
Originally Posted by
marty
all this reminds me of a situation that we had at work not too long ago. i'll call her *mary*. my section (and others) had daily dealings with a girl who was bi-polar, and tried to kill herself, usually by cutting her wrists, on a weekly basis. she would get ambo'd up to a&e, stitched up, and left to walk home. often the hos[pital would call us to pick her up, but she would run off before we got there. mental health wouldn't take her as she was 'supposed' to be on meds, and if she didn't take them she couldn't be forced to.
after about 6 months of these games, ambos and police started to ignore her, or at least decline to go to her address, or to the phone box where she was calling 111 saying she was going to kill herself. this was because on our arrival, often after breaking away from another job, she wouldn't be there - we would find her hiding in the bushes nearby, usually bleeding from where she had picked the previous day's stitches out. she would always spit at us and fight with us, saying that her death would be on our conscience, and demanding us to take her to a&e. we'd take her there - she'd run off, trailling blood after her. she would always call 111, and tie up cops and call takers for hours with her games. as the police were the bottom of the food chain, we always ended up dealing with her, as she would become publicly disordlerly if she was ignored. we couldn't keep her in the cells, as she wasn't really committing criminal offences, and being suicidal is a significant precurser for not being held in police custody, unless remanded by a judge. then one day we arrived at her address, to find her sitting in a chair in the lounge. she knew all the guys and girls by name. we walked into the room, she had a kitchen knife stabbed in her stomach - about 5 cms in. she said 'watch this', and pushed in in all the way to the hilt. holy fuck it was impressive to say the least. naturally we rushed her up to a&e, they stiched her up, they rung us to take her home as when she woke up she was going off, but by the time we got there she had run off. we found her later that night 1/2 dead in bushes, having picked her stiches out, and trying to pull her intestines out. back to a&e..........you get the picture. mental health still not able to take her, due to the constraints on them by the mental health act. she then found that carbon monoxide poisoning was fun to try. now CO is dangerous. it attaches to haemoglobin, and prevents O2 from being absorbed. it's effects are cumulative, and it is a silent killer. over a period of about a month she would call 111 from inside her car, telling us that she was going to gas herself. we would go out, pull her out of the car (which was running on occasion), take her up to the hospital. mental health wouldn't touch her, as she was 'only' suicidal, and with CO poisoning she needed decompressing in the navy chamber at devonport before they would assess her anyway. then one night her friend called us, and said that had been talking to *mary* and that *mary* told her that she was going to gas herself. her friend didn't know where she was. with a grain of salt we looked for *mary* however we couldn't find her. unsurprisingly she turned up at her flat about an hour later. we talked to her - she told us to fuck off. during the night though, in her sleep, she died. the pm showed from cumulative CO poisoning.
guess who got the blame for *mary's* death - their house firebombed, driveway/cars tagged, death threats?
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