Who enjoys sex more? Men or women?

[Kickaha]

Of course I try, I ask , I beg, I grovel daily, but it makes no difference!!

and sidecarbob still turns you down? come on Bob take a hit for the team

[RiderInBlack]

Been there and had the lack of sex problem with my ex-wife. MY advise is forget about the sex right now and work on ya relationship. If she is not interested in having sex with ya then there has to be something going wrong about how ya two feel about each other. 6.5years tells me ya are overdue for working it out. Work ya relationship out and the sex will come on it's own accord. "If it don't fit, don't force it".

[Blue Babe]

Shite!!
Thanks for the replies and PM's!!
But no one has mentioned how much they get!!

Of course I try, I ask , I beg, I grovel daily, but it makes no difference!! After 2 kids, shes turned off the taps!! Nothing more I can do. I have talked to numerous other guys about their situations also, and they're all in the same boat!! Mines been 6.5 years since she last gave me the come-on.
At what point do I stop bothering, knowing the answer is no!

Do woman that have loving, caring, monogamus husbands really want them to go and stray?? I'm starting to see that maybe there is greener grass over the fence.
I know of lots of guys who do the 'dirty', and I don't want to end up there!

Still depressed

I know how your wife feels after having two kids of my own. I was unlucky too, in the fact I had to have an episiotomy (Cut down below) for both my kids when they were born, so as you can imagine Sex was the very last thing on my mind. It took a lot longer for my sexual desires to come back & I found it very hard to instigate as I didn't feel very sexy. Sex was not our only problem, there was all sorts of other stuff going down as well. Coming to NZ 8yrs ago was supposed to help our marriage but after 4yrs here it finally came to an end....(Relationship councilling may well have helped if we'd seeked help alot sooner, but he wouldn't see one) The thing is when He came any where near me Or I went for a cuddle it was like his eyes lit up & he rubbed his hands (figuratively) & thought ooooh I'm in today.
I'm very much a touchy feely sort of girl & like to hold hands or cuddle with out the sex every time , but with my ex I couldn't go near him for support.
Today, I have a wonderful man who shows me love & caring. I have rediscovered Sex & being sexy all over again & have alot of fun with it etc. I'm not made to feel inadequate. (I'm now a 2-3 or more times a week girl )
If you LOVE your wife, then sit her down & talk to her find out what is bothering her, Get Help if you think your relationship is worth saving. 6.5yrs is way too long to let it go like this. I was married 17yrs & I'm afraid the last 10yrs were like yours, which is very sad as I feel I've wasted alot of time being miserable.
Straying is the last thing you should do as it will destroy what ever you have left as well as both family's, kids etc.
Remember it takes two to Tango & maybe you have a fault or two as well as your wife.

[Blue Babe]

Shite!!
Thanks for the replies and PM's!!
But no one has mentioned how much they get!!

Of course I try, I ask , I beg, I grovel daily, but it makes no difference!! After 2 kids, shes turned off the taps!! Nothing more I can do. I have talked to numerous other guys about their situations also, and they're all in the same boat!! Mines been 6.5 years since she last gave me the come-on.
At what point do I stop bothering, knowing the answer is no!

Do woman that have loving, caring, monogamus husbands really want them to go and stray?? I'm starting to see that maybe there is greener grass over the fence.
I know of lots of guys who do the 'dirty', and I don't want to end up there!

Still depressed

I was wondering if You've started getting things sorted with your lovely wife??
Nothing has been said for ages & I'm very curious. If you can't say that's ok too, but I hope it has or at least something has happened, so you guys are bit happier with your lives etc