View Full Version : Ideas on what to do in memory of Sam/flyin
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 09:05
Ok, I hope I'm not being too much of an organisation freak but I thought a poll of what should be done in memory of Sam may be a helpful way of gauging.
inlinefour
2nd May 2005, 09:07
Ok, I hope I'm not being too much of an organisation freak but I thought a poll of what should be done in memory of Sam may be a helpful way of gauging.
Although its not the lifestyle that I lead now. When a conrade falls we used to have a great piss up, err wake :niceone:
jazbug5
2nd May 2005, 09:08
I've already suggested a ride to the site next weekend to lay flowers. Not sure how many people are interested...
As for attending the funeral, it's totally dependant on how his family feels about it, I think.
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 09:09
Poll posted now - sorry I didn't realise the message would appear before I'd finished the poll.
Hitcher
2nd May 2005, 12:55
CSL, all of these are excellent ideas.
We will get a better idea on how to run this after we've had a chance to read the official death notice. Any funeral may be for immediate family only, and his family may also specify no flowers, or perhaps a charity to which contributions can instead be made.
By then we may also know how his family feels about bikes and bikers.
We need to be respectful of their wishes. After all for us he was a guy we knew, had ridden with and respected hugely. For them he is a son/brother/uncle/etc. Blood, as they say, is thicker than motor spirits...
As for a pilgimage to the accident site, I'd be up for that, or maybe just a "gathering" in the Martinborough Square. If anybody wants to say anything, they can but otherwise a few minutes of silent reflection on the hearts touched and unrealised potential forever lost.
I think I speak for at least some of us south islanders when I say that it'll be difficult for us to make it to the funeral or any other gathering to be held in memory of our fellow KB'er and friend. But if there's any way I/we can contribute in order to demonstrate our respect then I/we'll be happy to do so.
ManDownUnder
2nd May 2005, 15:45
I think I speak for at least some of us south islanders when I say that it'll be difficult for us to make it to the funeral or any other gathering to be held in memory of our fellow KB'er and friend. But if there's any way I/we can contribute in order to demonstrate our respect then I/we'll be happy to do so.
Wot he said - except for those of us in Auckland...
This is not an attempt to bring a message from the grave, or to sppok anyone. I (John, "flyins" older brother) wanted to express our sincere appreciation as a family for your condolonces and reflections on Sam's life. We loved Sam. He taught us all a lot about love in life, and we are learning more about his love for his friends through his death.
The funeral will be on Friday 6th of May at 11am. It will be held at "Our Lady of Fatima" church on the main road in Tawa, opposite the library. A time to meet and eat will be arranged afterwards as well.
We would be happy for anyone to come and share in this time. Sam shared his life with all of you, and we have no desire to take that from him in his death.
A convoy after the funeral sounds like it is well on it's way to being arranged, and I would encourage you guys to do that. If one of you could nominate yourself as the co-ordinator and get in touch maybe via Anatia we'd be happy to work with you. It will be out to Whenua Tapu, where we probably will have a family service. We'll keep you posted. It will be a funeral convoy, a sedate orderly time ; )
Do come together to ride, or talk , and take time together to reflect not only on Sam's life, but also your own, and the people around you who love you. My bike has no motor except my legs, but I love it, and I know that you love your bikes. But PLEASE, treat them and your families / friends with respect when you are riding.
Thank You all.
John
Unfortunately I am out of town this weekend, including Friday. Can someone say an Amen for me.
Thanks,
Paul
crashe
2nd May 2005, 16:36
John (Sam/Flyin's brother),
Thank you for coming in here and saying those lovely and kind words.
I know it must of been very hard for you to do that.
I'm sorry but I won't be able to attend the funeral service.
1) I live in Auckland and 2) I will have just had an operation that day.
So even thou I can not be there, I will be there in spirit with all the other KB'ers attending the service.
Crashe :ride:
onearmedbandit
2nd May 2005, 16:59
John (Sams brother)
I haven't stopped thinking about this tragic accident since I read the first post about it. I never knew Sam personally, but saw him post here regulary. All of us here have been affected in some way or other, but none more so than his family and friends. My thoughts are with you all, I only hope that you can, as you said, reflect on the things Sam taught you, the good times you had and the memories you share. I unfortunately will not be able to attend the funeral as I'm in ChCh, but will be thinking of him. Words can't express how sorry I am for you all.
In response to this: http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showpost.php?p=228252&postcount=8 I will be attending Sam's funeral on friday. Those of you who also wish to ride out, and who know wellington a bit better please feel free to post a meeting place and time.
