Mothers that should be shot

**Bikernereid** · 17th February 2008, 03:06

Ok I am going to state from the outset that I do not have my own children but was a full-time stepmum for two years.

I have just been out for a walk around my local canoe lake and seafront and have just seen somethig that knocked me for six. Bear in mind that although extremely sunny it is max 6 degrees out. I saw a young girl, aged about 9/10 out with her parents for a walk wearing 3/4 length leggings with a dress, and I hasten to add that the 'dress' only just skimmed her arse at best, and 3 inch heeled shoes.

I am not saying for one minute that paedophilia is right but for the love of God why are we so shocked when hearing about men/women accosting young girls when parents permit thier young daughters (not even teenagers) to look like mutton dressed as lamb & dress far older than thier years.

I would never have even thought of wearing something like that at her age and as sure as the sun rises every day my mother would NEVER in a month of Sundays let me out of the house looking like a slapper. I didn't even dress like that in my teenage years.

So why if parents don't want bad things to happen to thier little girls do they let them out of the house looking like hookers? I am bemused!!!

**skidMark** · 17th February 2008, 04:36

I see alot of that here, leaves me in shock.

Girl of i would say 4-5......Little boob tube top.... hair all prissyd up.... and a skirt that barely covered much...it's like wtf...okay maybe at the beach.....if it was decent but it was slutty... this was at a supermarket middle of town.

And just one example...see it daily, i can't believe it.

**BiK3RChiK** · 17th February 2008, 07:29

Parents opting out of parenting, so the media picks them up and indoctrinates them on what to wear, how to behave etc, etc...

Kids end up being easy pickings!

**PrincessBandit** · 17th February 2008, 07:34

Did I read recently that Paris Hilton can't wait to have a daughter of her own cos she is dying to be able to dress her up like herself!!! What the.....????
I'm no prude but am horrified at some of the "dress codes" I see on girls, even as old as 13/14 (and as young as 8 or 9). It's as if they think that looking like an 18 year old skank is something to actually strive for.
Maybe there are women out there who think Paris is on the right track? Heaven help our girls and young women!!

**skidMark** · 17th February 2008, 07:39

Originally Posted by PrincessBandit

Did I read recently that Paris Hilton can't wait to have a daughter of her own cos she is dying to be able to dress her up like herself!!! What the.....????
I'm no prude but am horrified at some of the "dress codes" I see on girls, even as old as 13/14 (and as young as 8 or 9). It's as if they think that looking like an 18 year old skank is something to actually strive for.
Maybe there are women out there who think Paris is on the right track? Heaven help our girls and young women!!

Paris probably thinks it's the same as having a puppy.

can just imagine her walking around with a baby in her handbag.

**Nasty** · 17th February 2008, 08:10

Originally Posted by skidMark

Paris probably thinks it's the same as having a puppy.

can just imagine her walking around with a baby in her handbag.

At least you know she wouldn't look after a child .. her staff would as they do her animals.

**James Deuce** · 17th February 2008, 08:29

Oh yeah, it's all the parents fault. Better pass yet more laws making it improbably difficult to do your parenting job in public.

**janno** · 17th February 2008, 09:25

I remember with cringe making clarity just how "adult" I felt at 13, and that my parents and others were holding me back and not taking me seriously . . .

Quite frankly I'm amazed that more girls don't get in to serious trouble, as at that age and sometimes younger the hormones are going mad and your brain doesn't catch up for a good five years or so.

Thank God my parents were experienced secondary school teachers and had seen it all before - I don't envy anyone who has to parent a teenage girl . . .

**Mr Skid** · 17th February 2008, 09:50

Originally Posted by Bikern1mpho

I would never have even thought of wearing something like that at her age

Ah yeah.. err.. me neither.

**Bikernereid** · 17th February 2008, 11:14

I am not for ONE SECOND saying that the government should get involed and create more policy that takes even mor parenting responsibility away from them. What I am saying is parents shouldn't be surprised at paedophiles wanting young girls and men committing stutory rape when girls and young women are allowed to go around dressed like slappers and as if they are of a certain age.

And before anyone says that I am saying that women deserve to be raped because of the way they dress I am not. Noone deserves to get raped but when women are putting it out there in such a prevocative way what do they expect men to think and or feel? it is like saying look but don't touch, ok touch but don't taste etc etc.

I just think that maybe parents shouldn't be so quick in letting their daughters grow up. Being an adult aint all it is cracked up to be and kids should be allowed to enjoy their youth for as long as possible. The real work can be bloody awful a lot of the time so why rush there when you can saunter.

**Pex Adams** · 17th February 2008, 12:04

Time for some more of those great pre-teen tee shirts isn't it...

Daddy called Mummy a slapper
I like Boys that ride big bikes
Do my thighs look big in this
Would you like to see where I hide my house keys...

A few years ago, I was at the local swimming pool in Ashburton when a Mum and her 13 year old daughter walked in. The shirt the Daughter was wearing said 'Place hands here' with 2 hand prints on each breast.

Now parents like this need a bullet.. Silver coated, right between the eyes! No ifs, no buts. I mean this is something no one should ever see, yet alone think, or dream about. This innocent girl, is been told that this behavior is fine, showing potentially impressionable teenage boys to help themselves.
God help us...

**mynameis** · 17th February 2008, 12:06

It's the era of "preteens" 8-12 year olds are taking over. Mind you they are THE MOST TARGETED group mainly in UK and US.

But I don't think mothers should be shot because of that.

**James Deuce** · 17th February 2008, 12:40

Originally Posted by Pex Adams

This innocent girl, is been told that this behavior is fine, showing potentially impressionable teenage boys to help themselves.
God help us...

Rubbish. She is not innocent, she is a girl.

If one of my boys "fell" for that they'd not know which direction their arse was heading in, nor how long it was going to spend there once it ended up where ever "there" was.

That's just the rape myth, that chicks are asking for it, and excusing boys for behaving like animals.