What do you do when your bird says the 'L' word...

[Gwinch]

... and beer is only allowed in a glass at the interval during a show like Mama Mia or Phantom of the Frikken Opera.

All other matters aside, what's wrong with Phantom Of The Opera? Mamma Mia I'll excuse as it's a steaming pile but the other is a classic of our time to be appreciated!

[Lucy]

She's attempting to use her 'love' as a way to pry him away from his motorcycle.

That's not love.

Ok I obviously read it totally wrong. I thought it was the Parents who were trying to talk him out of bikes.

If indeed it is the 'girlfriend' who is doing it, I agree, it's not love, and he should break it off, and shouldn't have to ask about it.

I stayed single until I found the right person, so have no experience in these matters anyway, don't even know why I read the poll, wasn't even drunk!

[jrandom]

how does one wriggle out of this sad existance......

Actually, nobody's answered that question for you yet, have they?

It's easy, but it requires balls. It'll do wonders for your self-respect, though. Particularly once you find the next girl, and realise that there really are a lot of fish in the sea, and that you're under no obligation to slavishly chase any particular one of them.

It goes like this:

"I don't like your attitude. Your approach toward our relationship is not compatible with the way I want to live, and it's no longer worthwhile pursuing, as far as I'm concerned. I'm calling it. Let's try and stay friends, though, eh?"

Be firm, and don't let her weasel and whimper her way out of it. Your decision needs to be made before you talk to her.

[Tank]

I did some research for you and found this:

http://advrider.com/forums/showthrea...=baby+mortgage

it starts with: ""WHAT?" I exclaimed, sitting bolt upright in bed.
"I want a baby", my girlfriend repeated.
My life flashed before my eyes, I was 20, I had a long term career, a mortgage, a pension, a bad back and a Ford Mondeo.
Something had to change, and in that instant I realised what it was.

Everything...."

and goes onto him getting a bike and riding from the UK to Australia.

Seriously breaking up can be a good thing.

[magicfairy]

If you are asking this question on a public forum, then I suspect you already know what the answer should be... get out before it's too late.

If you have doubts this early in the relationship then she probably isn't "The One"

She will be upset, but it is equally wrong to try and be something you are not for her, as it is for her to try and change you.


A wise friend once said to me
"Don't be with Mr Wrong when Mr Right does come along"