I'd love to do a ride, but I wont have a bike for a few weeks sadly, but all for donations, ride each year to commemorate and a notice in the dominion.
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 17:47
Hi All,
I'm more than happy to place an notice in the local newspaper and pay for it as my contribution. Can some of the more eloquent of you assist me with the wording please - PM me please.
Thanks CSL :)
Coyote
2nd May 2005, 17:49
Follow the hearse on our bikes? Seen it before and it seemed like a nice idea. Although I would understand if they didn't appreciate that, I know my Mum wouldn't
FROSTY
2nd May 2005, 18:07
well Ill be heading down there for the funeral and all goin well ill have a bike to get there
Whatever decision be made is it to be made OB KB or individual members ?
Heres a link http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?t=11584
Given the response from his family lets do a convoy following the hearse.
Hitcher
2nd May 2005, 18:12
For those who wish to ride out to Sam's funeral on Friday, could I suggest a rendezvous (meet up) at the Caltex station on the Old Hutt Road (just past Placemakers) at 10:30am and we can ride out from there?
Follow the hearse on our bikes? Seen it before and it seemed like a nice idea. Although I would understand if they didn't appreciate that, I know my Mum wouldn't
Another thing, would it be more fitting if silencers were fitted or your non race cans ?
So your not 'overdoing it' I would have loved to do it but I had to be a twat and crash :(
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 18:18
For those who wish to ride out to Sam's funeral on Friday, could I suggest a rendezvous (meet up) at the Caltex station on the Old Hutt Road (just past Placemakers) at 10:30am and we can ride out from there?
See you there.
RiderInBlack
2nd May 2005, 18:21
Follow the hearse on our bikes? Seen it before and it seemed like a nice idea. Although I would understand if they didn't appreciate that, I know my Mum wouldn'tMost Bike Clubs do this for their club members. It does pay to see what the family would like, but as Sam's family has approved this then it would be a shame not to support this. Wish I could make this but Whangarei to Welly is too far. I know that the Welly KBers that have meet him will try to be there, "Roxanne" & I will just have to follow in spirit. My heart and soul ride with you Sam, and your family.
Hitcher
2nd May 2005, 18:32
For those who wish to ride out to Sam's funeral on Friday, could I suggest a rendezvous (meet up) at the Caltex station on the Old Hutt Road (just past Placemakers) at 10:30am and we can ride out from there?
I'm taking the rest of Friday as annual leave. May I suggest we take the funeral and what may follow as it happens on the day. But perhaps we could adjourn afterwards to a suitable place of purveyance that has lots of parking for bikes, and have a couple of "quiets" in Sam's honour? Nothing stupid. I'm sure Sam doesn't want any of us to join him for a long long time...
FROSTY
2nd May 2005, 18:32
For those who wish to ride out to Sam's funeral on Friday, could I suggest a rendezvous (meet up) at the Caltex station on the Old Hutt Road (just past Placemakers) at 10:30am and we can ride out from there?
Ill be there hitcher--but um-where is this exactly??
Ill be heading in at 8.30 on an airplane -I figure an hour to welly motorcycles and half an hour there an I right??
Hitcher
2nd May 2005, 18:35
Ill be there hitcher--but um-where is this exactly??
Ill be heading in at 8.30 on an airplane -I figure an hour to welly motorcycles and half an hour there an I right??
If you're coming via WMC, I'm sure somebody there can give you directions, either to the meet up at Caltex Old Hutt Road (Kaiwharawhara) at 10:30am or to the Catholic church in Tawa.
Paul in NZ
2nd May 2005, 18:35
Ok - Just cancelling some shit
99% chance I'll be there -
Cheers
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 18:39
I'm taking the rest of Friday as annual leave. May I suggest we take the funeral and what may follow as it happens on the day. But perhaps we could adjourn afterwards to a suitable place of purveyance that has lots of parking for bikes, and have a couple of "quiets" in Sam's honour? Nothing stupid. I'm sure Sam doesn't want any of us to join him for a long long time...
Excellent suggestion Mr H.
Ill be there hitcher--but um-where is this exactly??
Ill be heading in at 8.30 on an airplane -I figure an hour to welly motorcycles and half an hour there an I right??
Frosty, I live 500m from WMC so will ride out there with you. Dont know if WT or any other welly cbd'ers are heading out, but depart WMC 10am-ish? Keep me posted if you need a lift from the airport, I may just take the whole day off if required.
