I'd take the kid to a museum and look at some big ass bones all wired together to form a skeleton of one of them big reptiles!
The young man can make his own mind up about their existence!
Thems real bonnafide calciferous bones mate
I'd break the guys leg if it were me. That's your damned son not the god blokes kid.
of course a jolly cup of tea and a wee chin wag would be the mature 'first' course of action. maybe you could slip the option of a broken femur into the discussion?
I thought a "mark in the sand" was necessary. I could have gone back and retrospectively moved posts to the Scottish thread, and may still do so if the topic varies away from how best to impart one's values onto a child that does not live with one.
At least my post succeeded in attracting some bitter red rep from my fan club. Happy New Year!
"Standing on your mother's corpse you told me that you'd wait forever." [Bryan Adams: Summer of 69]
Tell the boy that if he becomes a god botherer everyone will think he is a fairy.
The very reasons why religion every sunday for me is a turn off...My beliefs are just that Mine, I dont force on others and they sure as heck dont force them on me.
Fubar, Could I ask you to sit down with your child and ask him what he wants to believe, don't tell him your way is right and the ex`s new man is wrong....give him the power to choose.
Also if you are still stewing over the problems you are having with the ex`s man , ask yourself what the problem is ...and then ask yourself again ...But what Is the real problem.
And if its still there , then a conversation with him not the ex, (you should never tell someone else to stop doing something you don't like through others),
Would be the only way to go....do this on neutral ground, at a cafe...shopping mall...somewhere where you wont be tempted to knock his block off on account of witnesses....
Conversation and communication......Has to be a 2 way thing...if he starts yelling ,suggest to him that when hes calmed down , you will continue the conversation when he`s calm again , likewise don't go off half cocked and pre-judgemental.
These are just thoughts and opinions, take of these what you want , ignore them if you must.
Hope it all turns out best for Your boy.
Ps remember this is not about you or your ex and her man, it should be about your child`s wants and needs.
Mate its 2008, its time you mods all just relaxed and enjoyed the ride; us mere mortals just waffle on about all sorts of stuff, so why not just let it happen and friendships will blossom. You don't need no stinken red rep, let it flow and the green will follow.
Happy new Year.
As for the topic, what does the ex think - is she happy with the boy learning this stuff? If so this is not an easy situation to beat. Explain your side of it and if necessary let it go. He'll make up his own mind I am sure.
Cheers
Merv
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