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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    Show me a confident, charming, powerful man who doesn't have money!
    HELLO!!
    Oh hold on...define powerful

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sollyboy View Post
    Maybe she saw your weaner...
    It's spelled 'weiner', and the use of the word as a euphemism for a penis stems from the Wiener Würstchen, or Viennese sausage.

    I guess dumb cunts like you probably do learn something every day, eh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steam View Post
    And if you said that to someone in real life, you'd get a big fat punch in the face.
    Maybe he's pining for one?



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    Quote Originally Posted by EJKDDORAI View Post
    Yes it's my fault. It was a pipe dream. I believed it. I did it. Its me
    Pipe dreams are the best ones. Chasing them is tough but rewarding if they work out

    Its you? WRONG!!!!

    Its her. She cant see a genuine guy who is honest etc.
    Your life will get better.

    In time who knows. Her relationship might turn to shit.

    Stay friends if you can bare it. You may be her knight in shining armour one day.

    Pm me if you ever need someone to go for a ride with or talk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DMNTD View Post
    HELLO!!
    Oh hold on...define powerful
    You and me both, brother.

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    Quote Originally Posted by westie View Post
    Its her. She cant see a genuine guy who is honest etc.
    She'll be right in ten years time. Of course, by then, EJ will most probably have the necessary toolkit to attract as much tender young pussy as he wants, and will take a distinct pleasure in scorning her slightly saggy arse.

    Take that, O fickle woman who grew wise too late!



    Quote Originally Posted by westie View Post
    Your life will get better.
    Nothing wrong with EJ's life right now!

    Happiness is all in the mind.
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    I don't want to be cynical but a couple of things haven't been answered - for me anyway.
    Did you two actually date? As in you asked her out on a date and she said yes. A proper date, not "Lets go out for coffee..."
    Did you two kiss in a way that could only be described as intimate? I'm not saying did you slip her the tongue but... well, ok I am.
    Did you two go to a function as a couple? Where other people recognised you as a couple.
    Did she, at any point, refer to you as her boyfriend? Honeybunch, Sweetheart or another specially reserved term of endearment would do here.
    Did you have sex with her? Pretty clear, really.

    I know you're hurting but what I'm trying to get at is the reality of the situation. I get the feeling that these questions, although not pre-requisites, need to be answered truthfully by you. Don't abuse yourself if you got it wrong - we make mistakes. We read things the wrong way. Just as I'd have expected that you be straight up and honest with her about your feelings, I'd expect that you give yourself the same courtesy. Reality bites but it does give you a decent perspective.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DMNTD View Post
    HELLO!!
    Oh hold on...define powerful
    He's talking about me! AND I'm single...
    They shall not grow old as we that are left grow old.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Colapop View Post
    He's talking about me!
    Nope. I'm afraid the 'charming' part isn't optional, dude.
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    Excuse me Mr Acerbic?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Colapop View Post
    I don't want to be cynical but a couple of things haven't been answered - for me anyway.
    Did you two actually date? As in you asked her out on a date and she said yes. A proper date, not "Lets go out for coffee..." Yes, many times
    Did you two kiss in a way that could only be described as intimate? I'm not saying did you slip her the tongue but... well, ok I am. cant answer that
    Did you two go to a function as a couple? Where other people recognised you as a couple.Yes
    Did she, at any point, refer to you as her boyfriend? Honeybunch, Sweetheart or another specially reserved term of endearment would do here.Yes
    Did you have sex with her? Pretty clear, really.Cant answer that
    yes, some yes. couple can't answer


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    Where are Dr Phil and Dr Ruth when you actually need them

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colapop View Post
    Excuse me Mr Acerbic?
    I implied that you are not charming.

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    I just really need to harden up.

    Just one more day of work and I'm out of here.


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    I apologise for the personal questions but there was not enough info, I felt, to give the correct advice. So you're saying that she was definitely your g/f? If that was the case then she's the one needing her head read and I can't see this 'marriage' working out. Being cynical once again I could ask if she was/is so gutless that she fabricated this marriage to dump you or remove you from the picture? Another question... You say this guy has been here for two months, has she been seeing him all that time? Or seeing both of you or what?

    On face value, as your g/f, to do that is shit. You don't deserve that sort of treatment. Mourn the loss of a good friend (as you knew her to be) but do regret the partner that she never became. You're worth more than that. Move on. Take time to heal but move on.
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