I'm trying to free up time at work to attend as well.
There is little parking available at the best of times around that Church. So please, as a courtesy to the family and close friends I suggest those on bikes park a discrete distance back leaving any parking spaces for more deserving folks. I'll pay attention tomorrow morning to see if there is a suitable spot nearby for all of us to congregate. We don't want any of Sam's family & friends feeling that we are intruding or 'taking over' the proceedings.
On a seperate note I now realise there are at least 5 or 6 KBers in Tawa and we should get together soon - I will pm those I have identified. Certainly wish I had made contact with Sam earlier.
MD
jazbug5
2nd May 2005, 19:14
I'll meet you guys at WMC.
Coyote
2nd May 2005, 19:17
Don't think I'll make it for a ride, the bike still isn't in rideable shape
And it might make people feel worse seeing my bike bet up and me being fine
GROOMER
2nd May 2005, 19:20
I live and work in Tawa, and I'll be working on Friday so unable to attend, but for parking theres a quite a bit of parking available on the main road slightly south of the church between my work (mexted motors) and the roundabout that the church is on.
FROSTY
2nd May 2005, 19:23
There is little parking available at the best of times around that Church. So please, as a courtesy to the family and close friends I suggest those on bikes park a discrete distance back leaving any parking spaces for more deserving folks. MD
good onya MD -good point.
I went to school with sam and caught up with him just last wednesday. Theres usualy a bit of parking around the back of woolworths which is a 2 or 3 minute walk to the church. Im sure there will be his mates on 4 wheels wanting to convoy aswell....
Skyryder
2nd May 2005, 19:29
Some time ago someone mentioned a KB rally. Not too sure if this is the appropiate time but my suggestion for a memorial would be a rally named after Flyin', the Flyin' Rally. Any thought on this from other KBer's.
Skyryder
jazbug5
2nd May 2005, 19:31
Since a lot of people won't be able to attend the funeral, how about a Sunday ride out to Gladstone to lay flowers? I was thinking maybe meeting about 10.30?
If someone who knew him better has a better suggestion (like maybe a favourite place of his instead) that'd be great.
Obviously, as always, us city types could start from WMC and then meet others at Caltex, etc. If you think this is a dumb idea or anything, please feel free to say so.
GROOMER
2nd May 2005, 19:36
Since a lot of people won't be able to attend the funeral, how about a Sunday ride out to Gladstone to lay flowers? I was thinking maybe meeting about 10.30?
If someone who knew him better has a better suggestion (like maybe a favourite place of his instead) that'd be great.
Obviously, as always, us city types could start from WMC and then meet others at Caltex, etc. If you think this is a dumb idea or anything, please feel free to say so.
Would love to but my bike no go at the moment :(
jazbug5
2nd May 2005, 19:39
I'm sure other people will be coming in cages. I think it's more important that you make it, not how you make it. Several folk are bikeless just now- I'm sure someone can give you a lift.
surfchick
2nd May 2005, 19:44
The auckland contingent that can't make the funeral on Friday could wear a black arm band/sash on the forearm over the leathers as a mark of mourning when we are on our bikes this friday. I know I will- It's so so sad. :no:
Quasievil
2nd May 2005, 19:51
Is anyone heading down from Auckland area on bikes ? if so let me know please
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 19:56
Since a lot of people won't be able to attend the funeral, how about a Sunday ride out to Gladstone to lay flowers? I was thinking maybe meeting about 10.30?
If someone who knew him better has a better suggestion (like maybe a favourite place of his instead) that'd be great.
Obviously, as always, us city types could start from WMC and then meet others at Caltex, etc. If you think this is a dumb idea or anything, please feel free to say so.
This isn't a dumb idea. See ya WMC, Sunday, 10ish or a little earlier?
Paul in NZ
2nd May 2005, 19:56
Would love to but my bike no go at the moment :(
Being there is more important than HOW you got there. You can hitch a lift on the Guzzler if you can take the pain mate....
soundbeltfarm
2nd May 2005, 19:57
The auckland contingent that can't make the funeral on Friday could wear a black arm band/sash on the forearm over the leathers as a mark of mourning when we are on our bikes this friday. I know I will- It's so so sad. :no:
i think this is a good idea for kbers everywhere that are unable to attend or even those attending
James Deuce
2nd May 2005, 20:02
I'm personally a little reticent to turn up on a bike.
I don't know what to do. :no:
Attend the funeral - yes (but time off work may prevent this...)
Ride out to site/whatever - yes.
