Being single and loving it 99% of the time!

[maxworldbiker]

I aint single, but when I was I really LIKED it that way! Wasn't even looking, when Captain Sensible showed up, and for the first couple of years I didn't even fancy him! Or anyone else! I was just cruising solo and quite well adjusted to the fact. We were mates, pure and simple, and that's the absolute best place to start. We took plenty of time to get to know each other as people, and the rest sort of followed. People are multi-layered, and it takes a long time to get to know them to the extent you'd really want to before charging up the aisle or getting a joint mortgage!

Our friendship is the rock the rest is built on, and we went through a horrible, complicated, confused patch two years ago, and it all looked like it was terminal. I really don't think we'd have made it if we weren't just bloody good mates underneath all the shit, and knew just how miserable we'd be if we WEREN'T together, in spite of the crap going on around us, with interfering "friends" etc. So we fought our way through it and we're ok.

When I was single, it seemed like other people had more of an issue with it than I did myself. Women thought I was after their blokes, blokes thought I should have a bloke of my own,so everyone would be "comfortable". WTF????

If you want your prince, give all sane, remotely attractive frogs a chance. Make friends, take it from there. The slow burn lasts longer than the big fizz. The good men AREN'T all taken, you just have to be prepared to compromise. But not on the size of his dick. Any bloke who tells ya size doesn't matter most likely has a wee one. Don't even go there!!!

[2wheeldrifter]

I have a face only a mother could love........ so #1's out for me

[karla]

I have a face only a mother could love........ so #1's out for me

I'm a mother

[bully]

im single, have a bike, lots of guitars and a big number ten. lol.
but really single is fine, i find females these days do have a big list of expectations, and still hardly know what they want.
no wonder theres a man drought.

[karla]

im single, have a bike, lots of guitars and a big number ten. lol.
but really single is fine, i find females these days do have a big list of expectations, and still hardly know what they want.
no wonder theres a man drought.

there's a man drought? !!



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[thehollowmen]

I became single eight months or so ago.
My whole world has fallen appart since then.

Definitally not loving it.

[Deviant Esq]

Well, I match all your criteria just nicely... except I don't have any kids, overseas or otherwise, and I'm not single. Good luck in your search - you're going to need it if you go looking with a checklist. If you have an open mind and go out to have fun with your friends, you never know who's attention you'll draw.

[helenoftroy]

Phew, that just leaves all us bad ones then, I guess whoo hoo!

Well spose that means Im a bad one too !!

Oh well.....

[karla]

I became single eight months or so ago.
My whole world has fallen appart since then.

Definitally not loving it.

I think it takes a minimum of two years of being single to put everything back together again the way that we want it, before we are ready to trust another person enough to love them without fear. Not an easy time, and there is a lot of hard work to do dealing with abandonment issues etc - stick with it, it's worth it in the end.

My ex dumped me and then wanted to come back, I gave him a second chance, another year and then he dumped me again three days before my father died. Lesson learned - don't give second chances; if you have a partner that solves problems by up and leaving chances are they will do that in the next relationship as well.

I changed and grew and developed an inner strength to see me through those times, as will you. .

[bully]

there's a man drought? !!



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aparently...

[2wheeldrifter]

I'm a mother

Well mum I need some real lovin......


I mean real close lovin, that's ok isn't ... MUM!

[Ms Piggy]

I don't know much but I suspect when you meet Mr right you will be lucky to get many hits off your list but he will still be Mr right. (and the list will not matter any more)

This is true in my experience. When I began my love affair with motorbikes I was adamant I wouldn't get involved with a non-rider. Well here I am very happily shacked up with a bloke who doesn't own/ride a bike (does have his licence though) and who is my best friend and (what I consider) my 1st true love (soppy aye!!). I met him thru NZ Dating and from the moment we met we both knew this was the "real thang" - might I just add that before meeting him I had thought all that soulmate stuff was bullshit. And in the end after mostly pretty disastrous relationships I felt that as long as my man shared the same core beliefs and values as me then everything else should (mostly) fall into place...and it (mostly) has. I don't feel I've settled for 'good enough' because b/c as he would tell you himself I have very high standards and I know I am fortunate to have met a man that will put up with me!

So I guess what I'm trying to say is: be prepared to be a little bit flexible and have lots of fun in the mean time! All the best out there!

[mynameis]

Hey Dudes and Dudess's

Hers a question for you, how many other of you are single and mostly loving it?

I mostly do, and off to a singles Ball in Invercargill this weekend, with two single male mates, so will have both on either arm as we entrance the ball, enough to make the girls sick, and make me look rather interesting eh!

At the bike rallies, its nice not to be with a guy who is a pain in the arse, either flirting with the other chicks or being a pain in my arse by hanging around with those cow eyes.

But sometimes just sometimes, I long for my soulmate to fucking well show his face.......one that I can have that is.....enough said, do have a buddy, but you now its a moment thing.....Ahem

Anyway,I am searching for someone I am beginning to think is ,like the song "Just my imagination" so here's my top 10 list of what I look for, obviously my list is exhaustive, and my Mum once read it and laughed out loud till it got down to No 10

(1)Good looking, but not obviously so, bit boyishly good looking, (and incidentally doesn't know it!!)
(2)has a razor sharp sense of humour, and has me clutching my knees to stand horizontal such is the velocity of my laugh.
(3)Obviously a biker, cant seem to find blokes without bikes even mildly interesting.
(4)Guitar playing goof.......have a thing for musical guys. Fucking single....would be a huge bonus!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!fed up loosing my heart....................
(5)Great eyes,
(6)A fantastic shag maker.
(7)Spontaneous, but not to the point of combustion.
(8)A Widower with children who live abroad
(9)Crazy, but not clinically diagnosed as so
(10) A dick bigger than a chipolater.

Fuck the list goes, on, and this isnt a thread to say, ou single guys this way, but to say.......is it me or are other folk out there extremely picky when looking for a person to hang out with.

This is a totally un serious log, so dudes lets have some fun on this one eh.

See you at the Beaumont Rally.

And just a reminder about the Free Spirit Tour November 08, Queenstown to Bay of Plenty...after the Nelson Rally

Coi for now you gorgeous people.
Fuck me when I meet someone, they seem to piss me off, more or less as soon as I meet them....

Question is do I really want someone just now.

So what do you dudes an d dudess's look for in a potential shagtastic person.....

Lets open it up and have a top 10 going

Woodybee

Can you cook, clean and give good head?

[merv]

Can you cook, clean and give good head?

Don't forget the ironing, us blokes are never much good at that

[mynameis]

Don't forget the ironing, us blokes are never much good at that

1) I need proper breakfast lunch and dinner prepared for me, by 7 days and served as well. You then need to take the dishes away and wash it.
2) You need to do all my washing, drying and ironing.
3) Clean the house and keep it neat and tidy all the time.
4) Give good head after I come from work and be great in bed, flexible raunchy and sexy to take it in any position.
5) Swallowing and rear entrance would be a bonus but not a must.
6) And most importantly if you've got a big mouth you need to keep it shut, don't be argumentative, bossy, fussy and demanding and in return I will buy you decent clothing form Warehouse and Kmart.

Not a big list aye, That'll make a perfect soul mate