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    Quote Originally Posted by Skyryder View Post
    And the law allows for the above. It is very specific on this.

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    The law specifically prohibits "the use of physical force for the purposes of correction"

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    Quote Originally Posted by awayatc View Post
    I however will not forcefully try to convert you or people who think like you...

    Wonder who the real bully is......
    To me, that is the issue. Where did the government think they have the authority to tell me how to raise my child? Again, who is the bully?
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    Why is it that socialists always target children?

    Stalin did it, so did Hitler, to name but a few... Is it because adults are less likely to cave to subversion?

    The anti-smacking religion seems to be very much like Benjamin Spock's permissive parenting dogma of the '70s...
    The end result was kids that resented their parents as they grew older

    Perhaps Bradford is a model parent, and all her kids are perfect angels, so she knows best. Could that be it?

    Nope. One dead, others gone off the rails, and she herself was a sickness beneficiary who wasn't too unwell to be out protesting, assaulting cops & getting arrested, all at the taxpayer's expense

    Perhaps Voltaire was right, and it's past time this govt was tempered by assassination

    A govt is meant to act as our representatives, not our rulers.
    Since when did a bunch of childless lesbians know what is best for my kids?

    Bradford lied and got caught out (Swedish statistics), Clark said they would never pass this law.
    Now, FamilyFirst is left keeping a tally of the numbers of people adversely affected

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    Very interesting debate on this issue and i'm sure that everyone is genuine in their own beliefs regarding this and their own parenting skills no matter what side of the fence that they sit on. But can someone please explain to me why we have so many little arseholes out there in society today who have such bad attitudes and absolutely no respect for anyone or other peoples property. This never used to be the case several decades ago so what has gone wrong.
    I beleive that a lot of this has come from softer parenting techniques in the home and no discipline in the schools and no fear of the law or any consequences. Much of this has come about as a result of politicians with no guts or balls trying to tell us how we should live our lives and then legislating accordingly. Perhaps we should dump all the out of control kids on their doorsteps and let them sort it out.
    Good parents have never "beaten" their children, they probably have "smacked" them as part of their discipline and i guarantee that these kids have turned out to be fine and upstanding citizens. It sure worked very well a few years ago.
    If some parents feel that their disciplining without a need for "smacking" is working for them, then i applaud them if the end result is a well mannered and respectful child.
    "Beating" a child is a totally different situation and anyone who engages in this activity should feel the full force of the law as a result. Unfortunate this current law (which i do not agree with) will never stop people of this mentality.
    So "Butt Out Politicians" and let all the good parents get on with the job of raising their own children without your interference. We do not want or need it.

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    who will you trust with your vote this year??

    Helen Clark: A lot of people aren’t comfortable with beatings but they don’t want to see, you know, stressed and harassed parents, you know, pulled in by the police because they, they smacked a child.

    Bob McCroskie: So you do not want to see smacking banned?

    Helen Clark: Absolutely not, I think you are trying to defy human nature.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MSTRS View Post
    Don't forget the stupidity of nigh-on the whole of Parliamet in voting through the repeal. When every poll held on the subject showed the public did not want to see this change. And it was supposed to be a conscience vote...
    Maybe, however, I would not be keen on a Govt who gave into what the Public wanted all the time...almost makes it Anarchy.

    In this case, the Public got onto the Media band wagon and as usual blew things out of real proportion.

    I mean what is the worst that has happened since the new Law was introduced compared with the old Law.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devnull View Post
    Why is it that socialists always target children?

    Stalin did it, so did Hitler, to name but a few... Is it because adults are less likely to cave to subversion?

    The anti-smacking religion seems to be very much like Benjamin Spock's permissive parenting dogma of the '70s...
    The end result was kids that resented their parents as they grew older

    Perhaps Bradford is a model parent, and all her kids are perfect angels, so she knows best. Could that be it?

    Nope. One dead, others gone off the rails, and she herself was a sickness beneficiary who wasn't too unwell to be out protesting, assaulting cops & getting arrested, all at the taxpayer's expense

    Perhaps Voltaire was right, and it's past time this govt was tempered by assassination

    A govt is meant to act as our representatives, not our rulers.
    Since when did a bunch of childless lesbians know what is best for my kids?

    Bradford lied and got caught out (Swedish statistics), Clark said they would never pass this law.
    Now, FamilyFirst is left keeping a tally of the numbers of people adversely affected
    I think kids resent their parents when older due to the way their parents treated them and nothing to do with Dr Spock...

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    PC completely unacceptable statement, but dogs and kids do have things in common.

    I love my kids and I love my dogs, but they need a fair firm hand.
    They need to know who's in charge....Not negotiable

    No I have no need to beat my dogs,
    But their training includes discipline!!! some need more then others
    How would you feel if my 100 pound plus Rotty would be out of control?
    So why accept if off kids?
    Are they not worth a proper upbringing?
    Opinions are like arseholes: Everybody has got one, but that doesn't mean you got to air it in public all the time....

