Successful sex is not about yourself. (unless you are masturbating)
It is all about studying your partners needs, learning what they want and how to do it for them, time after time after time.
When they want it, how they want it, how fast they want it, how slow they want it, the list goes on and on.
When you think you have worked it all out, start again and approach it all from a completely new.....well...whatever!
The opportunities are endless! (and rewarding)
Fantasies are just our ability to think outside the square and dream up new ideas.
Enjoy them, they are fun but can go quite pear shape when you try to introduce them to reality.
Be careful, there can be high risk involved the more inventive we become!![]()
Like the best cowboys, they are the ones who get off their horse, drop the reins and the horse doesn't run away!
When the cowboy moves away, the horse follows him.
Why?
Because it wants to be near him, their relationship has been too good for either of them to want to leave it, they are partners for life.
Why mention horses?
Because women and horses are very similar in their loyalty, love and affection.
love, respect and appreciate them and they will always be good to you and return it in spades, abuse them, or that trust and they can become your worst nightmare.
Work on your relationship always, you only get out what you put in but of course, nobody said it would be easy. Good luck!Cheers John.
Seems a pretty fair assessment to me. You have to love the vision created by his last sentenceOriginally Posted by Dr Andrew Bloom M.D. PhD, BPsych
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remember30 = DIRTY 40 = NAUGHTY
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Right on the money. If just sex was what it was all about then I'd use sex workers rather than have a relationship.
For me, I have had a better sex life in my 30's and 40's. This has been because the Women that have been my partners start to value guys like me better than they did as teens (when all they could think about was getting it with the "popular" guy). Also I had gain more confidence in myself.
As for sex, for me, if ya want me ta "get it up", then it helps if ya make me feel wanted. Ex-wife found that out the hard way. After months of turning down my advances, she decided that she "wanted it". Too bad she had chosen a night that I was dog tired. She had not put in any "fore play" ether. Just lying in bed and decide she wanted it. What she got was "Ya making me feel like a dildo", which went down like a ton of bricks. The moral of the story is: "If ya want ya partner ta want you, then make them feel wanted". Works both ways. Guys are not "up for it" 24/7. Timing and atmosphere does play a big part for us too.
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"Whole life balance, Daniel-San" ("Karate Kid")
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Go Megan!!! Interesting aspect on the subject. However, I would
doubt it is making the entirety of it. I strongly think there is a hormonal portion, which is something I'm pretty sure has been already scientifically proven. We girlies "peak" our sexual prime in our 30s. Our bodies see to that by releasing greater amounts of hormones, turning us into little hornbags
Gosh! Don't ya just looooooove Mother Nature???
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I embrace with vigour my atheism...(no disrespect intended to any believers of any religion admonishing virginity before marriage btw...each to their own).
My lady!Peverted? no such thing! I believe it is called being healthy love, the little voices can lead you to all sortsof yummy places![]()
Grubby girl!Mebe...but only cos I'm a little more comfortable talking about it...your head's as good as mine I would say
MasterI bow to thee awesomness...
Zen wisdom: No matter what happens, somebody will find a way to take it too seriously. - obviously had KB in mind when he came up with that gem
Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity
sex for life ......
30 = dirty (yay me!)
40 = naughty
50 = nifty (and thrifty?!)
60 = sexy
70 = heavenly
80 = racey. And perhaps medicated ....
OK some don't rhyme but it's the thought that counts. Who wants to come to an orgy in a rest home in 2048...........???
Get over it! Sheesh, them men and their fragile little egos...Just as well I don't call you a BR again then eh? (
ya buddy!)
And it'll go there wether you like it or notIt's called Human Nature.
Tried that...it's lethal and I wouldn't recommend it to the unitiated...something a little off putting about finding yourself entangled in each other's limbs and a netting material, with a sudden hitch you can't reach and mozzies attacking tender bits, which are by then even further out of reach...
We who? Sorry, but I didn't identify with it that much...Gave me lots of giggles though.
I can partly see where you're coming from with some of these statements, but I can't totally agree however. I've never thought of men as my sex toys, I've never seen sex as a baby making process (although I have a son), seeing it as such I am told would be a sure fire way of killing the passion. But eh, that's just me...I'd hate to generalise too much
Oh how I like your thinking!
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but Then again 29 year olds are great they knows just what I like.
Thanks shane
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
Running over the same old ground.
What have you found? The same old fears.
Wish you were here. QWQ
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