middle-aged women looking back on a hard life.
Where's the innocence? Don't parents protect their kids any longer?
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Woof..
And yes, I agree
Hardcore Biker
thats all very well asking that, but then a lot of parents get told off for mollycoddling their kids too much!
either way, as said before, (by AJ i think) you cant bloody win!
i wouldnt want to be caught dead in the same grave as me.
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