Adultery's not so bad after all...

**_Shrek_** · 19th June 2008, 18:11

Boy meets girl

= lust
then you start going out & you tell all your mates that he/she is just perfact in every way our souls are just so intwind (girls thinking) boys just following their .....
then bang they relise this is could be mr or mrs wright so You marry the person your've fallin in love with, then during that first year they see the Monday to Friday person they married, :EEK5: he/she farts in public or has this discusting habbit that drives you

so after that year you have to love the person you married

it does'nt mean its time to jump the fence coz the grass is greener on the other side & commit adultery it means you should be communicating from the very start so when the shit does hit the fan halve the problem is over coz you know how to communicate

after 23 years i'm more in

with Mrs Shrek than before we got hitched but it takes time, sacrifices & effort to build, not to be throwin away by banging some one out of shear lust or coz there's a few problems at home

Adultery is wrong

**Mrs Busa Pete** · 19th June 2008, 18:24

Originally Posted by Shrek lone rider

Boy meets girl

= lust
then you start going out & you tell all your mates that he/she is just perfact in every way our souls are just so intwind (girls thinking) boys just following their .....
then bang they relise this is could be mr or mrs wright so You marry the person your've fallin in love with, then during that first year they see the Monday to Friday person they married, :EEK5: he/she farts in public or has this discusting habbit that drives you

so after that year you have to love the person you married

it does'nt mean its time to jump the fence coz the grass is greener on the other side & commit adultery it means you should be communicating from the very start so when the shit does hit the fan halve the problem is over coz you know how to communicate

after 23 years i'm more in

with Mrs Shrek than before we got hitched but it takes time, sacrifices & effort to build, not to be throwin away by banging some one out of shear lust or coz there's a few problems at home

Adultery is wrong

What he said...........

**Coyote** · 19th June 2008, 20:17

Originally Posted by Max Headroom

I think that there is a common assumption these days that we "fall in love" with someone, often at first sight...

I believe the "love at first site" thing is shit. You can't get a full idea of what it's like to live with someone or what their personality is like by their looks. It's like falling love is only based on attractiveness. Which at school is basically the case with the popular couples that have the personalities of planks.

**Trudes** · 19th June 2008, 20:26

Originally Posted by Coyote

I believe the "love at first site" thing is shit. You can't get a full idea of what it's like to live with someone or what their personality is like by their looks. It's like falling love is only based on attractiveness. Which at school is basically the case with the popular couples that have the personalities of planks.

Yep, it's called lust, not love eh!

**Edbear** · 19th June 2008, 20:28

Originally Posted by Coyote

I believe the "love at first site" thing is shit. You can't get a full idea of what it's like to live with someone or what their personality is like by their looks. It's like falling love is only based on attractiveness. Which at school is basically the case with the popular couples that have the personalities of planks.

Granted about getting the "full idea of what it's like to live with someone", bit, but speaking for myself, there was "something" about the future Mrs. Edbear that caught my eye on first seeing her "across the crowded room".

Yes, she was attractive, but so were many other girls I knew. There was a "chemistry?" there, as she said later that she felt the same when she saw me. What is it that attracts us to someone at first sight? Don't know, really, but after 30 years of marriage, I have no regrets, (though a few times during the early years...)

**Trudes** · 19th June 2008, 20:34

Well Kendog says he remembers seeing me walking to the pub one evening and thought he'd like to 'get to know' me etc, but to be honest when I first met him I didn't think anything, it wasn't until I had spoken to him a few times and got to know what he was like that I decided that I'd like to get to know him better.

**Number One** · 19th June 2008, 20:46

Originally Posted by Edbear

Granted about getting the "full idea of what it's like to live with someone", bit, but speaking for myself, there was "something" about the future Mrs. Edbear that caught my eye on first seeing her "across the crowded room".

Yes, she was attractive, but so were many other girls I knew. There was a "chemistry?" there, as she said later that she felt the same when she saw me. What is it that attracts us to someone at first sight? Don't know, really, but after 30 years of marriage, I have no regrets, (though a few times during the early years...)