Send a donation - yes, I can see them putting it to good use if they are at all like Sam.
I feel the need to do something.
GROOMER
2nd May 2005, 20:06
Being there is more important than HOW you got there. You can hitch a lift on the Guzzler if you can take the pain mate....
Thanks for the offer dude. I prob will head over in my car. I just kinda meant I wouldnt be in a "group ride" over there.
If any other bikeless bikers need a lift, I'm sure there'll be a spare seat or 2 in my car.....if you can handle being seen in a civic :killingme
I'm guessing someone thats coming over knows the exact location....?
Ms Piggy
2nd May 2005, 20:08
I'm personally a little reticent to turn up on a bike.
I understand your feelings Jim but I think as long as we are respectful and don't make a show of it, it could be a really positive thing.
James Deuce
2nd May 2005, 20:14
I'll be taking the car, and I have a spare seat IF et al doesn't want it. I'll talk to him tomorrow, and if he is taking his bike, I'll have a seat available if anyone needs a ride. I'll be up for the Sunday ride though.
Hitcher
2nd May 2005, 20:46
Since a lot of people won't be able to attend the funeral, how about a Sunday ride out to Gladstone to lay flowers? I was thinking maybe meeting about 10.30?
If someone who knew him better has a better suggestion (like maybe a favourite place of his instead) that'd be great.
Obviously, as always, us city types could start from WMC and then meet others at Caltex, etc. If you think this is a dumb idea or anything, please feel free to say so.
How about meeting up at the Martinborough Square at midday on Sunday and riding out to Gladstone from there? That may save a long procession of bikes over the Takas...
I'm in for the memorial ride on sunday.
I think we need a new thread headed "Sunday, Memorial Ride to Gladstone!"
So everybody will know.
I understand your feelings Jim but I think as long as we are respectful and don't make a show of it, it could be a really positive thing.
I agree with CSL, the more bikes there, the greater the statement of support
If anyone is temporarily bikeless, and wants to pillion, pm me.
RiderInBlack
2nd May 2005, 21:26
Having been to a biker funeral, I have riden at the request of the family without a helmet, but it made me feel very unsafe. If it was not a the request of the family I would have worn the helmet. I don't like the idea of adding to the passing away of a fellow biker by risking another by attending a funeral without a helmet. It's an old biker tradition I feel we don't have to continue. Helmets should come off at the cementry, not on the way. Just my feelings anyway.
Kwaka-Kid
2nd May 2005, 21:33
The auckland contingent that can't make the funeral on Friday could wear a black arm band/sash on the forearm over the leathers as a mark of mourning when we are on our bikes this friday. I know I will- It's so so sad. :no:
Rockin idea surfchick!
Im up for that.
will ride to work in full leathers with black arm sash on forearm.
crashe
2nd May 2005, 22:06
Yep.. might just do that too.
Where do you get these arm bands.. cause if you have to make em i am screwed.... Surfchick.. you any good at sewing???
Buy some wide black ribbon..... and then if you really cant sew a few stitches... use a safety pin to hold it together.... and you will have easy access to a few safety pins.
Kwaka-Kid
2nd May 2005, 22:06
true? to be honest i weas going to tear some off my paeroa shirt of yesteryear.
But im keen to stay uniform with whatever you guys feel is appropriate..
err - and which arm?..
surfchick
2nd May 2005, 22:10
Yep.. might just do that too.
Where do you get these arm bands.. cause if you have to make em i am screwed.... Surfchick.. you any good at sewing???
I think tie any black scarf, or strip of black material onto to your upper arm on Fri. We'll know if we pass you on the M-way it's your respect to Sam. Don't think it matters at all what you use as long as its on there. Not a stitch required. luckily.
true? to be honest i weas going to tear some off my paeroa shirt of yesteryear.
But im keen to stay uniform with whatever you guys feel is appropriate..
err - and which arm?..
Left arm. I remember when they were common.Smith and Caughy used to sell ready made ones.
Paul in NZ
2nd May 2005, 22:17
I'll speak to Frosty re a suitable memorial.
If you want to do something really simple or spectactular lets remember the only folks that could have made a difference. The ambulance crew. Wonder if we can raise some funds for something?
Dunno
RiderInBlack
2nd May 2005, 22:19
I'll tie my black bandana over my red one on my left arm (otherwise you would not see the black against the black leather:msn-wink: ).
Wonder if we can raise some funds for something?
Life Flight Trust? (rescue chopper+air ambo)
If it rains on Thurs or even wed then I may even be able to cross the Strait as we won't be able to do any harvesting. See what happens.
