So: are KB women bitches?

**jazbug5** · 3rd January 2008, 10:57

Serious question, or at least a subject that deserves some serious debate. (Ah.. who am I kidding this is KB!)

Been thinking about this over the last few days; while a certain 'nympho' was making her debut on KB, a similar drama was playing out on another UK forum I occasionally frequent. There, a girl posted a stream of pictures she had taken of herself in fairly provocative, revealing poses, got a lot of attention and then was then joined by another girl who wanted everyone to know that she was a hobby pole dancer, and possibly interested in some girl-on-girl action. Cue much attention, obviously. What was interesting was that the critics there were also all male- mainly accusing them of sad attention whoring and yawnsomeness. This may be because there are fewer women on there- or that they've seen it all before. Who knows?

Now, here on KB I *think* that it was mainly women that had a problem with nympho's approach, and historically (because let's not forget, this really ain't a new thing) there's been a similar reaction. Then guys jump in and immediately accuse the women who are critical of suffering from sour grapes (and other tired cliches) - and, surprise, surprise, the girl herself will apologise for being so damned hot that she's upset the hairy lesbians.

Now, I don't honestly think that jealousy is what is behind the irritation for many of us, though I'm fully prepared to believe that there's some wrong on the side of the critics (it is a free world, after all). I think there's room for debate on both sides. Given that nympho's a Psychology type, and clearly intelligent enough to hold her own*, I'd genuinely like to see some input from her on what she feels the dynamic is here and elsewhere.

So: what do you folks think?

* No pun intended

**Str8 Jacket** · 3rd January 2008, 10:58

Im a Bitch.....

**koba** · 3rd January 2008, 11:00

Originally Posted by Str8 Jacket

Im a Bitch.....

Yes. Certainly

**enigma51** · 3rd January 2008, 11:00

If the shoe fits .......

**janno** · 3rd January 2008, 11:03

I'd say this site is a fair representation of human interaction and relationships in the real world. Nothing new under the sun and all that. . . so your question of are KB women bitches - no more or less than the general population, I'm thinking.

**jazbug5** · 3rd January 2008, 11:12

Hmm. Perhaps I should clarify.

What I meant was, why is it that so many of us (and I'm afraid I include myself here to an extent) find newbies who flash their cleavage and openly tout for male company and a spot on a pillion seat so irritating?
I don't mean are women on KB actually 'bitches' per se- just that that was implied by those who support the approach.

Edit: and I imagine that the same sort of thing happens in general in Meatspace, too- but perhaps people are more inclined to have a pop online rather than bitch behind someone's back.

**spookytooth** · 3rd January 2008, 11:14

what ? how'd i miss her

**enigma51** · 3rd January 2008, 11:15

Originally Posted by jazbug5

What I meant was, why is it that so many of us (and I'm afraid I include myself here to an extent) find newbies who flash their cleavage and openly tout for male company and a spot on a pillion seat so irritating?

I think you should just try and do a better job and compete against them

**Stickchick** · 3rd January 2008, 11:16

Maybe I have a different view on life as I don't find someone that knows what they want and just ask outright for it irritating. Confident to the point of arrogant but not irritating.

**Disco Dan** · 3rd January 2008, 11:20

Met a few people (especially while at uni) that were only interested in me for my bike. When I lent my spare set of bike gear to a friend for a few weeks, the 'friends' were no-where to be seen.

Thats only indicative of the shallow minded young university girls - not necessarily any women on here.

It is nice that women are impressed by a motorbike, but anyone could go out and buy one... It's like being impressed by someone having a pink fluffy pencil case!

Bottom line - there are women that are just as shallow as some men. Thats a fact!

Re: Nympho - well I honestly turned up expecting to find Finn in a frock and padded bra...

Im off to get popcorn.. this could get interesting.

**sidecar bob** · 3rd January 2008, 11:28

There's definitely a percentage of gold digging hoe's on here, But i have also met some people through KB that are pure gold, so to answer the question in the title, id say KB is no different to society in general.

**Mom** · 3rd January 2008, 11:37

Originally Posted by Str8 Jacket

Im a Bitch.....

Lets not start this up again Hels, we all know I am......LOL

Live and let live is my thing really, does not bother me at all. I actually find it entertaining to see what happens when a newbie posts up all hot to trot!