Sexual question

[Bikernereid]

I would say that the UK is the same for over prescribing meds but they are slowly curbing prescriptions for the simplist of drugs such a pain killers!!

There is nothing better than a good teacher and an open relationship where variety can be discussed and new things practised!! Conversation can be the greatest of sex aid and a bloody good turn on too. There is nothing better than trying something someone has suggested and getting it right!!

You go girl and I bet he is EXTREMELY pleased to have met you too!!

Trust me Im teaching him....he will leave me a very able to please man.....
Theres a wee bit of med history there also which may be why the doctor gave it up so easily. Totally with you 007xxx over prescribed meds is a huge issue esp in USA. I didnt ask him too he went by himself and didnt discuss it with me and I woulda said dont do it, but Im kinda glad he did

[007XX]

Trust me Im teaching him....he will leave me a very able to please man.....
Theres a wee bit of med history there also which may be why the doctor gave it up so easily. Totally with you 007xxx over prescribed meds is a huge issue esp in USA. I didnt ask him too he went by himself and didnt discuss it with me and I woulda said dont do it, but Im kinda glad he did

Yeah sorry mate, I really didn't mean to sound like I was giving you guys a hard time.

I'm glad to know it is not being used as a quick fix. If it can reassure you, I've been there too, but it is amazing how much communication and coaching can do to make things perfect.
So keep up the good work, and coach that young one into a purebred

[trump-lady]

Yeah sorry mate, I really didn't mean to sound like I was giving you guys a hard time.

I'm glad to know it is not being used as a quick fix. If it can reassure you, I've been there too, but it is amazing how much communication and coaching can do to make things perfect.
So keep up the good work, and coach that young one into a purebred

Nah not at all....your right. Over meds is a huge problem.

It really has help build his confidence and it only last for 4 hours and Ive noted when he doesnt have it now hes still good to go (OMG HE WILL KILL ME IF HE SEES THIS!) I think its quite intimadating for a 24 year old to be with a 30 year old anyways. We are how can I say it..... not like anything that age has encountered before hehehehe. But I am creating a very good lover and quite proud. Ive told him im preparing him for the next one but he doesnt seem ta wanna go anywhere so must be doing something right outside of the bedroom too

[007XX]

Nah not at all....your right. Over meds is a huge problem.

It really has help build his confidence and it only last for 4 hours and Ive noted when he doesnt have it now hes still good to go (OMG HE WILL KILL ME IF HE SEES THIS!) I think its quite intimadating for a 24 year old to be with a 30 year old anyways. We are how can I say it..... not like anything that age has encountered before hehehehe. But I am creating a very good lover and quite proud. Ive told him im preparing him for the next one but he doesnt seem ta wanna go anywhere so must be doing something right outside of the bedroom too

Awesome stuff!!!

[jrandom]

I am creating a very good lover and quite proud. Ive told him im preparing him for the next one but he doesnt seem ta wanna go anywhere so must be doing something right outside of the bedroom too

You're sounding like a condescending, demanding bitch.

If I was 'seeing' a woman and she posted publicly on the internet about my sexual performance without checking with me first, she'd be a hair's breadth away from getting her presumptuous arse kicked right out the door.

Jesus.

Some people.



I'll bet he really loves hearing that stuff about how you're 'training him up', too. Great way to make a man feel secure.

[007XX]

Oh boy! Here we go again...Should never have fed him sugar over the weekend

[trump-lady]

You're sounding like a condescending, demanding bitch.

If I was 'seeing' a woman and she posted publicly on the internet about my sexual performance without checking with me first, she'd be a hair's breadth away from getting her presumptuous arse kicked right out the door.

Jesus.

Some people.



I'll bet he really loves hearing that stuff about how you're 'training him up', too. Great way to make a man feel secure.

Thankyou
He does come on here so chances are he will see it. He is quite open to what I have to say on the matter OF SEX and I would say appreciates that I can communicate with him about such things. Im sure it would be far more condescending to say how bad he is which I never have. I would also be a bitch if I had negative things to say however never told him what my problems are, which again I dont. If you go through my post about him on this thread you will see how many times I say I am pleased and get pleased by him. A compliment I would think.

