If I have any chance of changing a wrong behaviour or someones destructivness to society I have to understand that persons WV on the matter. It doesnt mean I agree with them or share it. It just helps me decide how to approach it. Catering to them... no because why would I attempt to change a view that wasnt destructive? In attempting to change an attitude have I not already established its destructive, but again I still need their WV to approach it in a meaningful way that is less threatening to them and just might work and hope like crap they respond.
As for your last comment, Ive been in this job for 4 months and I am currently looking a disiplinary action and have been asked to "modify my behaviour" due to my "balls". I apparently dont fit the organisations WV.
As for my clients, same thing. You ganna piss me around then Ill move to the next. I dont do anything for free. You want a food parcel, ok if you get budgeting. I dont appease them but I listen first to see where their WV are and then go to work on that.
Maybe I am a terrible social worker...dunno but for now I just wanna get this assignment done and done well
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your right.... Im just trying to represent what I have been asked to do in the most fair way possible by getting input and ideas. Origionally I didnt even think of "there is no one pakeha world veiw" or that there is such controversy over calling someone a Pakeha. Never thought of it cause Ive never been called one. Democracy I missed too.Also Womens rights to vote....The comments on here have made me think about that some more and will be added due to Kiwibiker.
I feel like an Muslim trying to give a worldveiw on Asians
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Understanding to a degree is easy,changing however is vastly different,expressing your opinion/societies opinion as you view it will in general change nothing,it will however in many cases provide a means to pay a mortgage etc therefore making it a viable proposition which can be justified if need be but still change nothing.Funny ole world eh.
Be the person your dog thinks you are...
I hope you do. I think it's symptomatic of the isolated geographic nature of New Zealand that the views of many people here only take into account the world within these shores.
New Zealand has been deeply enriched in the past few decades by people who have travelled to and lived in many different countries and I don't just mean as an OE where they say they went to Europe but only lived in London. I mean people who have been imersed in the cultural underbellies of many different cultures and have a helluva lot of experience to offer. For the most part when we make suggestions to improve the lot of the average Kiwi we are told to either:
a/ Get over it (this means we know there's a problem but we're simply not going to do anything about it coz we've always done things this way)
or
b/ harden the f*ck up (I am afraid so I must show you how macho I am by belittling you and your good idea).
There is an entire World outside your borders - I met a large number of New Zealanders in London. Most of them just wanted to get pissed and party and almost none of them had much Maori blood in them. Why do the Maori not do their OE like the white ones? Maori could benefit by seeing how poor and alcoholic and drug dependant white people can be in their native land. I'd love to take someone from Otara or Mangere and show them Easterhouse or South Nitshill or Wester Hailes just to see the look of shock on their faces.
In space, no one can smell your fart.
Someone say popadom?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnKMehoLaF8
(sorry it wont let me embed)
Sorry to butt in again but here's an article that quotes findings from the World Health Organisation
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/new...cle4629867.ece
I wonder where Mangere and Otara figure when compared to Calton?
In space, no one can smell your fart.
It's only when you take the piss out of a partially shaved wookie with an overactive 'me' gene and stapled on piss flaps that it becomes a problem.
This thread annoys me and I can't quite decide why?
1) there have been too many students asking for help on their assignments here lately?
2) the term Pakeha has no meaning and yet is so offensive?
3) social workers and their training is so PC; but then again, who would want to deal with the folks they see every day?
I don't know... it just bugs me and here I am at a stupid time of night posting about it!!!!
Well I told you my world view on naming cities here http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/sh...2&postcount=20 and it is a significant point when the poor old Pakeha in this society (and probably for all Europeans worldwide) seem to have to kowtow to anyone with a darker skin because its not "politically correct" to have your own culture and view ahead of them (the poor downtrodden - yeah right!!).
Cheers
Merv
Can someone please explain to me what is so offensive about being called a Pakeha?
...she took the KT, and left me the Buell to ride....(Blues Brothers)
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