Unwanted attention

[Jorja]

Okay so you are enjoying yourself at a party after a nice dinner out with your other half.
Due to possibly a few to many dringks mixed with steak, bluevein cheese and dancing your other half goes to get some fresh air.

What is the best line for getting rid of unwanted attention?

CREEP are you here with your boyfriend
YOU (said to other half as they come back) are you my boyfriend?
OTHERHALF depends on if you are gonna s**k my d**k tonight.

Should have seen the look on CREEPS face :jerry:

[007XX]

:rofl: Oh, now that's style!!! :niceone:

[Usarka]

How about "sorry I'm not interested and am here with my boyfriend" in a nice polite voice?

[Edit:] can you clarify how we should interperet "many drinks mixed with.....blue vein cheese"??? :eek5:

[CookMySock]

owch !

DB

[oldrider]

One of the more pleasant parts of growing old is you move right on past all the mating game rituals. :rolleyes:

People become......just people. :crybaby: John.(Just kidding :shifty: )

[Grahameeboy]

Just tell then you are a Lesbian...worked for me saying I was Gay....:niceone:

[buellbabe]

Unwanted attention ...
My friend and I always used to flip a coin... the stoopid male would be thinking he was gonna get lucky and would be going home with the winner.

Yeah right! We were flipping the coin to decide who would tell him to "F**K OFF!"


(of course if he was cute then we would be flipping the coin to decide which one of us would do the honorable thing and step aside...LOL)

[MSTRS]

Just tell then you are a Lesbian...worked for me saying I was Gay....:niceone:

....and then word gets round...

[Mikkel]

....and then word gets round...

However, women want what they can't have...

And there's kudos in being the one to 'convert' the gay fella. ;)


However, you might find that you'll get more unwanted attention rather than less.

[NOMIS]

sorry cant talk really got the runns

[gijoe1313]

I've seen the ol' "pour the drink down the trousers" trick work quite well, or the usual "get lost creep/slimeball", the ol'elbow in the side, the stiletto stomp on the shoe, a knee in the groin ... :pinch:

Glad I let my mates take those hits ... its all fun and games until it works and then you're married with children!

[Grahameeboy]

....and then word gets round...

Really..................:rolleyes:

[Grahameeboy]

However, women want what they can't have...

And there's kudos in being the one to 'convert' the gay fella. ;)


However, you might find that you'll get more unwanted attention rather than less.

Bugger...now you tell me..................:crybaby:

[Coldrider]

Just tell them that as soon as you believe there is a relationship, you will go them for half their assets.

[007XX]

I've seen the ol' "pour the drink down the trousers" trick work quite well, or the usual "get lost creep/slimeball", the ol'elbow in the side, the stiletto stomp on the shoe, a knee in the groin ... :pinch:


:shit:That's shocking! I'd never do that to a guy, even if his pick up line is not that great...

There should be such a thing as courtesy really...he had the balls to get close and all that, blah, blah...A polite: "thank you for the interest, but unfortunately, I am:
a-taken,
b- not that interested or
c- PMSing so quite frankly, I savor the idea of a stiff G&T way more at the moment

However, if he is behaving like a creep, touching ANY part of the body in an uninvited manner, well that's a different ballgame.:ar15:

Fortunately, I never used to get hit on much :2thumbsup

[MSTRS]

Fortunately, I never used to get hit on much :2thumbsup

Too scary...or you used to get in first?:chase:

[yod]

:killingme

[NOMIS]

You guys are all under illusionthat it only happens to females..

it happens to guys as well. Has happend to me a few times.. a friend of mine allways seems to get hit on by girls who would compare to elephants.. I asked him where he gets the penutbutter body spray from.

A girl I work with constantly hits on me .. Soooo anoying. and she not shy about it either can get me pretty embarrased in front of other colleagues.

[NOMIS]

And the thing is girls don't get the hint if your not interested unless your blunt if you polite the keep hanging around.

[Mully]

A girl I work with constantly hits on me .. Soooo anoying. and she not shy about it either can get me pretty embarrased in front of other colleagues.

Reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaly.

Who's that then??

[Katman]

"Are you here with your boyfriend?" can hardly be construed as a sleazy pick up line. The look on his face was probably saying "My God, what trash."

[CookMySock]

"Are you here with your boyfriend?" can hardly be construed as a sleazy pick up line.Yeah itsa fair question innit.

It's tough for guys to just walk right up. Don't bash them too hard, ok? "no thanks" should be all they need, and really, if you mean no, you should say no to start with and not leave them trying to figure it out. If not, then one more chance, then let them have it. You shouldn't call us names either - it's nasty, and wrecks our self-esteem. <_<

Sometimes I wonder if chix would rather we just gave up.

DB

[NOMIS]

Reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaly.

Who's that then??

hahaha I think ill keep quiet now..... For got you would be reading this lol

[Tank]

"Are you here with your boyfriend?" can hardly be construed as a sleazy pick up line. The look on his face was probably thinking "My God, what trash."




CREEP are you here with your boyfriend
YOU (said to other half as they come back) are you my boyfriend?
OTHERHALF depends on if you are gonna s**k my d**k tonight.

Should have seen the look on CREEPS face :jerry:

I would have to say that you (and your boyfriend) have shown a complete lack of class.

Firstly - as you described it - it doesnt sound like a all that creepy approach from the guy.

A guy sees you, thinks you are nice and has come over to chat - At least he asked if you had a boyfriend as opposed to hitting you with corny lines.

The classy thing to do would have been a simple - yes I am, thanks.

And as for your boyfriend - well if hes happy to talk to you like that in front of strangers - that shows a huge lack of respect for you.

Im not surprised that the 'creep' had a look of horror on his face - its not because he was shot down - he was probably mortified about you guys.

Then you come on here bragging about it - pfffft.

[fire eyes]

Sorry .. but I thought it was funny. :bleh:

[Mully]

hahaha I think ill keep quiet now..... For got you would be reading this lol

Heh. Can think of a few people in the office I would happily be harrassed by.......

[007XX]

Too scary...or you used to get in first?:chase:

A bit of both apparently...I say "apparently" cos I have honestly never been able to figure out what the heck is "scary" about someone like me.

I mean crikey dick, I'm built like an anemic scaffolding and have the "impressive factor" of a wet penguin...:confused:

But yesh, got over seeing boys fleeing in panic, and just cornered them, then snogged them stupid...it worked most times :p :laugh:

[martybabe]

"impressive factor" of a wet penguin...:confused:

But yesh, got over seeing boys fleeing in panic, and just cornered them, then snogged them stupid...it worked most times :p :laugh:


I'm mightily impressed by wet penguins. :gob:


Love the technique ,always worked on me, much better than academic word games,body language analysis, fleeting glances, innuendo and guess what I'm thinking pa-larva. I'm a bit slow on the games lovers play but even I get the message when two tongues collide. :shifty:

[FJRider]

....and then word gets round...

Got around ???

[Oakie]

a wet penguin...:confused:

Oooh wet penguins do it for me everytime.

[007XX]

I'm mightily impressed by wet penguins. :gob:


Love the technique ,always worked on me, much better than academic word games,body language analysis, fleeting glances, innuendo and guess what I'm thinking pa-larva. I'm a bit slow on the games lovers play but even I get the message when two tongues collide. :shifty:

:laugh: well, that makes two of us...I've always hated the dating games. Never could figure out what the friggin' rules were. I mean sure, I can flirt (hell, it's a heck of a lot of fun), but it was more often than not a rare enjoyment for me...I find it puzzling when I was told: "Don't call him back within two days, or he'll think you're easy" or "if you don't call him, he'll think you're too prissy!" WTF??? Make up your mind people :angry2:

Thankfully, my beloved and I found each other, and so I no longer need to worry about having to figure out any "signals"...we both just say what's on our minds :clap: :love: (and yes, I jumped on him at the beginning of our courtship...:D)


Oooh wet penguins do it for me everytime.