I would love to show our respect for him.
flyin's m8
2nd May 2005, 23:35
I would like to say thanks again for the thoughts and feelings that have generated such an enormous amount of emotion across NZ. I've known him a little over 12 months and never have I been oblivious to Sam's charismatic, loving approach to the world, nor his inextiguishable drive to help, assist, his fellow man to share an enjoyable experience.
Sam was a well known and much loved young man, I spent many hours on his ZZR with him, he was nothing short of superb in any endeavour, shy wasn't something that Sam practiced and neither shall we. Careful he was, mostly, certainly always when I was there, but never afraid. He was a guy that knew a place that respected the nature of a man's spirit, and was always there, in heart.
It's a comforting thought, to know that there is a place where people divided by so many factions in life can be together and create a community that speaks to each individual member in a unique way. The people on KBer have excellent, creative, genuine ideas of remembering flyin' and what he means to us, I ask that you all remember to be aware on your travels, of yourselves mainly, and of others too. Respect and consideration are things that we can all know intimately, if we want to, all of the time.
I can say, as much as I would love to travel to Whenua Tapu without my head on, I know, without asking, that family of flyin' would not appreciate such an 'unsafe' gesture. However, once inside the cemetary grounds, it would be a nice tribute, something that will need to be carefully organised if it is to be executed.
I will be joining the ride from Caltex to 'Our Lady of Fatima' and on to Whenua Tapu, as a pillion of course. If anyone comes to Wellington and gets stuck for directions, or a place to stay, even a ride, please give me a call, I may not be able to organise a bike, but I'm local and its actually not hard to find the place when you know the area. My details are on the original, now 12 page, post, dedicated to flyin', titled URGENT!!.
Guys, there's a lot of feelin, that I can't put into words, Nathan, Dean, Jimbo, my thoughts have been with you, please take care, and be in touch if I can be of assistance in any way. Like I say... a lot I can't...
I'd like to mention now, Sam has travelled over the Haywads pretty much every day, on occasion up to four or six times in a day, since long before his motocycle purchase, and nothing deterred him, well... not much, anyway, point is.... I would like to come along for a memorial ride, round the loop (Matinborough), Sunday sounds good, and please incorporate the Haywards. Also, knowing Sam, as I do, I would like to see a convoy through the main streets of both Petone and Tawa... of course, there are other places I would love to go, but there it is... Not a lot considering the miles travelled....
As far as dropping flowers at Gladstone, I know I will be going out there before the ride on Sunday, and I suggest others do the same if they want to stop at the corner to pay respects to Sam. There is potential for havoc if people stop on a corner during a ride... It's a good idea to stop somewhere nearby if its convenient, i'm not too familiar with that area, but know that I will want to stop and remember, something that I nostalgically wish I had been present to experience, and will forever hold dear with memory for Sam.
Again, thank you, to all those who understand where the road leads, and what the choices make of life, my thoughts are with you, as much as Sam and all the other people, across NZ and the world who know and love him.
Peace Sammull, always my friend... Forever
I'll be there on Fri and Sun.
Flyin's m8 - thanks for the advice for the "proceedings," and for sharing some real cool stuff with us. We're all thinking of you and his family at the mo.
The Tazman
3rd May 2005, 00:00
Where to start
This was only my second ride out with the kbers and I had only just met Sam briefly on the Friday night where I work at kittys, then again that morning. He took the time to talk to me and we had a bit of a chat at the flying fish in Martinborough. I am not the best with words but wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to his family and friends and to say that I want to do all I can to assist on Friday.
I will be taking the day off.
I have a pillion seat if someone needs it.
I live in Papakowhai which is not too far from Tawa, so if anyone is coming from a distance I have a spare double bed, a good size couch and can get hold of an air bed.
There is a double garage with just my bike in so there is room for more and can sort out space for a couple of cars as well if needed.
Of course if there is alot of you that need to take up this offer I am sure we can sort something out. There is a Motel behind me if really needed.
Just let me know how I can help and I will do all I can.
This goes for The Sunday ride as well.
Take care Kbers
Gary
ps my new signature is for all of you. I just wish I had said it to Sam
I would love to be at both the funeral and the ride on Sunday, but already have committments for this weekend, including Friday. Will be thinking of Sam and all of you as his life is celebrated on Friday, and remembered on Sunday.
God bless.
