Sexual question

**trump-lady** · 8th January 2008, 14:30

Ok I dunno where to put this but its directed at females. Me and a couple of my friends were talking in the weekend over some drinks, as you do we started talking about sex. The ages ran from 19 to 36. Anyways many of the 30 and overs said they were having a sexual revival and found themselves thinking of sex ALL THE TIME and no longer (many are single) looking for partners just one night flings. I was laughing bacause I find my self looking at men and just wondering hmmm wonder what he would be like and I have never been like that before. (Im 31) I dont wanna date em, I dont even wanna talk to them I just wanna see. God is that what men are like 24-7!

Is this an over 30 thing? Even if your in a relationship, kids etc does this happen to you, or am I and do I just hang out with freaks!

We came up with this in general of course

Teens to 20s. You do it cause ur spose to and prob for all the wrong reasons.
25 to 30 you actually like it, know what you want and are not scared to ask any more and try to get yours before he gets his
30s your just over the sex is for love and you just wanna bone and get off cause now u know how and are totally selfish and for once you finish first and fall asleep snoring. You also hope hes not there when you wake up.
40s.....there were none so I dunno.
Tell me your ideas....

**Number One** · 8th January 2008, 14:41

Hmmm I have also been wondering this myself as my 'appetite and kinky mindedness' has certainly 'increased'...I just turned 30 in October and funnily enough while I have always 'liked and enjoyed it' I have never felt quite so 'up for it' as I seem to in the last couple of months.

Having babies certainly dampens things for a while - my boy is now four so I wonder if it isn't a little about I finally have caught up on sleep enough to have the energy to be interested or maybe it is my body clock asking for more bairnes...

Either way it's lotsa fun and I seem to be totally over the - it has to be about the love...i know we love each other now lets just
GIT IT ON!!! In saying all this btw I have never been the one night stand girl - I don't just root, there has to be a connection for me to be remotely interested in letting someone in my knickers. Right I have bared enufff...back to pretending to get some work done

**nadroj** · 8th January 2008, 14:44

Latest category seems to be 'friends with benefits'.

**trump-lady** · 8th January 2008, 14:46

Originally Posted by Number One

lets just
GIT IT ON!!! In saying all this btw I have never been the one night stand girl - I don't just root, there has to be a connection for me to be remotely interested in letting someone in my knickers. Right I have bared enufff...back to pretending to get some work done

Agreed. Im not either never have been...... but I think about it alot as of late and thinking just pops into my head from nowhere and out of the aprox 10 single women (2 of the over 30) took home and I presumed bonked guys under the age of 25....haha
These are smart very attractive educated women I have known for years and never seen them this way.

ok so Im quite a normal over 30 year old......

**trump-lady** · 8th January 2008, 14:48

Originally Posted by nadroj

Latest category seems to be 'friends with benefits'.

Yes exactly. When your under 30 you hate that concept but it looks like over 30 thats how you want it.....
If your not in a relationship of course.
Even if you are you STILL think about it

**99TLS** · 8th January 2008, 14:49

do they want phone # ?

**jrandom** · 8th January 2008, 15:07

It's definitely an over-30 thing.

All the women around that age that I've dated and/or shagged have been randy as anything. The young women (late teens, early 20s, etc) are generally a lot more frigid. They may claim to like and/or want sex, but when it comes down to it you can tell that they're really not all about it.

During the course of my one long-term relationship I noticed the woman in question develop a huge additional amount of sexual awareness and desire between 17 and 27.

Something to do with hormones, probably. The girl plumbing just seems to work better once it gets past a certain age. Beats me why. Probably all in the mind.

Women are weird.

**scumdog** · 8th January 2008, 15:13

The scary thing is: It goes on until at least 50+...or so I've been told.

Maybe because by then it's purely for FUN.. no baby thing to think about/worry about??

**Mom** · 8th January 2008, 15:14

Yeah I reckon it only really kicks in at 40 myself....

**trump-lady** · 8th January 2008, 15:18

The scary thing is: It goes on until at least 50+...or so I've been told.:shutup

LOL SCARED
AND THEN MOM ADDS IT GETS WORSE AT 40
I MIGHT BE A RAPIST BY THEN WITH A BAND OF THUG WOMEN FRIENDS TO HOLD DOWN THOSE 25 YEAR OLDS WITH ABS.......

WHAT DOES MAHA HAVE TO SAY HEHEHEHEHE

**nodrog:Me** · 8th January 2008, 15:19

sounds like you hang out with some right slappers

**enigma51** · 8th January 2008, 15:24

I have theory as the ladies get older and the pirkie bits are not so perky they realize use it or loose it much the same idea for the blokes it only starts at birth for them ....... a 30 year head start

**007XX** · 8th January 2008, 15:25

For once I'm in two minds wether to post or not in a thread about sex...

*I think I just heard Hitcher fall off his chair*

**trump-lady** · 8th January 2008, 15:27

Disagree cause Im much more secure with my bits even though they were 100 percent better when I was younger. Im not saying "doing it" Im saying think about sex more when your over 30. Even if your in a relationship....think does not mean do. Shit I think about robbing a bank and winning lotto. It never happens though......