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    Marriage kettle o fish

    http://www.nzherald.co.nz/index.cfm?...ectID=10008429

    I dont know about you people, I read this article in the Herald. It seems rather hypocritical to me for the law to say "Marriage is an important pillar in our cultural society for many people. Bigamy strikes at the heart of that pillar."
    And yet, they have made a law that allows same sex marriage....WTF. In my eyes, the new law has made a mockery of the marriage institution. So why would having more than one wife strike at the apparent pillar of cultural society ?
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    Been with the same lovely lady 19 years..... 3 kids.... haven't seen the need to get married or union'd yet............ Don't know what bigamy is though....

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    An interesting legal question. Marriage to two people at the same time is bigany, But is Civil union to two people at the same time also bigamy? Then how about one marriage and one civil union?
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    Of course you could cohabit with as many (of either sex) as you choose to. However should you split up from a 'relationship' they would all be entitled to the proceeds of all the joint income since you've been together (I think). Though that would be fine if you run a brothel
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    I think it's fairly safe to say it isn't going to be a huge problem even if it were legal, we all know two's company three's a crowd and it really takes "special" people to make bigamy work, it's something that works in certain countries because they have societal rules which support or uphold their belief system, our society is so flakey and pretty much godless now, that nothing really surprises me any more.
    I had come to the conclusion a long time ago, that each of us is being groomed in some sort of social engineering experiment, to see how much shit we are prepared to go along with.
    NZers must be the most complacent and passive nation on earth, we seem to bend over and take it up the proverbial indefinately.
    I really couldn't give a shit to be honest, most of us know right from wrong, and most of us know how to get along with other people, what really pisses me off is when laws are made to tell us what is right and wrong in the arena of human relationships, we have all gotten along quite nicely to date without bigamy being legal, why change it! Why even think about whether the law needs to change, why not instead ,consider, whether we need to pay people to think up new laws for us at all!

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    Quote Originally Posted by toads
    it's something that works in certain countries because they have societal rules which support or uphold their belief system, our society is so flakey and pretty much godless now, that nothing really surprises me any more
    I had come to the conclusion a long time ago, that each of us is being groomed in some sort of social engineering experiment, to see how much shit we are prepared to go along with.
    NZers must be the most complacent and passive nation on earth, we seem to bend over and take it up the proverbial indefinately.
    I really couldn't give a shit to be honest, most of us know right from wrong, and most of us know how to get along with other people, what really pisses me off is when laws are made to tell us what is right and wrong in the arena of human relationships, we have all gotten along quite nicely to date without bigamy being legal, why change it! Why even think about whether the law needs to change, why not instead ,consider, whether we need to pay people to think up new laws for us at all!
    Some points to ponder:

    1 If it works in some countries, then it is not a universal moral imperative, but just a custom. Customs change, historically and geographically. Who's to say what is right and what is wrong?
    2 Whether a society is "godless" or not is irrelevant. Societies in which bigamy/polygamy is legal tend to be those operating under a fairly strict theocratic regime (i.e. Islam, some Mormon sects), so "godlessness" is not the issue.
    3 "Social engineering" is a sneer phrase used by people opposed to a particular direction in which society is changing (or being made to change). Imposition of a strict code of behaviour based on fundamentalist religious principles would also be "social engineering". The abolition of slavery, the outlawing of child labour and the introduction of equal rights for women were "social engineering". "How much shit we are prepared to go along with" is a phrase that might easily have fallen from the lips of anti-abolitionists, opponents of women's suffrage and others dismayed by the upheaval of their cosy world...
    4 The complacency and passivity that you criticise could just as easily be praised as tolerance and acceptance...
    5 If most of us know right from wrong, the only way you can explain the intense debate over burning moral issues (abortion, gay rights, euthanasia etc) is to suppose a vocal but misguided or devious minority successfully deceiving the right-thinking majority with specious arguments. No doubt there are many that will willingly subscribe to this conspiracy theory, but I would remind you again that exactly the same type of debate has occurred over the centuries in connection with the great social questions I mentioned in paragraph 3 above, not to mention the divine right of kings, universal suffrage, racial segregation and so on.
    6 The law relating to bigamy, like most laws regulating sexual behaviour and family relationships, can be traced historically to patriarchal attitudes specifically to do with inheritance of property. The moral dimension was a later superimposition. Who, apart from those who base their morality solely on scriptural authority, can say that bigamy or polygamy is intrinsically morally wrong? Who suffers if all parties are willing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MikeL
    Who suffers if all parties are willing?
    Who suffers? The guy with two or more mothers in law.
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    Seems like another hot issue Zed will more than likely get into heavilly with Blueninja


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    Quote Originally Posted by alucard_draken
    Seems like another hot issue Zed will more than likely get into heavilly with Blueninja


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    Who's this Blueninja chappie then? Do I have a rival trying to steal my colours?

    BTW wouldn't want more than one wife...aprt from the mother in laws...women in the same household tend to synchronise their cycles after a while. Imagine several wives with PMS and no playtime
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluninja
    Who's this Blueninja chappie then? Do I have a rival trying to steal my colours?

    BTW wouldn't want more than one wife...aprt from the mother in laws...women in the same household tend to synchronise their cycles after a while. Imagine several wives with PMS and no playtime
    Sorry, forgot there is no "E" in your name lol. and your right that would just be hell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andyadams
    Been with the same lovely lady 19 years..... 3 kids.... haven't seen the need to get married or union'd yet............ Don't know what bigamy is though....
    Yeah, thats what I thought too
    But a heck of a lot of little girls growing up dream of fancy weddings.
    And if they have put up with us for long enough, then who are we to say no...
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