Wanted: a serious relationship

[Grub]

so... if there are single guys over 50 here who are looking for a serious relationship thats not entirely sex based,....

Go get 'em girl! I like your style

[Steam]

A 22yo biker girl,
not too worried re his looks,
searching for someone who is of age up to, what, 55?
He should have a bike

And there is no takers????

No, she'd prefer a guy who is OVER 55. Which - apart from the venerable gents Hitcher and Ixion - pretty much rules most men here out. Oh, Paul in NZ is fairly oldish too. Or maybe it's just that he likes old bikes.

I thought Sunhuntin was in her 50's because she asked for 50's, but I guess it's a fetish, or just a preference.
Good luck Sunhuntin!
Wrinkly rules!

[slowpoke]

so... if there are single guys over 50 here who are looking for a serious relationship

just another thought, applicants dont have to be over 50... just a nice guy who is true, honest and loyal.

At risk of wearing out the older man jokes: I'm guessing over 50 the heart condition is preferred....and under 50 the heart condition is mandatory?

Nah, whatever turns your tyres girl, go for it.

[Paul in NZ]

I thought Sunhuntin was in her 50's because she asked for 50's, but I guess it's a fetish, or just a preference.
Good luck Sunhuntin!
Wrinkly rules!

I think a fetish has to be associated with an inanimate object - it can't be people.. (not sure)

However - if you are wanting a serious relationship - seeking an odd one with an older gent may not be the best place to start - find a nerdy type - honest, employable, grateful and nice... If we find one I'll give you a holler, it's not easy, specially in a smaller city..

[Nasty]

I think a fetish has to be associated with an inanimate object - it can't be people.. (not sure)

However - if you are wanting a serious relationship - seeking an odd one with an older gent may not be the best place to start - find a nerdy type - honest, employable, grateful and nice... If we find one I'll give you a holler, it's not easy, specially in a smaller city..

Thanks for clearing that up Paul .. I was sure that I knew all my fetishes and that living with the Grub was not one of them.

[Steam]

I think a fetish has to be associated with an inanimate object - it can't be people.. (not sure)

I was sure that I knew all my fetishes and that living with the Grub was not one of them.

Hmm... interesting. How about an overwhelming attraction to short people, hence Dwarf Porn.
Or... um... cowgirls. Or Asian babes. That's kind-of a fetish, and also directed towards people.

[Hitcher]

That's kind-of a fetish, and also directed towards people.

And sometimes even woolly ungulates.

[Conquiztador]

I have this thing for females and bikes (preferably together). Could that be considered a fetish??

[The Lone Rider]

How many men over 50 get with a 20 something girl for any reason other then the fact of knowing he's tapping a young girl?

I could say, get with guys your own age. But they only want sex to.

Have you tried women? I hear thats pretty interesting.

[sunhuntin]

How many men over 50 get with a 20 something girl for any reason other then the fact of knowing he's tapping a young girl?

I could say, get with guys your own age. But they only want sex to.

Have you tried women? I hear thats pretty interesting.

chicks taste funny... or maybe it was just that one, lol.

my two greatest loves have both been over 50... one was 53 when we met. i was 19, he was my first for basically everything. i would have married him if he had asked. i still love him dearly. my second... well, im just beginning to get over. im still holding a candle for him, and will for a few more days. i wish it could have worked, but, such is life.

all the guys in between have ranged in age from a few years to a few decades older than myself. young guys dont want anything serious [so it would seem] and are generally not my type... they are more interested in drinking and flirting than anything else. ive also got this crazy idea that older men might be more reliable than the young ones, but thats slowly being dispelled.

and as for those thousands of replies, ive had 4 so far, and only one showed anything other than sympathy.

[Chickadee]

chicks taste funny... or maybe it was just that one, lol.

my two greatest loves have both been over 50... one was 53 when we met. i was 19, he was my first for basically everything. i would have married him if he had asked. i still love him dearly. my second... well, im just beginning to get over. im still holding a candle for him, and will for a few more days. i wish it could have worked, but, such is life.

all the guys in between have ranged in age from a few years to a few decades older than myself. young guys dont want anything serious [so it would seem] and are generally not my type... they are more interested in drinking and flirting than anything else. ive also got this crazy idea that older men might be more reliable than the young ones, but thats slowly being dispelled.
and as for those thousands of replies, ive had 4 so far, and only one showed anything other than sympathy.

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Hey don't give up on a younger fella, there are some younger decent guys that are looking for something more serious than a casual bonk. I met my guy when I wasn't looking - complete fluke, just broken up from my 6 year relationship, complete waste of 6 years if you ask me! Been married nearly 8 years now, never thought I'd be a Mum and I've got two kiddies now. The good ones are out there, I'm just saying don't write off certain generations, it's nice to have someone to grow old together with, if they're significantly older the sad truth is they'll probably pass before you (& probably will need little blue pills to keep the romance going). Hope you find a good fella (no matter the age or package he comes in).

I've met a lot of younger than 50's over the years that are looking for the one, they tend to be around age 30-40 when they think about getting serious. I feel for the nice guys I meet that are looking for love, many ladies are looking for a guy to change - they're looking for the edgy bad boy (who generally breaks their heart in the end) and the keepers get left on the shelf.

Hope love finds you in 08 Biker Angel!

[Bren]

Sunhuntin, love seems to come when you are not looking for it, and it seems to me that pain is all you get when you are looking for love. You have plenty of years on you to find Mr Right....I was 35 before I found my wife.
Have fun while you are in your 20s. Enjoy those years, live those years as they only come once... Love will find a way to you when the cupid is good'n'ready and all loaded...

[The Lone Rider]

I always feel weird with odd aged couple, just never see how the 20-40 year age difference could work for anything more then a pin up.

Maybe in the end it's just the guys you pick, avoid people with bikes for starters?

Could also try moving to a different city or town? Christchurch seems fairly scarce for women my age except for ones that you would in no way want to take home to meet the parents (just thinking about myself here), so a change of scenery could be a goer.

Or make a willing choice and be single and with no one at all. Don't even try to find dates.

[McJim]

Looking for love on KB? Methinks you are looking in the wrong place.

Just my opinion though - best of luck.

[sunhuntin]

I always feel weird with odd aged couple, just never see how the 20-40 year age difference could work for anything more then a pin up.

Maybe in the end it's just the guys you pick, avoid people with bikes for starters?

Could also try moving to a different city or town? Christchurch seems fairly scarce for women my age except for ones that you would in no way want to take home to meet the parents (just thinking about myself here), so a change of scenery could be a goer.

Or make a willing choice and be single and with no one at all. Don't even try to find dates.

ive only dated 3 guys with bikes... and an unknown number without. if i met the right guy, id consider moving towns. i was tossing around the idea of moving... i almost asked for a job application last time i was there.

before the last guy, i was single for about 7 months... therefore, my heart was ready for love.