Ex's partner

[jrandom]

What about a gun?

Graham just has to say the word.



And you'll be fine, G. Fortunately, the courts don't allow people to benefit from spewing random vindictive nonsense. The ex will be put in her place.

Hey, at least she's an ex. I hate to think what your life would be like right now if she was still hanging around. Silver linings, old bean.

[Grahameeboy]

Graham just has to say the word.



And you'll be fine, G. Fortunately, the courts don't allow people to benefit from spewing random vindictive nonsense. The ex will be put in her place.

Hey, at least she's an ex. I hate to think what your life would be like right now if she was still hanging around. Silver linings, old bean.

I am sure Judges are onto this.

A friend at Church is a well known Family Lawyer and can give me tips.\

Judge is gonna think that it is a bit odd that ex has waited all this time, rather, than soon after seperation and earlier this year I proposed a Parenting Agreement and so did she with some changes so funny she should chnage her mind eh?

[HenryDorsetCase]

Cannot afford a Lawyer but have a friend at Church who is a Family Lawyer who is giving me advice.

Dude can you afford NOT to have a lawyer?

[imdying]

You'll be right mate, they generally don't make idiots judges... the truth will set you free

[Grahameeboy]

Dude can you afford NOT to have a lawyer?

Well to cut a long story short, my Dad said he would pay my seperation legal costs and get a share of house and then changed his mind so I have a bill of $10,000 to pay off so on my wages I do not have any spare to pay any more costs.

If necessary my friend may help for free.

I know what you are saying, however, the ex's issues are petty ones, including twisting of events. I have had equal shared custody of Nats since June 2005 and my friend says that the Judge will not be so ready to change that.

I will enter defence, respond to her issues and ask for mediation and take from there.

I am more that I seem when it comes to important matters and have my faith which some may say is silly but at end of day we have equal share and ex will need a lot more to change the current status............

[Grahameeboy]

You'll be right mate, they generally don't make idiots judges... the truth will set you free

Exactly mate......if I end up not having a Lawyer the Judge will take that into account and not allow ex's Lawyers to dicate......

[MyGSXF:Me]

They generally don't make idiots judges... the truth will set you free

Exactly! I've just finished with another round (the 3rd) of court with my ex. I had a folder with many incidents written down , dated, photos etc.. proved to be invaluable! In court, be totally 100% open, honest & forthright, & focus on "the child" & the "impact" that the other people's actions are having on her.. ie: no mobility scooter for weekend, etc. Speak from "I".. ie: "I feel...." leave the shit dumping & accusations to them.. the Judge will see right through them & they will cut their own throats! Be resolute in up holding what is good & peace be with you.

Jen

[Grahameeboy]

Exactly! I've just finished with another round (the 3rd) of court with my ex. I had a folder with many incidents written down , dated, photos etc.. proved to be invaluable! In court, be totally 100% open, honest & forthright, & focus on "the child" & the "impact" that the other people's actions are having on her.. ie: no mobility scooter for weekend, etc. Speak from "I".. ie: "I feel...." leave the shit dumping & accusations to them.. the Judge will see right through them & they will cut their own throats! Be resolute in up holding what is good & peace be with you.

Jen

Yep not really kept a lot of stuff as you did other than the threatening texts for partner but I plan not to fingerpoint or cite partners actions unless he is a witness.
As I see it, situation not ideal, however, this way ex has shown her cards so I know what she is saying so I can respond and she has no tangible evidence and as I have had shared custody for over 2 years, the Judge will look at impact on Nats etc and knowing ex she will probably show more emotion than I do.....in essence her issues are petty and in my care Nats has not come to any harm etc.
Fact ex is pregnant and getting married is probably a reason.
The partner is a real !@#$%. I asked him for the cut out cushion for Nats stander but because he made it I cannot have it............says a lot eh......

[Patrick]

Is there a court appointed lawyer for Nats? Does she have any say???? Wish you well... If "he" does appear, hope you have it all documented as suggested long ago.... "you never know when you might need it" rings a bell. Good luck and when is the celebration/victory party?

[Grahameeboy]

Well have already got some evidence to say that I did not take Nats to Kindercare in light clothing in the winter as claimed by ex so a good start.

Seeing the Disablity & Health Advocacy re the problems I had with the Waitemata Dhb as ex has used this as affecting Nats..........

More crap texts from ex's partner saved.

Will let you know about party. All being well, I will have one.

The Court will appoint a Lawyer for Nats if it proceeds pass mediation which I am gonna request.

At this stage I have no lawyer as cannot afford it, but have a Lawyer friend giving me tips etc. He is just way too busy to help me further so will just play things by ear.

[Patrick]

At this stage I have no lawyer as cannot afford it, but have a Lawyer friend giving me tips etc. He is just way too busy to help me further so will just play things by ear.

What about Legal Aid?

[jahrasti]

What about Legal Aid?

Fuck yea, all the scrotes are pretty quick to get it. It might as well be used for someone that hasn't done a burg' or beaten up an innocent person or whatever.

[Patrick]

Fuck yea, all the scrotes are pretty quick to get it. It might as well be used for someone that hasn't done a burg' or beaten up an innocent person or whatever.

Bloody oath! Family Court Lawyers are usually a good bunch too so you know you're getting a good 'un...

[ynot slow]

Was going to say legal aid,sure as hell the ex will have it especially if her idiot guy is on the dole,surprising the income limits threshold I have been told,wish I knew that when my seperation was before the judge,unhelpful lawyer I had.

As you agree, the faith will help you win out,I have a strange sence of religion,but some people swear by it and if it helps you go for it,each their own.