The cute ones, with big eyes, and glistening wet fur? :whistle:

[marty]

true story - (well it was in Matamata) - she says "if you can guess my weight you can fuck me tonight" he says "2 tonnes?" she says "close enough - let's go!"

apparantley she went off like a rocket.....

[Jorja]

"Are you here with your boyfriend?" can hardly be construed as a sleazy pick up line. The look on his face was probably saying "My God, what trash."


I would have to say that you (and your boyfriend) have shown a complete lack of class.

Firstly - as you described it - it doesnt sound like a all that creepy approach from the guy.

A guy sees you, thinks you are nice and has come over to chat - At least he asked if you had a boyfriend as opposed to hitting you with corny lines.

The classy thing to do would have been a simple - yes I am, thanks.

And as for your boyfriend - well if hes happy to talk to you like that in front of strangers - that shows a huge lack of respect for you.

Im not surprised that the 'creep' had a look of horror on his face - its not because he was shot down - he was probably mortified about you guys.

Then you come on here bragging about it - pfffft.


Actually he knew I was with Frosty cause he mentioned watching us dancing.
Ten minutes later he was with another women. Then he left her and tried it with someone else. She started talking to me and I discovered she was his DATE for the night. That is why I called him a creep.

If you go to a party with someone you don't spend the night hitting on other women!!!!!:nono:

Frosty's comment was said as a joke to get rid of him.

[007XX]

Actually he knew I was with Frosty cause he mentioned watching us dancing.
Ten minutes later he was with another women. Then he left her and tried it with someone else. She started talking to me and I discovered she was his DATE for the night. That is why I called him a creep.

If you go to a party with someone you don't spend the night hitting on other women!!!!!:nono:

Frosty's comment was said as a joke to get rid of him

Fair enough, that would definitely qualify in my books as a creep. :argh: No patience at all for that lot.

[Tank]

Actually he knew I was with Frosty cause he mentioned watching us dancing.
Ten minutes later he was with another women. Then he left her and tried it with someone else. She started talking to me and I discovered she was his DATE for the night. That is why I called him a creep.

If you go to a party with someone you don't spend the night hitting on other women!!!!!:nono:

Frosty's comment was said as a joke to get rid of him.

ahhh - context makes quite a difference.

[martybabe]

Sometimes I wonder if chix would rather we just gave up.

DB

You do wonder eh, how hard does it have to be to say hello.


:laugh: well, that makes two of us...I've always hated the dating games. Never could figure out what the friggin' rules were. I mean sure, I can flirt (hell, it's a heck of a lot of fun), but it was more often than not a rare enjoyment for me...I find it puzzling when I was told: "Don't call him back within two days, or he'll think you're easy" or "if you don't call him, he'll think you're too prissy!" WTF??? Make up your mind people :angry2:

Thankfully, my beloved and I found each other, and so I no longer need to worry about having to figure out any "signals"...we both just say what's on our minds :clap: :love: (and yes, I jumped on him at the beginning of our courtship...:D)




It's far to complicated, who wrote all the bloody secret rules to the mating game. You see someone you like and approach them, daunting enough. Then you have to do this bloody secret ritual and be judged on it by a bunch of strangers and god help you if you deviate from the accepted path, your labeled a creep or a sleaze. It's like a bloody job interview every time you wanna say hello.

I was a shy but fortunately good looking young pup so I abandoned the stupid game all together and waited for someone like you who was honest enough to express an interest without all the bs twenty seven trials of Hercules just to be able to say I like ya without being shot up the anus.

Do you know that all made sense when it left my head, I just re-read it and even I'm not sure what my point is. :lol:

[007XX]

Do you know that all made sense when it left my head, I just re-read it and even I'm not sure what my point is. :lol:

I hear ya (and understand) Big Fella...:hug:

Funnily enough, my beloved summed it up very nicely just this weekend past(and I quote): "It's lovely to have a wife who's like a bloke with a vagina!"

What more can I say? :rofl:

[Jorja]

You do wonder eh, how hard does it have to be to say hello.