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    Quote Originally Posted by devnull View Post
    The law specifically prohibits "the use of physical force for the purposes of correction"
    Force being the operative description...Force has both magnitude and direction, hardly smacking

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grahameeboy View Post
    I think kids resent their parents when older due to the way their parents treated them and nothing to do with Dr Spock...
    Spock from star track?
    That explains a thing or 2 Mr Grahameeboy.....
    You see we here are talking about things on our planet....
    Things are obviously different on yours....
    Opinions are like arseholes: Everybody has got one, but that doesn't mean you got to air it in public all the time....

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    Quote Originally Posted by awayatc View Post
    Spock from star track?
    That explains a thing or 2 Mr Grahameeboy.....
    You see we here are talking about things on our planet....
    Things are obviously different on yours....
    Well we all see things from our own worlds...I understand that...I also understand that you see things differently...we are on the same planet, just different pages...

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    Quote Originally Posted by awayatc View Post
    PC completely unacceptable statement, but dogs and kids do have things in common.

    I love my kids and I love my dogs, but they need a fair firm hand.
    They need to know who's in charge....Not negotiable

    No I have no need to beat my dogs,
    But their training includes discipline!!! some need more then others
    How would you feel if my 100 pound plus Rotty would be out of control?
    So why accept if off kids?
    Are they not worth a proper upbringing?
    Yep upbringing agree with...see we are on the same planet..just different views of the "parenting book"

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    Quote Originally Posted by devnull View Post
    ... they didn't want to target the real risk indicators, because it would upset core Labour supporters
    But that is who has been targetted by this law as well... and it hasn't changed much with them. Their neighbours still dont see or hear anything....

    Quote Originally Posted by Tank View Post
    No - I smacked my kids when they were little if they were bad. (Smack defined as a light smack on the ass that actually dosnt hurt) As a result they learned that there are consequences to actions and as a result I have 3 well behaved, kids that Im a great friend with and they have caused me (or society) no grief.
    The problem identified right there. No consequences anywhere any more....

    Quote Originally Posted by MD View Post
    Hearing Sue Bradford on the radio this morning sums up why I object to her and her silly law. The deceiving bitch always uses words in front of the media that carry a different meaning when she talks about her anti-SMACKING bill. I've heard her use bash and beat plenty of times but she cleverly avoids using the word smack.

    She said today "the people of NZ need to decide if they want to make it legal again to beat Kids" You stupid bitch. IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN ILLEGAL TO BEAT CHILDREN. You didn't pass an anti- BEATING Bill, You didn't pass an anti-BASHING Bill. Why, because they have always been covered by assault and GBH laws.

    Some people need to use a Dictionary.
    Beat= vb, to strike with a series of violent blows
    Bash = vb, to strike violently or crushingly
    Smack= vb, a sharp blow or slap with something flat

    There is a diffence and our Police have for years charged adults for violence against children.
    She speaks with forked tongue. As most polititions do. Great post, this one.... We do know the difference between a discipline smack and a beating/bashing. Not a lot has changed actually.... except the paperwork now needed when this type of incident is called in...

    Quote Originally Posted by devnull View Post
    The law specifically prohibits "the use of physical force for the purposes of correction"
    No correction = no consequences. "Do what you like as nothing will come of it" is another way of putting it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Robbo View Post
    ...why we have so many little arseholes out there in society today ....

    1. softer parenting techniques in the home and
    2. no discipline in the schools and
    3. no fear of the law or any consequences.
    4. Good parents have never "beaten" their children, they probably have "smacked" them as part of their discipline and i guarantee that these kids have turned out to be fine and upstanding citizens. It sure worked very well a few years ago.
    If some parents feel that their disciplining without a need for "smacking" is working for them, then i applaud them if the end result is a well mannered and respectful child.
    Sums it up. Worked for me, no hang ups... nor my familty or friends... nor my neighbours... nor my work mates... Hang on.... we must all be wrong!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Grahameeboy View Post
    Force being the operative description...Force has both magnitude and direction, hardly smacking
    "Force" can be as simple as a mere touch.

    Quite right about the magnitude, but a smack on a padded butt compared to a beating with a lump of 4 x 2, wrestling moves body slams, shoved in a dryer, whippings and punches to the head and body causing multiple broken bones/internal injuries etc etc doesn't need to have a new law to explain the difference, but sweeping up a smack, (which was deliberately avoided by BRADFORD and Co as above) within the definition does seem OTT.

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    Well said Patrick...

    Our kids will still be smacked if necessary - but we're fans of common sense instead of this new-age lefty bullshit

    I wonder though... IF one of those tofu-munching social workers turns up in her kaftan because someone saw a smack while at the supermarket, could I claim a defense under S.48 as a lump of lead hit them firmly between the eyes

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    If they were serious about targeting abuse, they'd address things like:
    low maternal age at birth
    low maternal education
    drug and/or alcohol abuse

    to name just a few.... But that would alienate Labour's core voters - Labour has always tried to make voters clients

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