I tell him perhaps more than any other woman in his past life what I want and also listen to what he wants. I think if you spoke to him he would tell you the same thing that our communication is key here and because of it we have become very compatable in the bed room. Condescending no. Also we have openly discussed this thread as we do many things on such topics and he encourages me to also explore as I did things going on with me.

I began this thread and probably am posting more than I usually would because as I have stated its something that Im interested in and for me to ask such info of others I should offer my own as I see fit. I did.

It sounds to me that you may have a unresolved issue yourself.....

[jrandom]

He does come on here...

Now you make him sound like your bitch.

Is he your bitch?

Wouldn't catch me bein' nobody's bitch.

Let's see, now. What is it that bothers me about your comments?

I think it's the fact that you project the general attitude of seeing your male partner as a life-support system for a penis.

... we have openly discussed this thread as we do many things on such topics and he encourages me to also explore as I did things going on with me.

OK, that's reassuring.

It sounds to me that you may have a unresolved issue yourself.....

Yeah. I don't like women who treat men like bitches.

[trump-lady]

Yeah. I don't like women who treat men like bitches.

You dont like women who like to talk and communicate with you about how to please them and vice versa?

If being open and discussing and willing to learn together is being a bitch then yes Hes my bitch and I am his.

[ManDownUnder]

You dont like women who like to talk and communicate with you about how to please them and vice versa?

How to put this politely... hmm nope can't be done... so I'll say it straight.

FUCK YES! Teach me please (Not a presumptuous invite to you Trump-Lady - a general comment)! Jesus - anyone claiming to know it all between the sheets, or with any lover is limiting their own fun as well as those they are, or will be, connected with (dreadful pun fully intended)

[007XX]

I began this thread and probably am posting more than I usually would because as I have stated its something that Im interested in and for me to ask such info of others I should offer my own as I see fit. I did.

I personally find your approach very refreshing in its honesty. A lot of people find it uncomfortable talking about sex, and you have just been very candid about your situation while still being respectful of your partner.

[007XX]

How to put this politely... hmm nope can't be done... so I'll say it straight.

FUCK YES! Teach me please (Not a presumptuous invite to you Trump-Lady - a general comment)! Jesus - anyone claiming to know it all between the sheets, or with any lover is limiting their own fun as well as those they are, or will be, connected with (dreadful pun fully intended)

Oh and for an animated version of my opinion:

WHAT HE SAID!!!!!

[jrandom]

You dont like women who like to talk and communicate with you about how to please them and vice versa?

Depends entirely on the manner and context in which said communication occurs.

"No, do that. No, do this. Do this now, do that now. Yes, keep doing that. Right. Good."

The way you describe your relationship makes it sound like you issuing a series of instructions, and this poor twenty-something-year-old fretting so badly over how the fuck he's supposed to carry out all that shit that he's off at the doctor begging for stay-hard pills.

You do realise, don't you, that it's very odd for a guy that young to feel any need for pharmaceutical assistance?

If a normal, healthy guy in his twenties can't provide enough erections to get you off, then the problem isn't his - it's yours. You're either not turning him on in the first place, or you yourself are relatively unresponsive.

I could be completely wrong (and I hope I am) but your comments so far (including those in another thread where you went on about how you ogle random men on the street) give me a strong suspicion that this toyboy of yours is actually rather unhappy, and that you're rather oblivious.

[jrandom]

... you have just been very candid about your situation while still being respectful of your partner.

Candid, yes.

Respectful, no.

Bear with me, here, I'm working from the viewpoint of a fragile male psyche...

[007XX]

Candid, yes.

Respectful, no.

Bear with me, here, I'm working from the viewpoint of a fragile male psyche...

Are you talking about yours or his?

Bearing in mind that talking about someone else's psyche would be a total assumption, endangering the validity of the point you're trying to make.