I agree. Thought my man was the shizzle fo my nizzle (did ya get that Hitcher

) unfortunately so did one of my good friends skanky and slightly butch (but not gay) female friends - and she in no uncertain terms made it clear that she had 'bagsd him' (despite having a bf at the time - did I mention she was a total skank?) so I had to looky looky but no touchy touchy....

Couple of years down the track though and that filthy slapper had proven to all in sundry just what a farken loser she was and we slowly but surely we got to know each other and well after over 5 years of marraige and one beautiful boy later I haven't looked back.

you hon

He however tells a slightly different story - when he first met me he thought I was a total cock!

(he's not really wrong there

)
There was a lot of stirring going on though - forces trying to keep us apart and all...sounds like a mills and boon don't it?!

**Coyote** · 19th June 2008, 20:52

Originally Posted by Edbear

Granted about getting the "full idea of what it's like to live with someone", bit, but speaking for myself, there was "something" about the future Mrs. Edbear that caught my eye on first seeing her "across the crowded room".

Yes, she was attractive, but so were many other girls I knew. There was a "chemistry?" there, as she said later that she felt the same when she saw me. What is it that attracts us to someone at first sight? Don't know, really, but after 30 years of marriage, I have no regrets, (though a few times during the early years...)

Got a point really. There was something that drew me toward my (to later become my) girlfriend at that concert. Being at the concert meant she had good music taste, but mainly I think it was the fishnet top and red hair

You can still get an idea of what someone's like by their appearance, but to proclaim love at first site is going too far. There have been many girls that have caught my attention in a similar way, but they turned out to be quite bitchy.

**Number One** · 19th June 2008, 20:56

Originally Posted by Coyote

There have been many girls that have caught my attention in a similar way, but they turned out to be quite bitchy.

Shock horror?! GIRLS YOUR AGE BITCHY????? Noooo surely not

Actually some women are just bitches too - I have heaps of friends both guys and girls but have to admit except for my very best girlfriends I prefer the company of boys...much less complicated and dramatic!

**Mom** · 19th June 2008, 20:58

Originally Posted by Coyote

I believe the "love at first site" thing is shit.

Yeah I never saw stars and felt the luuurrrvvve right away.

Originally Posted by Mrs Kendog

Yep, it's called lust, not love eh!

Yep, one sniff of them pheremones(sp) and

it is all over rover!

**Coyote** · 19th June 2008, 21:07

Originally Posted by Number One

Shock horror?! GIRLS YOUR AGE BITCHY????? Noooo surely not

Actually some women are just bitches too - I have heaps of friends both guys and girls but have to admit except for my very best girlfriends I prefer the company of boys...much less complicated and dramatic!

I shit you not

Guy friends don't typically talk behind your back. Even one of my better girl friends has given away a few things I've told her that she was not meant too...

Originally Posted by Mom

Yep, one sniff of them pheremones(sp) and

it is all over rover!

What? Lynx?

**Trudes** · 19th June 2008, 21:10

Originally Posted by Number One

Actually some women are just bitches too - I have heaps of friends both guys and girls but have to admit except for my very best girlfriends I prefer the company of boys...much less complicated and dramatic!

You better friggin be including me as one of the girls you like spending time with, or I'll come round and bitch slap your arse, woman!!!

But I agree, I much prefer usually to hang with the boys and get pissed and talk bikes and shite, and tend to get on best with chicks who like to get pissed and talk about shit and be disgusting too!!

**Trudes** · 19th June 2008, 21:12

Originally Posted by Mom

Yep, one sniff of them pheremones(sp) and

it is all over rover!

pussy juice???

**Number One** · 19th June 2008, 21:18

Originally Posted by Mrs Kendog

You better friggin be including me as one of the girls you like spending time with, or I'll come round and bitch slap your arse, woman!!!

But I agree, I much prefer usually to hang with the boys and get pissed and talk bikes and shite, and tend to get on best with chicks who like to get pissed and talk about shit and be disgusting too!!

I'm saddened you even had to ask.

AND yes I love to get pissed, talk about shit and be disgusting
(that last one my own personal fav)