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    Quote Originally Posted by Trudes View Post
    Nice generalisation there I have to say.
    Woah there, you started it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    You mean like men shouldn't expect their wives to stop being interested in sex after they marry them?
    What difference does it matter if she's interested or not? Doesn't stop you from having it anyway...It's your right.

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    I have not had time to read the link but in my view woman take their marrage vows more seriously than men. The horny cock and procreation thing is nothing more than an excuse to cheat and blame bilogical reasons for it.

    At the end of the day it comes down to the values that you place on your word and integrity not to mention your own self discipline.

    Mind you having said that if the wife has turned herself off for whatever reason..............hubby is going to look somewhere else. The hand might suffice but it is not as good the real thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    What difference does it matter if she's interested or not? Doesn't stop you from having it anyway...
    Marital rape, the breakfast of champions!
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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    What difference does it matter if she's interested or not? Doesn't stop you from having it anyway...It's your right.
    I don't know whether to say:



    Or:

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    Do you mean "cheat" as in (a) have sex without emotional connection behind your partner's, or (b) being in a relationship with someone else behind your partner's back?

    I would have thought the physical act would be less betraying to a woman than having another intimate emotional relationship that may include sex.

    We all have physical needs and some stronger than others. If sex is offered frequently, then I would see little reason for a man to cheat as per (a) above.

    Making sandwhiches doesn't do it. Two things you need to do.
    1. Letting your man know how much you appreciate him and give him physical praise / compliments
    2. Tell him you "need" him (yes - we know you girls don't in this modern age need men, but men need to be "needed" - so just fake it, we can't tell - we too dumb)....
    ... the above 2 cater for the relationship side for men. (apart from common interests which apply to both partners).

    Add to that frequent sex and you won't end up with a cheater.
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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    Woah there, you started it!
    I merely posted a link to an article that alluded to why the majority of cheating husbands cheat. I don't see the generalisation in that. Now if I'd said "men cheat on their wives because they are scum bag, ego maniacs and sex fiends" that would be a generalisation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trudes View Post
    I merely... I don't see the generalisation...
    Yes dear.

    Quote Originally Posted by Trudes View Post
    Now if I'd said "men cheat on their wives because they are scum bag, ego maniacs and sex fiends"...
    Sounds about right to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    Marital rape, the breakfast of champions!
    Rape? Your wife? Errr what? That's like your bike refusing you a ride... 'does not compute'

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    You mean like men shouldn't expect their wives to stop being interested in sex after they marry them?
    Quote Originally Posted by Trudes View Post
    Nice generalisation there I have to say.
    My opinion is that jrandom hit it in one. I don't know met many men who haven't made the same observation. There are a few, but not many.
    Once a woman is married her sex drive seems to diminish, and to some guys that is reason enough to start looking elsewhere. So is it cheating to go elsewhere for something that a wife has stopped providing?
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    Quote Originally Posted by davebullet View Post
    Making sandwhiches doesn't do it. Two things you need to do.
    1. Letting your man know how much you appreciate him and give him physical praise / compliments
    2. Tell him you "need" him (yes - we know you girls don't in this modern age need men, but men need to be "needed" - so just fake it, we can't tell - we too dumb)....
    ... the above 2 cater for the relationship side for men. (apart from common interests which apply to both partners).

    Add to that frequent sex and you won't end up with a cheater.
    That sounds like a soundly effective strategy, especially if it's a two way street

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    Quote Originally Posted by davebullet View Post
    Do you mean "cheat" as in (a) have sex without emotional connection behind your partner's, or (b) being in a relationship with someone else behind your partner's back?

    I would have thought the physical act would be less betraying to a woman than having another intimate emotional relationship that may include sex.
    Nope, sorry - for me they would be pretty much on a par.

    Quote Originally Posted by davebullet View Post
    We all have physical needs and some stronger than others. If sex is offered frequently, then I would see little reason for a man to cheat as per (a) above.

    Making sandwhiches doesn't do it. Two things you need to do.
    1. Letting your man know how much you appreciate him and give him physical praise / compliments
    2. Tell him you "need" him (yes - we know you girls don't in this modern age need men, but men need to be "needed" - so just fake it, we can't tell - we too dumb)....
    ... the above 2 cater for the relationship side for men. (apart from common interests which apply to both partners).

    Add to that frequent sex and you won't end up with a cheater.
    I agree with the middle part, but the first/last sentiment expressed there I would have to refute - some men (and women too of course, but we are talking about men here, as per the thread title) are just assholes who want it from as many places as they can get it because it massages their ego. I have met, and indeed been propositioned by, a few of these
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    Well, I read the stuff and found it a bit sickly. Sure you are partners and should care for one another, blah blah, etc. But it started to sound so *fake* to me. Maybe I just can't quite imagine how little some couples must communicate. Why don't they get on their bikes and go for a ride!

    All this do something, make him feel appreciated- are you his wife or his mother, for goodness sake? Would his Mum give him a blow job every morning to make him feel like a winner? If things are that bad for a guy, why do they never try and make a clean break and start again? No, the usual response is an affair. That way they can have their cake and eat it, too.

    BTW, same thing goes for women who cheat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jantar View Post
    My opinion is that jrandom hit it in one. I don't know met many men who haven't made the same observation. There are a few, but not many.
    Once a woman is married her sex drive seems to diminish, and to some guys that is reason enough to start looking elsewhere. So is it cheating to go elsewhere for something that a wife has stopped providing?
    Is it the physical act of sex they are looking for or the feeling of being wanted and appreciated?

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    Quote Originally Posted by imdying View Post
    Rape? Your wife? Errr what? That's like your bike refusing you a ride... 'does not compute'
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spousal_rape

    http://www.nzfvc.org.nz/PublicationD...lication=13439
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