Paul
I would like to say thanks again for the thoughts and feelings that have generated such an enormous amount of emotion across NZ. ..... and will forever hold dear with memory for Sam.
......
Peace Sammull, always my friend... Forever
Thank you Flyin's m8 for those amazing words. Try and read that with a dry eye. Its sounds like you have a ride arranged but if not let me know by private message I can give you a ride. I also live in Tawa and prompted by Sam's death I have contacted about 6 other locals on Kiwibiker for a get together next Wednesday 11th 7pm at the Round-about pub, so please feel free for you and any of Sam's mates to join us.
Mark
Ms Piggy
3rd May 2005, 10:26
I'll put the notice in on Friday.
We're going to go through the condolence post and pick out some apt phrases and include them. If I get a chance I'll generate a few and post them so people can vote, although I think I'll have to have the notice in on Thrusday morning at the latest.
Thanks CSL
Quasievil
3rd May 2005, 10:42
I think I would be safe to say on behalf of the northern riders we are of course shocked and saddened by this tragedy, for me personally it has certainly caused some sad moments while reading through the threads.
I would have liked to come down and pay my respects to Sam and his family but I cannot get the time of work therefore I wont be able to attend.
I have been thinking hard of what I/we can do to pay respect to Sam and his family, I think for me the best thing I can do is tie a black ribbon on my arm and ride my bike on friday and think about safety on the road and the dangers of being there.
If any northern riders read this and have some ideas about what we can do , please post them so we may also unite in showing our respect for Sam and his family.
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 10:50
Flyins m8 -Your sear is reserved -Not sure what the bike will be yet but you will have a bike to travel on.
Black ribbon armband --fantastic idea.
No helmets--nope I wont be doing that - It goes against everything I believe re motorbike safety but lets have no tinted visors
I think perhaps in the cemetry grounds a brief pause to remove helmets might be appropriate.
Has anyone else done a convoy before??
The ones I have done have been done in pairs--two bikes side by side a space then two more bikes side by side et al.
My thinking re donations is to make a single donation to the family to contribute to funeral costs. perhaps to have a little bike on his headstone/memorial.
suggestion only of course
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 10:52
Quazi--I was wondering about a memorial ride out. Not a thrash or a silly ride. A quiet ride.
Had a looksee this morning. For those not sure you drive in to Tawa from m/way heading up the main road to the third round-about. Our Lady of Fatima Church is on this corner ( left corner), Library to the right and also on left is a red brick Presbyterian Church. Both churches have reasonable off street car park so my first suggestion is we park in the Pres. church car park IF it is empty and that church has nothing on at that time. Failing that turn right and park at rear of Library which adjoins the supermarket car park- heaps of space and only a minute walk to the Church.
All depends on how many of us. I like Frosty's ideal that we ride in pairs, clear visors if you have em, no revving, lights on (who has a choice these days)
and pull to side of road as we enter cemetary to remove helmets. Possibly easier to just leave them on the ground at the side of path and one of us stay to watch over them. edit- I will do this.
White trash
3rd May 2005, 11:32
Thanks Mark.
Will see you Friday morning.
Quasievil
3rd May 2005, 11:37
Quazi--I was wondering about a memorial ride out. Not a thrash or a silly ride. A quiet ride.
Yeah good idea mate, we will organise one soon eh ?
ManDownUnder
3rd May 2005, 12:11
Yeah good idea mate, we will organise one soon eh ?
Sounds good guys - count me in
MDU
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 12:42
Guys and gals a point raised by another member.
Can we be 100% certain that the family are happy for ANY or all of this to happen.
The very last thing anybody wants to do is to do anything offensive to the family.
We have heard from John his brother but is there any way to discretely check its ok with mum and dad etc??
Lou Girardin
3rd May 2005, 12:46
Biker guard of honour as the funeral party leave the church perhaps?
Two rows each side, carry your helmets to the front, heads bowed.
Keeper
3rd May 2005, 12:59
If work allows I will attend,
and if anyone has a spare bike plate they can lend me I'll join in the ride.
I know a lot of Tawa College will be there, its really sad to loose someone who has so much left ahead of them in their life...
Riding without helmets? Comon guys I can be an idiot on a bike but we dont want to risk loosing someone else to the roads.
Indiana_Jones
3rd May 2005, 13:30
Man, I an't been on kiwibiker for a little while and I've only just noticed this (stupid fool that I am)
Sorry to hear about this :(
-Indy
flyin's m8
3rd May 2005, 14:23
Hi All,
I can say, with total certainty that John (Sam's brother) is with his Mum and Dad at their house in Tawa. Their family is very close and nothing will be posted here that is misleading for anyone. Rest assurred, so long as you are careful and cautious, you will not offend anyone. I will keep in contact with what is being suggested and am seeing Sam's family daily, will make sure that everything is okay. Please be creative, Sam will Love it.
