Would you shag someone else's partner?

[HenryDorsetCase]

Your kinda partner and I'd have to check my credit card balance first.

one might suggest checking your penicillin stocks after, if one was crass.

[CookMySock]

You don't mention consent. Without consent, itsa bad idea. Its cheating/stealing.

DB

[Toaster]

It's a very bad idea. Trouble breeds trouble.

[ManDownUnder]

How would feel about your partner shagging someone behind your back?

Considering the level of daily involvement at home I'd be mightily pissed off - and somewhat left out...

[ManDownUnder]

You don't mention consent. Without consent, itsa bad idea. Its cheating/stealing.

DB

Amend that to both without consent or with intent and I think you're getting close...

[Maha]

Depending on how you choose to read the first post many people would have to check every option.

I read it very carefully and reminded me of something I heard (should you ever beleive what you are hear?) two weeks ago. Someone I know attempted this very senario not so long ago. Someones partner was 'not around' (shall we say?) and the first someone visited the partner that 'was home' (shall we say?) with a sack full (shall we say?).....cant say anymore, but thats only what I heard...

[ManDownUnder]

Someones partner was 'not around' (shall we say?) and the first someone visited the partner that 'was home' (shall we say?) with a sack full (shall we say?).....cant say anymore, but thats only what I heard...

Not true. She wasn't married and I... err...oops..

[Tank]

You don't mention consent. Without consent, itsa bad idea. Its cheating/stealing.

Actually without consent its called rape.


But whatever it takes huh.


(p/t even if its in poor taste)

[jrandom]

Isn't this a bit like this or this?
Maybe not? But I feel it's been done before.....

Nope; I reviewed previous discussions before posting this thread.

The question here isn't what model of relationship behaviour one prefers for oneself; it's about whether one would feel comfortable facilitating certain behaviours for others, without betraying any promises of one's own.

I suppose I should have anticipated people failing to comprehend my precise thrust.

Sigh.



Hur, hur, I said 'thrust'.

[CookMySock]

Actually without consent its called rape. But whatever it takes huh. (p/t even if its in poor taste)

Yes, well, JUST TO MAKE IT PERFECTLY CLEAR then, I meant their (and my) PARTNERS consent. It goes without saying that the other person consented.

Yes haha Tank, It was a pisstake I know.. but just so there's no misunderstanding. ok. cool.

Nice comeback ok Gawd you have been remarkably reserved on this can of worms. I'm amazed!

DB

[jrandom]

This subject is a bit too complicated and delicate for this kind of treatment IMHO.

In other words, you ticked either the second or fourth poll options.



Next please!

[Tank]

OK - now for my serious answer.

In the other thread I mentioned its about respect - for yourself, your partner, your relationship, and your family.

Ultimately it will always cause hurt and pain.

So would I do it? No. and to be honest I could never retain respect for someone that did.

[ManDownUnder]

I suppose I should have anticipated people failing to comprehend my precise thrust.

I'm surprised you actually expected honest admissions of guilt from respondents potentially exposing themselves to incredibly serious consequences.

(and I said exposing themselves)

[Mikkel]

In other words, you ticked either the second or fourth poll options.

Who said I bothered voting yet?

I think I shall check option 4 simply to expand your opinion of me as a person with neither tact nor decency - now you can add amoral and evil as well...

[jrandom]

I'm surprised you actually expected honest admissions of guilt from respondents potentially exposing themselves to incredibly serious consequences.

Well, Mental Pants being the only individual who knows who voted for what, I wouldn't be too worried about incredibly serious consequences.

If he ever wanted to sniff out the cheatin' scoundrels on the forum, a quick automated search through PM text would probably reveal all sorts of golden nuggets.