It's far to complicated, who wrote all the bloody secret rules to the mating game. You see someone you like and approach them, daunting enough. Then you have to do this bloody secret ritual and be judged on it by a bunch of strangers and god help you if you deviate from the accepted path, your labeled a creep or a sleaze. It's like a bloody job interview every time you wanna say hello. :lol:

Usually I have alot of respect for guys with the courage to say hello. I was always too shy to approach anyone. But surely it is better to be upfront and say hey you look like a nice person . Would you like to dance? But as for trying to pick up someone who is very definitely there with someone else when you yourself are on a date........? I just find that amazing

[CookMySock]

But as for trying to pick up someone who is very definitely there with someone else when you yourself are on a date........? I just find that amazingHaha, It sure is. You should try it. :clap:


DB

[martybabe]

Usually I have alot of respect for guys with the courage to say hello. I was always too shy to approach anyone. But surely it is better to be upfront and say hey you look like a nice person . Would you like to dance? But as for trying to pick up someone who is very definitely there with someone else when you yourself are on a date........? I just find that amazing

100% agree ,I have no answer to that, give the nice guys a chance girls, it's hard enough to break the ice but as for chatting someone up who's with someone else? I don't know, alcohol stupidity or deliberate antagonism ? maybe it's some kind of twisted macho challenge to your partner. Who knows.Either way it's plain wrong and a surefire way to get a free nose job on the mean streets I called home. :blink:

[Katman]

Frosty's comment was said as a joke to get rid of him.

Joke or not - my comment still stands.

[CookMySock]

[....] as for chatting someone up who's with someone else? I don't know, alcohol stupidity or deliberate antagonism ? maybe it's some kind of twisted macho challenge to your partner. Who knows.Either way it's plain wrong and a surefire way to get a free nose job on the mean streets I called home. :blink:it can also get you into some pretty interesting situations. Sure, if some gorilla thinks you are a threat, then you better be able to duck or swing, or both. I think older folks are a little more relaxed, and less possessive caveman-ish. Perhaps they trust their partner even ? It's the young ones who get angry real quick, sensing that they might have their precious possession(?) swiped from under their nose. I've never been socked, and I cuddle everyones' mrs, but then I'm quite obviously a puppy dog. I think blokes even grin about me doing it. I never take anything that doesn't belong to me though - thats dishonest.

DB

[Tank]

it can also get you into some pretty interesting situations. Sure, if some gorilla thinks you are a threat, then you better be able to duck or swing, or both. I think older folks are a little more relaxed, and less possessive caveman-ish. Perhaps they trust their partner even ? It's the young ones who get angry real quick, sensing that they might have their precious possession(?) swiped from under their nose. I've never been socked, and I cuddle everyones' mrs, but then I'm quite obviously a puppy dog. I think blokes even grin about me doing it. I never take anything that doesn't belong to me though - thats dishonest.

DB

Surely it depends on the intent. If a puppy dog (your words so don't get stroppy) comes up and gives the missus a hug - then its all being nice and is done with good intentions.

On the other hand if some bloke (young or old) is trying to get one in regardless of the fact that there is a relationship then yep the bastard needs a good kicking. Sadly there are a lot of people out there that will always try it on just in-case the missus is in one of those 'fragile moments'.

I'm confident in my relationship (married 13 years last week) - but Ive still had 'words' with a friend of a friend who thought my wife might be up for a afternoon shag while Im at work.

[CookMySock]

Surely it depends on the intent. [....] On the other hand if some bloke (young or old) is trying to get one in regardless of the fact that there is a relationship then yep the bastard needs a good kicking.Yes and no. If their intent is to subvert and exclude YOU, then I would agree.


Sadly there are a lot of people out there that will always try it on just in-case the missus is in one of those 'fragile moments'.Yes, this is particularly nasty, and makes everyone wary.