Guard of Honour, was Jane's (Sam's Mum) suggestion, and I am all for it. As well as a procession following the hearse, and if we can, remove helmets at the cemetary. Sam wasn't one for ridin without a helmet on, except across the petrol station forecourt, however, I know that there is great feeling and display of the face, with head bowed, will be very moving for all.
If we can get a idea of numbers attending the service on bikes, would be good for people who are organising to create a picture in their minds. Also, I will be at Caltex and riding to the Church, so will be able to co-ordinate from there as well.
I understand that John is probably watching this forum and hope to speak with him later myself. Please be open with your ideas, most of them are very touching and all of them appreciated.
Thanks,
Annatia
maybe we should start a thread just for those who are attending, so we can count numbers properly and as to not get mixed up with all the current threads.
i for one will do my best to be there, im hoping i can leave early friday moring or thursday night.
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 14:49
Ok you lot this is how I picture it.
We meet in various places round town and head to the gas station Hitcher suggests.
All wear clear visors on lids.
In line abreast formation (2 side by side) we ride to the church -rideby then park up as MD suggested.
Black armbands worn on left forearm
At end of funeral we form an honour guard --side by side either side from entrance of church to the hearse. Heads bowed -helmets in front.
Follow behind the hearse and family as a hounour guard.
Stop at gates to cemetry.
Head off to meeeting place suggested.
How does that sound you lot
Quasievil
3rd May 2005, 14:54
Ok you lot this is how I picture it.
We meet in various places round town and head to the gas station Hitcher suggests.
All wear clear visors on lids.
In line abreast formation (2 side by side) we ride to the church -rideby then park up as MD suggested.
Black armbands worn on left forearm
At end of funeral we form an honour guard --side by side either side from entrance of church to the hearse. Heads bowed -helmets in front.
Follow behind the hearse and family as a hounour guard.
Stop at gates to cemetry.
Head off to meeeting place suggested.
How does that sound you lot
mate start another thread under events with this detail.
Only those annnouncing there attendance are to post on this new thread so the numbers can be managed.
im the moderator of Events and I will clean out anything other than a actual registrations of attendance.
This way Sams family can easily understand numbers as can anyone else with an interest.
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 14:57
done---theres now a thread in meetings and events.http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/editpost.php?do=editpost&p=229205
heres the link
done---theres now a thread in meetings and events.
Frosty, what's your flight number? Do you know what time you will be landing yet? I have some work to do in the morning from home, but I only live just down the road from WMC so can pick you up in the car in the morning and bring you into town. Let me know what you want to do.... :niceone:
riffer
3rd May 2005, 15:53
Frosty, what's your flight number? Do you know what time you will be landing yet? I have some work to do in the morning from home, but I only live just down the road from WMC so can pick you up in the car in the morning and bring you into town. Let me know what you want to do.... :niceone:
It's okay mate. I've got him sorted. :niceone:
It's okay mate. I've got him sorted. :niceone:
Good Man, let me know know if any plans fall through and you need an extra pair of hands/wheels.
Quasievil
3rd May 2005, 16:17
this is the link for registrations of attendance as a specific event, this is done so Family and freinds can see exactly how many Kb members are coming, particulary those on Bikes in a guard of honour there are also details about this ride.
please register if your going
http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/calendar.php?do=getinfo&day=2005-5-6&e=483&c=1
enigma51
3rd May 2005, 16:34
Suggestion
For those that cant attend lets do a minute silence on friday as respect to the family and Flyin.
Paul in NZ
3rd May 2005, 17:28
Guys
I've arranged a morning off (bumped a big client but they are cool with it) and will fit in with anything else. I'm in auckland now and next 2 days and I will catch up with Frosty but will have bugger all time to get organised thur night friday morn so can some kind soul pm me with the final solution.
Cheers
ps - reading the notice in the paper makes me wonder if Sams folks would rather see us thursday evening?
pps - I'm on lousy dial up from the hotel so won't be checking this regularly OK
StoneChucker
3rd May 2005, 17:47
I hope noone will take it as disrepectful, but I will have to wear my normal riding gear (Jeans, t-shirt, cordura jacket, boots/gloves). Can't fit a suit under my gear (IF I had a suit yo fit...)
