Your IDEAL relationship model - please read first post before responding to poll

[ManDownUnder]

Indeed! I would suggest that in a truly dire case of sexual mismatching, either:

A. The frigid parter would consent to the unsatisfied partner satisfying themselves elsewhere - after all, sex can't be that important, or the frigid one would be more interested in it, right?

or

B. It's a valid and sensible reason for separation.

Either of the above, however, must surely be better than lies and deception.

A - yes and no. Your point is a good one but I ask you this - how could someone sexually satisfied (the frigid partner) understand the plight of the other? What you suggest would take an extreme amount of empathy

Which then of course raises the prospect of B...

[Grahameeboy]

I am so tempted to lemonparty this thread right now.

Oh go on......be a devil

[jrandom]

A - yes and no. Your point is a good one but I ask you this - how could someone sexually satisfied (the frigid partner) understand the plight of the other? What you suggest would take an extreme amount of empathy

Which then of course raises the prospect of B...

Well, there you go.

A significant mismatch between partners being discovered over time and requiring an extreme amount of empathy to resolve, or otherwise raising the prospect of separation...

Unfortunate, but it makes good sense to me.

[James Deuce]

Woohoo! Fishing expeditions are cool.

[oldrider]

Nothing there in the poll to specifically reflect my personal "preferences" fantasies etc so I just voted in the male poly bit.

Not really helping your poll I spose but that's as close as it gets anyway. Cheers John.

PS: Definitely not into any kind of cheating in any relationship at all!

[GIXser]

where is the option" im a trannie and i love ladyboys ??? this is discrimination you know...

[DougB]

My fifty years married anniversary is later this year.We are still in love and have never cheated.

If you are lucky enough to find the right person this is the way to go and I think luck has a lot to do with it.

Bikes had a lot to do with us, two wheels was our only means of transport. We traveled the road from Kaitaia to Auckland often over all sorts of roads. The arrival of children made bikes inpractical, I still kept the bike but had to get a cage.

My beloved is proud of still having her motorcycle licence but, unlike me she, does not ride now at age 70.

Oldest guy on this forum

[Bikernereid]

Were would you place having threesomes as being acceptable in this poll?

[Grahameeboy]

Were would you place having threesomes as being acceptable in this poll?

You will have to start your own thread dear...............

[kiwifruit]

My fifty years married anniversary is later this year.We are still in love and have never cheated.

If you are lucky enough to find the right person this is the way to go and I think luck has a lot to do with it.

Bikes had a lot to do with us, two wheels was our only means of transport. We traveled the road from Kaitaia to Auckland often over all sorts of roads. The arrival of children made bikes inpractical, I still kept the bike but had to get a cage.

My beloved is proud of still having her motorcycle licence but, unlike me she, does not ride now at age 70.

Oldest guy on this forum

Respect .

[jrandom]

Were would you place having threesomes as being acceptable in this poll?

That's the equivalent of asking where you'd place doggy style.

It's not a question of how you like to have sex; it's a question of what model of ongoing relationship you prefer.

[Bikernereid]

I started the thread that prompted this on. I just want to vote but don't know where I fit in. But if I have to make a choice from what is here I will go for monogamy.

You will have to start your own thread dear...............

[Bikernereid]

It is a choice that you have to make within your relationship. it is about mutual respect and understanding of what is acceptable within your relationship. And has nothing to do with how you have sex. There is another person coming into your relationship which obviously means that you are not being completely monogamous but at the same time you are not a swinger as you are both with the same person as opposed to you both going off with different people.

That's the equivalent of asking where you'd place doggy style.

It's not a question of how you like to have sex; it's a question of what model of ongoing relationship you prefer.

[oldrider]

My fifty years married anniversary is later this year.We are still in love and have never cheated.

If you are lucky enough to find the right person this is the way to go and I think luck has a lot to do with it.

Bikes had a lot to do with us, two wheels was our only means of transport. We traveled the road from Kaitaia to Auckland often over all sorts of roads. The arrival of children made bikes inpractical, I still kept the bike but had to get a cage.

My beloved is proud of still having her motorcycle licence but, unlike me she, does not ride now at age 70.

Oldest guy on this forum

Congrats Doug, it's our 44th tomorrow. Cheers John.

[jrandom]

... has nothing to do with how you have sex. There is another person coming into your relationship which obviously means that you are not being completely monogamous but at the same time you are not a swinger as you are both with the same person as opposed to you both going off with different people.

Goddammit, I hate it when you're right.