I'm confident in my relationship (married 13 years last week) - but Ive still had 'words' with a friend of a friend who thought my wife might be up for a afternoon shag while Im at work.Yep, he should not be trying to sneak something that is not his. Perhaps he would even take your expensive bike for a ride without you knowing ? What would be the difference ? Perhaps if he asked for a wee sit on it while you were there, you would not be against this ?

So there is taking, and there is asking. Sometimes, the answer to "asking" is "no", but at least they asked and then accepted your answer.

DB

[Tank]

(again - talking generally) As far as I'm concerned even asking someone when you know they are in a relationship is a cunt of a thing to do.

Maybe I'm just a short tempered, intolerant, and over protective prick. But that's something I don't put up with.

Funny - I have morals about that :innocent: - but not about breaking the guys jaw :woohoo:.

[CookMySock]

(again - talking generally) As far as I'm concerned even asking someone when you know they are in a relationship is a cunt of a thing to do.Yes, many feel quite threatened. That is fair I guess. It may or may not be warranted though. If I asked you for a ride on your bike, and you thought about it for a second and then said "no", well, no means no. Oh well, what about just on the grass ? "no." Thats it then. No. What about... NO!! :crybaby:


Funny - I have morals about that :innocent: - but not about breaking the guys jaw :woohoo:.owch. Yep, you do feel threatened. :sweatdrop
Listen to your mrs, she likes you. She aint goin anywhere with anyone else. Ask her, and believe her when she tells you. You will see.

DB

[Tank]

Its not about feeling threatened.

Its about respect - and anyone would would try and hit the wife up for a bit of slap and tickle knowing that she is married is showing (IMHO) the greatest possible disrespect.

I wouldn't do it to anyone else and I take great exception to anyone willing to do it to me. Being threatened doesn't even enter the equation.

The bike parallel doesnt quite work - because that's a simply object - a wife is a lot more than that (and a damn sight more expensive). I dont think I would ever get hotted up enough to hit someone over asking to take the bike for a ride.

[n0regret5]

"i'm not gay but i could be"
"my only love is the ocean"
"can you believe i used to be a man"
etc etc

[007XX]

Its not about feeling threatened.

Its about respect - and anyone would would try and hit the wife up for a bit of slap and tickle knowing that she is married is showing (IMHO) the greatest possible disrespect.

I wouldn't do it to anyone else and I take great exception to anyone willing to do it to me. Being threatened doesn't even enter the equation.

The bike parallel doesnt quite work - because that's a simply object - a wife is a lot more than that (and a damn sight more expensive). I dont think I would ever get hotted up enough to hit someone over asking to take the bike for a ride.

I'm with you on that one...my hubby is probably THE most self secure man I know...and with rights too. Without being too biaised, he has the looks, the brains and everything else to make sure he doesn't need to feel threatened in any way shape or form.

But the thing is: our union is sacred to us. Anyone who tries to come in between us as a couple, knowing we are very happily married, is just being plain disrespectful.

I'd have no issue whatsoever with my husband taking exception to someone not respecting our boundaries as a married couple, but also because I trust him to handle it in a smart fashion...I know he'd scare the bejesus out of them quietly :devil2:

[Mikkel]

Its not about feeling threatened.

Of course it is...


Its about respect - and anyone would would try and hit the wife up for a bit of slap and tickle knowing that she is married is showing (IMHO) the greatest possible disrespect.

Disrespect to who? You? Your partner? Your relationship?


I wouldn't do it to anyone else and I take great exception to anyone willing to do it to me. Being threatened doesn't even enter the equation.

The bike parallel doesnt quite work - because that's a simply object - a wife is a lot more than that (and a damn sight more expensive). I dont think I would ever get hotted up enough to hit someone over asking to take the bike for a ride.

Well, a wife/partner is an individual and not ones property - at least I would bloody well hope so. Actually, I would get pissed off with anyone asking me if they could have a shag with my partner - but mostly because they should be asking her, not me. Wouldn't get too upset with anyone hitting on my partner - simply because I am confident that she'd laugh at them and excuse herself.
If she obliged I'd be having a word to two with her - and by word I mean a talk...

