Why men cheat.

[Grahameeboy]

Heh!

I love the smell of interweb victories in the morning.

Answer in dictionary......

[Grahameeboy]

YOU FUCKEN HOMO...........never turn a bitch down-never!

Unlike you I don't sleep with bitches.......

[jrandom]

Mine is an 1198R.

What's an 1198R?

Do you know something about Ducati models that nobody else does?

[Number One]

I dunno?....why do any of us bother? I figure it starts out that most men find a hot bitch and end up staying with them because of [primarily] the jiggy, but also 'coz they are freinds. From there most men are bound by a combination of honour, guilt and probably more importantly the exact set of cicumstances coming together that would allow cheating jiggy to take place.


Also we all have an admission price. Mine is an 1198R.

More depressing stuff - I can't afford to buy my man a Duc...perhaps I should just cut him loose then - especialy if he is just here through a combination that includes guilt - thanks for that 6PB

You should hold onto those gay thoughts tho'...perhaps filming and posting on KB would reduce the likely hood of collective cheating

I'm well on my way - me and my lady have our own social group dedicated to our lady love

And, while I know there are surveys out there saying that more men cheat than women, I think that all that shows is that more men will admit to cheating than women.

Anecdotally, I'm aware of just as many cheatin' women as I am men. And I don't think the sexes are any different in their motivations for doing it.

I don't know any chicks that have cheated on their partners so I can't begin to imagine what they are thinking. I just know that I would never do it and would leave my relationship if I was ever seriously tempted to go down that track (not before trying to work out what was wrong with the relationship I'm in of course). I just don't get it and I think it is one of the cruelest things you can do to someone.

[SixPackBack]

Unlike you I don't sleep with bitches.......

Semantics. Real men never turn it down.

[SixPackBack]

What's an 1198R?

Do you know something about Ducati models that nobody else does?

Pedantic 'aintchya!.............I can't be fucked explaining it. Use google.

[Grahameeboy]

Semantics. Real men never turn it down.

Well I must not be a real man then....I have no problem with that...

[MsKABC]

Right, so you're proposing a rule that says if you're married, no conceivable circumstance makes it OK to have sex with someone else. Even if your partner gives consent or actively wants you to (some people like that sort of thing).

No, I don't think he was. My understanding of Jantar's post was not that he had made his affairs known to his wife and she was OK with it, just that he had made them known. There are some extenuating circumstances where it is exceedingly difficult to remain faithful, but not "getting it" at home and/or being in an unhappy marriage is not reason enough for me.

And frankly, having an affair to get yourself out of a marriage is just plain cowardly. My husband agrees with me on this.

[Winston001]

I don't know enough cheaters to form an opinion so: are cheaters generally repeat offenders or do they only do it as a one-off to satisfy a need?

There's a saying along the lines of "the way the relationship is started is how the relationship will end."

Yes and Yes.

Once we men break a taboo ie. a moral imperative to be faithful, the barrier is down. We are likely (but not compelled) to do it again. That is why second marriages/relationships have such a high failure rate.

It doesn't always happen but a cheater is odds-on to cheat again.

[Korumba]

This song was popular here in the states last year, love the lyrics..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmqIsnIp5uc

[MsKABC]

It's important to define what one is talking about.

The word 'cheating' is central to this discussion, and in English, the word 'cheating' implies deception.

I think most people posting in this thread would agree that cheating does not necessarily have to involve deceit. IMO, cheating is a form of betrayal, where you do something "outside" of your relationship that your partner is not comfortable with, regardless of whether he/she knows about it. This can involve sex, gambling, internet porn, investing large sums of money without your partner's consent. In this thread, we are talking specifically about sex.

[Number One]

This song was popular here in the states last year, love the lyrics..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmqIsnIp5uc

'where'd you meet that no good white trash ho!' I love how country singers make even nasty stuff sound almost lovely

[SixPackBack]

More depressing stuff - I can't afford to buy my man a Duc...perhaps I should just cut him loose then - especialy if he is just here through a combination that includes guilt - thanks for that 6PB



I'm well on my way - me and my lady have our own social group dedicated to our lady love



I don't know any chicks that have cheated on their partners so I can't begin to imagine what they are thinking. I just know that I would never do it and would leave my relationship if I was ever seriously tempted to go down that track (not before trying to work out what was wrong with the relationship I'm in of course). I just don't get it and I think it is one of the cruelest things you can do to someone.

You know I'm full of shit right??......having a wind up! [sorry Grahameeboy].
Cheating is out for me 'cos Jackie sez so and I don't want to hurt her feelings [fuck I'm a soft coont!].

[Number One]

You know I'm full of shit right??......having a wind up! [sorry Grahameeboy].
Cheating is out for me 'cos Jackie sez so and I don't want to hurt her feelings [fuck I'm a soft coont!].

YUP I know but seems many guys out there actually believe that shit. I feel for all my single mates and fear for all my married ones...well not all of them I am sure some of those guys have far too much integrity to go there...but still it makes for depressing reading.

[Grahameeboy]

You know I'm full of shit right??......having a wind up! [sorry Grahameeboy].
Cheating is out for me 'cos Jackie sez so and I don't want to hurt her feelings [fuck I'm a soft coont!].

I like banter Sixbelly