Keeper
3rd May 2005, 17:49
got friday off work, that link doesnt work
Marknz
3rd May 2005, 17:53
I hope noone will take it as disrepectful, but I will have to wear my normal riding gear (Jeans, t-shirt, cordura jacket, boots/gloves). Can't fit a suit under my gear (IF I had a suit yo fit...)
Mate, if you're riding your bike you wear what you would normally wear when riding it. Sam would probably have it no other way. No point in putting yourself at further risk in a mass ride environment
Quasievil
3rd May 2005, 17:54
I hope noone will take it as disrepectful, but I will have to wear my normal riding gear (Jeans, t-shirt, cordura jacket, boots/gloves). Can't fit a suit under my gear (IF I had a suit yo fit...)
Mate I dont think so, I will be in my leathers, thats about the only clothing I will have with me, I wont go into the service though i will wait outside
FROSTY
3rd May 2005, 17:55
Ill be in leathers with maybee a change of clothes with me.
got friday off work, that link doesnt work
Try the second one. Post #89.
Ms Piggy
4th May 2005, 08:11
I hope noone will take it as disrepectful, but I will have to wear my normal riding gear (Jeans, t-shirt, cordura jacket, boots/gloves). Can't fit a suit under my gear (IF I had a suit yo fit...)
I'll be wearing my riding gear as well.
Just a question, are we doing something for Flyin in Auckland as well?
Keeper
4th May 2005, 13:44
see you guys there
FROSTY
4th May 2005, 15:16
Just a question, are we doing something for Flyin in Auckland as well?
good onya Feight--You just offered to organaise the Auckland memorial ride.
StoneChucker
4th May 2005, 18:05
Sniff, I'm not even sure if I can come now. Must still ask the manager. :no:
Quasievil
4th May 2005, 18:17
Just a question, are we doing something for Flyin in Auckland as well?
Yeah nice action Feint, make it somewhere interesting!!!:niceone:
Sparky Bills
4th May 2005, 22:02
I wont go into the service though i will wait outside
Same here.
I wont go into the service though i will wait outside
I have thought about this and I'm with you Quasi. (That is, if I can get out of work to attend.)
Does ANYONE know what time the procession heads to Whenua Tapu?
Sparky Bills
4th May 2005, 22:22
Nop, sorry mate.
When everything is finished, im heading back to work.
Wenier
4th May 2005, 22:28
I went to school with sam and caught up with him just last wednesday. Theres usualy a bit of parking around the back of woolworths which is a 2 or 3 minute walk to the church. Im sure there will be his mates on 4 wheels wanting to convoy aswell....
I also went to school with him and was mates with Foz and him. Very sad to hear and unluckily wont be able to make it.
Dynamix
5th May 2005, 11:44
Hi All
I'm new to Kiwibiker, but I've been riding for a while now.
I have been working with Sam over the last few months and watched him go from having an interest in Motorcycles to being unable to pry him away from one. I remember the day he went to pick up his ZZR. He was so excited I don't believe his feet touched the ground that day.
Almost every morning I would get a report of where and with whom he had been riding and how many wheelies he popped. He always had good words for all the people he rode with.
I will miss these morning stories Sam told me because he was so enthusiastic about everything. He reminded me of what I was like when I got my first bike.
The part I will miss the most is his special grin.
If it is ok with everyone I would like to be included in the ride to the funeral.
I think the support from you all is awesome. :niceone:
If it is ok with everyone I would like to be included in the ride to the funeral.
It would be a pleasure to see you there.
FROSTY
5th May 2005, 11:55
good onya mate :Punk:
StoneChucker
5th May 2005, 21:50
I can make it for sure now. See you at the meeting point y'all...
good onya Feight--You just offered to organaise the Auckland memorial ride.
The ride is a newbie cruise up Old North Road. 9:00AM at Westgate Shell service station. Check out the 'meetings and events' page. :msn-wink:
Frosty, Quasi and all the other fellas riding down to Wellington. Good on you and have a safe journey down and back.
ManDownUnder
6th May 2005, 12:37
Can someone take a note of Flyin's plot? I'd like to pay respects next time I hit Wellywood
MDU
From all of Sam (Flyins) family we wished to thank you all for the support you have given us, and the respect you have paid to our son / brother. It has been a wonderful sign of community amongst yourselves, and which Sam was part of.
The convoy was a great tribute, no doubt sam would have been there for anyone else, and would have appreciated fully the expression.
Thank you
The Langham Family
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