As for my bike - anyone who took that for a ride without my consent would be likely to be discussing a theft charge with the police.

[Tank]

Of course it is...

In my best English pantomime voice ... "oh no it isn't"


Disrespect to who? You? Your partner? Your relationship?

Actually all three


If she obliged I'd be having a word to two with her - and by word I mean a talk...

Just to clarify - I wasn't condoning (or suggesting) spousal abuse. I watch TV - I know its not OK (But it is OK to ask for help) :niceone:

[Mikkel]

In my best English pantomime voice ... "oh no it isn't"

Yes it is!


Actually all three

Thought you'd think so... Just making sure.


Just to clarify - I wasn't condoning (or suggesting) spousal abuse. I watch TV - I know its not OK (But it is OK to ask for help) :niceone:

Of course you weren't. But the term 'having a word' with someone has been used as a metaphor for roughing up someone earlier in this thread. I just wanted to make sure that noone were tempted to assume that I was even contemplating spousal abuse. That, and to point out that beating someone to a pulp isn't going to help anything, ever.

[Tank]

and to point out that beating someone to a pulp isn't going to help anything, ever.

But it does make you feel better.

Right up until:

a) you get arrested, or

b) you realise that you have really hurt the guy and start panicking that you killed him, or

c) you find out hes better than you and he kicks your ass.

gesh - your right - it dosnt help much does it.

[jrandom]

I'm confident in my relationship (married 13 years last week) - but Ive still had 'words' with a friend of a friend who thought my wife might be up for a afternoon shag while Im at work.

Y'know, the other day, circumstances caused me to ponder the question of what percentage of guys would consider themselves honour-bound not to shag another guy's missus, even if she was up for it.

(A friend of Stickchick's packed a bit of a sad when he found out that she was in Wellington with me last weekend, as opposed to on her own - thought he'd get a go, y'see. D'oh. Sorry mate.)

Anyway, I'd love to know the general position of the male population in that regard.

In fact, I might go put up a poll right now...

:corn:

[007XX]

Oh me thinks I'm going to like that poll :corn: :corn:

I wonder how many guys will actually reply truthfully! :shifty:

[CookMySock]

Well, a wife/partner is an individual and not ones property - at least I would bloody well hope so. Actually, I would get pissed off with anyone asking me if they could have a shag with my partner - but mostly because they should be asking her, not me. Wouldn't get too upset with anyone hitting on my partner - simply because I am confident that she'd laugh at them and excuse herself.
If she obliged I'd be having a word to two with her - and by word I mean a talk...

As for my bike - anyone who took that for a ride without my consent would be likely to be discussing a theft charge with the police.Zactly, zactly, zactly. Takes most couples about 20 years to sort this crap out. Pity it takes so long.

"you must spread some more rep around before giving it to Mikkel" bah


DB

[Dilligaf]

Of course it is...



Disrespect to who? You? Your partner? Your relationship?



Well, a wife/partner is an individual and not ones property - at least I would bloody well hope so. Actually, I would get pissed off with anyone asking me if they could have a shag with my partner - but mostly because they should be asking her, not me. Wouldn't get too upset with anyone hitting on my partner - simply because I am confident that she'd laugh at them and excuse herself.
If she obliged I'd be having a word to two with her - and by word I mean a talk...

As for my bike - anyone who took that for a ride without my consent would be likely to be discussing a theft charge with the police.

Actually Mikkel, I agree with Tank. Lovely for you and your Missus that you are strong and secure in each other, but many people don't have that luxury. And I have met too many barracuda type men who feed on insecure (though married) women and manipulate their weaknesses.
(and before you all get judgemental - yes I agree that if you're married then you are responsible for respecting that bond, but I have seen women who have got young kids, worried about their new somewhat flabby body, worn out and feeling unappreciated and then some man with the slickest moves and the right words come along. Like a shark to blood).

[Mikkel]

Actually Mikkel, I agree with Tank. Lovely for you and your Missus that you are strong and secure in each other, but many people don't have that luxury. And I have met too many barracuda type men who feed on insecure (though married) women and manipulate their weaknesses.
(and before you all get judgemental - yes I agree that if you're married then you are responsible for respecting that bond, but I have seen women who have got young kids, worried about their new somewhat flabby body, worn out and feeling unappreciated and then some man with the slickest moves and the right words come along. Like a shark to blood).

It Looks Like You Give A Fuck ;)

But yes, what you describe is despicable behaviour indeed. If it succeeds though, it is also partly the husbands fault for letting their woman get into that state of mind in the first place. They say that behind every strong man is a good woman - the opposite is also true. In a good relationship you use your strength to be a good partner...

I don't think it's only men that come as the barracuda type though... ;)

[Dilligaf]

It Looks Like You Give A Fuck ;)

Well, only to one person. :msn-wink:


I don't think it's only men that come as the barracuda type though... ;)

Definitely not only male barracudas out there. Just have seen more of them.

[Mikkel]

Definitely not only male barracudas out there. Just have seen more of them.

Which beckons the personal question - your gender and sexual orientation? <_<

[FROSTY]

Just saw this thread--dang being out buying cars all day.
Anyhoo for the record said male is wa well known sleazoid with a certain infamy for preying on vaunerable women.
It was my birthday and quite frankly I couldn't be fucked being nice to the creep.

[ynot slow]

Can also be a persons' take on you re chat up etc.Years ago when still married we went to a weekend womans soccer piss up(tournament),the Saturday night we had 2 rental vans,first van went home with my wife,I stayed as chaperone with last van as 6 ladies and 2 guys,when we arrived back we searched our room for more piss,wife said they'd drunk it earlier,so we went to another cabin with a married couple,me and another lady,nothing happened as the girl on her own was living/going out with a friend of mine.Fast forward to after my marriage went west and at a party with my mate(was at piss up with his then girlfriend),but who had married the one I was in the cabin with,thought he was always looking at me,was I paranoid,nope turned out when he knew I was single he thought I'd be after his wife,as if I would.

[Usarka]

Usually I have alot of respect for guys with the courage to say hello. I was always too shy to approach anyone. But surely it is better to be upfront and say hey you look like a nice person . Would you like to dance? But as for trying to pick up someone who is very definitely there with someone else when you yourself are on a date........? I just find that amazing

maybe, if you were all over each other and it was really obvious.

otherwise he might have thought you were just friends.

but you put him in his place and he won't try that again now will he!:Police:

[CookMySock]

Just saw this thread--dang being out buying cars all day.
Anyhoo for the record said male is wa well known sleazoid with a certain infamy for preying on vaunerable women.
It was my birthday and quite frankly I couldn't be fucked being nice to the creep.Give him a sock for me then will ya Frosty! ;)

DB

[Dilligaf]

Which beckons the personal question - your gender and sexual orientation? <_<

Ummm relevance?

But married female if you must know.

[Mikkel]

Ummm relevance?

But married female if you must know.

Only relevant in-so-far that being female I would expect you to have noticed predatory behaviour in men more than in women - and vice versa in my own case, being male.

Sexual orientation I suppose wouldn't actually matter - the sharks would still go for you unless they knew in advance that their time was wasted. But it might affect what social circles you would move in.

[Jorja]

maybe, if you were all over each other and it was really obvious.

otherwise he might have thought you were just friends.

but you put him in his place and he won't try that again now will he!:Police:


Trust me, there was no doubt who Frosty was with. :msn-wink:

[cowboyz]

If I was there I would have hit on Frosty. Hes awesome...................

[Jorja]

If I was there I would have hit on Frosty. Hes awesome...................

Strangely enough I agree.

[HRH]

Ask the creep: "Do you fuck?"
And when he nods eagerly and says "hell yeah!"
Then say "Well fuck off!"

Or a simple: "Sorry I don't date outside my species" will suffice lol

Have heard both of these lines used before, with devastating effects.

[Mikkel]

"Sorry I don't date outside my species"

:gob: :clap: