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XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 16:19
On a brighter note...

After our extremely shitty year last year, and spending most of January sick as hell I finally gave in and went to the hospital and my GP booked me in for an ultrasound to make sure there was nothing nasty going on after having Evalyn. On the day I was due to go in for my ultrasound I had a gut feeling, maybe wishful thinking.......

I'm sorry but I'm really having difficulty containing myself after finding out I'm already approximately 6 weeks pregnant :gob:
Neither of us can quite believe it!!! Its so hard trying not to get to excited again.. There is definately a long road ahead and I'm not in the safe zone yet, and will be pretty much be treated as high risk until we are handed a healthy screaming baby.

So now we're waiting on my first ultrasound in Whangarei to give a definate date, then we'll be looking at ALOT of trips to Auckland for ultrasounds as they'll be following this pregnancy very closely compared to last time.
:sweatdrop Makes me nervous but I can't wait!

Sensei
3rd February 2009, 16:22
Bestest wishes FURBY !

EatOrBeEaten
3rd February 2009, 16:23
Congratulations! Best of luck for a smooth, happy pregnancy and a happy sprog!

sunhuntin
3rd February 2009, 16:23
thats great news! best of luck, and keep us posted. :hug:

Magua
3rd February 2009, 16:25
Great news, awesome even.

The Stranger
3rd February 2009, 16:25
On a brighter note...

After our extremely shitty year last year, and spending most of January sick as hell I finally gave in and went to the hospital and my GP booked me in for an ultrasound to make sure there was nothing nasty going on after having Evalyn. On the day I was due to go in for my ultrasound I had a gut feeling, maybe wishful thinking.......

I'm sorry but I'm really having difficulty containing myself after finding out I'm already approximately 6 weeks pregnant :gob:
Neither of us can quite believe it!!! Its so hard trying not to get to excited again.. There is definately a long road ahead and I'm not in the safe zone yet, and will be pretty much be treated as high risk until we are handed a healthy screaming baby.

So now we're waiting on my first ultrasound in Whangarei to give a definate date, then we'll be looking at ALOT of trips to Auckland for ultrasounds as they'll be following this pregnancy very closely compared to last time.
:sweatdrop Makes me nervous but I can't wait!

I told you all that practise would pay off.
Well done.

XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 16:26
Thankyou all, will definately keep you all posted. Guess I don't exactly have to pack away all the baby gear just yet :hug:

kiwifruit
3rd February 2009, 16:27
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XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 16:27
I told you all that practise would pay off.
Well done.


Mum always warned me not to sit on the toilet seat, or hop in spa pools after parties :whistle:

Gwinch
3rd February 2009, 16:31
Mum always warned me not to sit on the toilet seat, or hop in spa pools after parties :whistle:

Mmm, lucky dip! May aswell jump straight in a porridge pot.

Happy for you hon. :hug:

The Stranger
3rd February 2009, 16:34
or hop in spa pools after parties :whistle:

Noooo. That brings back memories of HDTboy's party.
Never seen a spa pool look so sceptic.

XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 16:35
Mmm, lucky dip! May aswell jump straight in a porridge pot.

Happy for you hon. :hug:

Thankyouuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :hug: Will have to catch up and have lunch when we head down for my 12 week scan ;)

XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 16:36
Noooo. That brings back memories of HDTboy's party.
Never seen a spa pool look so sceptic.


:sick: I can only imagine lol

MsKABC
3rd February 2009, 16:55
Congratulations :D

Mom
3rd February 2009, 17:07
Well that is fantastic news! :wari:

Congratulations!

Goblin
3rd February 2009, 17:15
Noooo. That brings back memories of HDTboy's party.
Never seen a spa pool look so sceptic.Sceptic or septic? :crazy:

Congrats T! Wishing you all the best. :sunny:

The Stranger
3rd February 2009, 17:22
Sceptic or septic? :crazy:

Congrats T! Wishing you all the best. :sunny:

BWAHAHAHA fucken beautiful!!!

Mrs Busa Pete
3rd February 2009, 17:46
That's great news kittie i wish you and bubs all the best. I will have my fingers and toes crossed untill the safe birth is upon us.

Curious_AJ
3rd February 2009, 17:59
On a brighter note...

After our extremely shitty year last year, and spending most of January sick as hell I finally gave in and went to the hospital and my GP booked me in for an ultrasound to make sure there was nothing nasty going on after having Evalyn. On the day I was due to go in for my ultrasound I had a gut feeling, maybe wishful thinking.......

I'm sorry but I'm really having difficulty containing myself after finding out I'm already approximately 6 weeks pregnant :gob:
Neither of us can quite believe it!!! Its so hard trying not to get to excited again.. There is definately a long road ahead and I'm not in the safe zone yet, and will be pretty much be treated as high risk until we are handed a healthy screaming baby.

So now we're waiting on my first ultrasound in Whangarei to give a definate date, then we'll be looking at ALOT of trips to Auckland for ultrasounds as they'll be following this pregnancy very closely compared to last time.
:sweatdrop Makes me nervous but I can't wait!

yay! well done! see, remember what i said about this year maybe being good?

R6_kid
3rd February 2009, 18:25
Well, it wasn't me!!!!

Good work dude, fingers crossed for ya :-)

Nasty
3rd February 2009, 19:49
That is the most awesome news .. I know its hard to contain that sort of information after the crappy year ... all the best .. and I hope you scan some of the wee mites scans so we can share as you go.

XxKiTtiExX
3rd February 2009, 21:47
Definately hard to contain myself, it took 11 piss sticks all up and 1 blood test for me to finally believe it. I seriously thought it was another nasty trick :laugh:

Thankyou all and will definately update with pics once we get to see our little sprog for the first time :eek:

Storm
3rd February 2009, 22:03
Awesome news!! We'll be crossing out fingers for a trouble free pregnancy and birth for you guys :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

vifferman
4th February 2009, 19:26
Congratulations! I hope it goes well for you. :niceone:

jrandom
4th February 2009, 19:29
Good luck with starting the new family, T. I do hope everything goes well for you.

chanceyy
4th February 2009, 19:33
Excellent news T .. good luck & fingers crossed for you :hug:

MentalFacility
4th February 2009, 19:47
finger crossed indeed....

just kiddin=) Congrats, have fun.

XxKiTtiExX
5th February 2009, 12:58
finger crossed indeed....

just kiddin=) Congrats, have fun.

Don't even joke about it, go lose a baby and see how you feel. Cause it ain't no joke

portokiwi
5th February 2009, 13:59
:hug: Way to go girl. Great to hear good news on here.:hug:

Curious_AJ
5th February 2009, 14:01
Don't even joke about it, go lose a baby and see how you feel. Cause it ain't no joke

actually, i have very real reasons to worry about miscarriages... damned isofluorane... one reason why i dont even want to try to have kids, i can imagine it would be so terrible to lose a baby... but once again, here's holding thumbs and crossing fingers AND toes for you!

XxKiTtiExX
5th February 2009, 14:14
actually, i have very real reasons to worry about miscarriages... damned isofluorane... one reason why i dont even want to try to have kids, i can imagine it would be so terrible to lose a baby... but once again, here's holding thumbs and crossing fingers AND toes for you!

Know the feeling, different situation I'm in but am now deemed high risk due to what happened last time. I'm not ready to explain as its personal. But others in the exact same position would understand.

Curious_AJ
5th February 2009, 14:18
Know the feeling, different situation I'm in but am now deemed high risk due to what happened last time. I'm not ready to explain as its personal. But others in the exact same position would understand.

yeah nah, i get you, don't worry :)

Al
5th February 2009, 15:16
Congratulations!
Most important thing is to now take it easy!

XxKiTtiExX
5th February 2009, 15:20
Congratulations!
Most important thing is to now take it easy!

Still have another 2 months off work, official forced "taking it easy"



First scan is in Whangarei on the 9th, watch this space (highly nervous) :pinch:

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 18:46
UPDATE:

6 weeks ago I had a ultrasound in Whangarei to confirm the fact that I was 6 weeks pregnant. All they could tell me at that stage was that I was definately pregnant, everything was positioned correctly. But it was to early for a heartbeat.

The past 6 weeks have been absolute emotional hell!! Sleepless nights, high stress levels, anxiety, and terrible nightmares. Today mum and I travelled to Whangarei for what was to be my 12 week ultrasound. (Thank god for mums I couldn't do this without her support).
11.30am came (appointment time) at this stage I was ready to vomit on anything, everything, and anyone. I felt so sick it wasn't funny. 15minutes of waiting and I honestly was begining to become extremely agitated.

Finally my time came. I promised myself I would hold myself together but the minute this wee little bub appeared on the screen I just burst into tears.

The scan went EXTREMELY well. Fluid levels normal. Baby was the size that they had expected. Took a long time for the little bugger to stay still enough for them to do measurements!! Kicking and punching, and rolling all over the show. I can't feel it yet! NT measurement came back as 1mm anything under 3 is fantastic. And last but not least, a perfect little heart doing just what it should. :love:

So before I came home I had a meeting with an obstrition. I can't even begin to describe how I felt being told that this baby is "low risk." The figures were all there laid out in front of me yet to me they still seem like such high risk figures.

So roll on the next 2 weeks (more tests at 14 weeks). Then another ultrasound at 18 weeks. Time I put my brave face on.

Gwinch
19th March 2009, 18:55
So pleased for you hon, absolutely incredible news. Keep that brave face on and the chin up. :)

*crosses himself up in knots for you* Love you! <3

chanceyy
19th March 2009, 18:58
good news Kitty .. keeping fingers crossed for you honey :hug:

Mom
19th March 2009, 19:14
UPDATE: The scan went EXTREMELY well.....And last but not least, a perfect little heart doing just what it should. :love:

I lost 2 babies (mid tri-mester) before I managed to carry and deliver a live one. I know so well the angst and terror and despair you go through waiting for THE scan that delivers the news you have just received! Congratulations love, may this one be struggle free and totally uncomplicated. The best words my specialist said to me after my first "you have a live and healthy baby" scan, were, Congraulations! It will take an act of God for this to go wrong.

So, do tell when is due date?

smoky
19th March 2009, 19:22
1I felt so sick it wasn't funny.


Ginger is your friend

Ginger nut biscuits, crystalized ginger, ginger ginger ginger
It's helped with everyone I know

Vern
19th March 2009, 19:27
UPDATE:

6 weeks ago I had a ultrasound in Whangarei to confirm the fact that I was 6 weeks pregnant. All they could tell me at that stage was that I was definately pregnant, everything was positioned correctly. But it was to early for a heartbeat.

The past 6 weeks have been absolute emotional hell!! Sleepless nights, high stress levels, anxiety, and terrible nightmares. Today mum and I travelled to Whangarei for what was to be my 12 week ultrasound. (Thank god for mums I couldn't do this without her support).
11.30am came (appointment time) at this stage I was ready to vomit on anything, everything, and anyone. I felt so sick it wasn't funny. 15minutes of waiting and I honestly was begining to become extremely agitated.

Finally my time came. I promised myself I would hold myself together but the minute this wee little bub appeared on the screen I just burst into tears.

The scan went EXTREMELY well. Fluid levels normal. Baby was the size that they had expected. Took a long time for the little bugger to stay still enough for them to do measurements!! Kicking and punching, and rolling all over the show. I can't feel it yet! NT measurement came back as 1mm anything under 3 is fantastic. And last but not least, a perfect little heart doing just what it should. :love:

So before I came home I had a meeting with an obstrition. I can't even begin to describe how I felt being told that this baby is "low risk." The figures were all there laid out in front of me yet to me they still seem like such high risk figures.

So roll on the next 2 weeks (more tests at 14 weeks). Then another ultrasound at 18 weeks. Time I put my brave face on.
Hi so glad you are taking it easy. We lost our 1st 40 years ago and it is hard i balled my eyes out and thats not the sort of thing us males do. Vern:niceone:

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 19:30
So pleased for you hon, absolutely incredible news. Keep that brave face on and the chin up. :)

*crosses himself up in knots for you* <3

Thanks Uncle Jon xox


good news Kitty .. keeping fingers crossed for you honey :hug:

Thankyou chanceyy! (and toes please lol)


I lost 2 babies (mid tri-mester) before I managed to carry and deliver a live one. I know so well the angst and terror and despair you go through waiting for THE scan that delivers the news you have just received! Congratulations love, may this one be struggle free and totally uncomplicated. The best words my specialist said to me after my first "you have a live and healthy baby" scan, were, Congraulations! It will take an act of God for this to go wrong.

So, do tell when is due date?

It has been a serious eye opener for me since losing my daughter as to how many women have actually lost a baby or even more unfortunately 'babies'. Women that I would just never have known otherwise. Its truelly terrible. Your left feeling hopeless as a mother not being able to protect your baby and make sure that they are okay. (Best way I can explain it even though none of what happened was ever my fault). This little ones pretty much my saving grace, giving me something to look forward to even though each day that passes I'm more and more terrified.

Due date is the 1st of October. I'm counting the days!

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 19:34
Ginger is your friend

Ginger nut biscuits, crystalized ginger, ginger ginger ginger
It's helped with everyone I know

Helps for morning sickness (thank goodness I've barely had any this time). Don't think it'll help with feel sick from an onslaught of 6 or 7 different emotions though :no:

spudchucka
19th March 2009, 20:13
UToday mum and I travelled to Whangarei for what was to be my 12 week ultrasound.

When we had the 12 scan for my son I knew it was a boy because I could see him scratching his nuts!

Congratulations by the way!

MsKABC
19th March 2009, 20:16
That's great news chick, I hope it's plain sailing for you the rest of the way. It certainly is emotional seeing the little tadpole on the screen huh?

Laava
19th March 2009, 20:16
Good news Kittie!

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 20:17
When we had the 12 scan for my son I knew it was a boy because I could see him scratching his nuts!

Congratulations by the way!

I think I'm having another girl, I kept looking for a little winky but seen nothing (then again to early and they didn't want to look cause its easier to get it wrong at 12 weeks).

But this baby did look like they were trying to stuff their own thumb in their ear at one point! :clap:

spudchucka
19th March 2009, 20:25
I think I'm having another girl, I kept looking for a little winky but seen nothing (then again to early and they didn't want to look cause its easier to get it wrong at 12 weeks).

But this baby did look like they were trying to stuff their own thumb in their ear at one point! :clap:

You can't see the whizzer but the balls stand out quite well.

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 20:30
You can't see the whizzer but the balls stand out quite well.

I did ask cause I really wanted to know. Am hoping baby is a girl cause if baby ends up being a boy he's going to have to wear girls clothes for a wee while :laugh: The lady did say that at 12 weeks a girls bits are still at a stage where they look alot like boys bits so it becomes very easy to mistake the sex. Doesn't mean I wasn't looking though. Certainly nothing on the photos that even remotely looks like boys bits. Oh well.. I'll know in 6 weeks! :eek:

MsKABC
19th March 2009, 20:35
Oh well.. I'll know in 6 weeks! :eek:

Don't pin your hopes on knowing - I wanted to find out at my anatomy scan, but my little man was being coy and he had his umbilical between his legs. I had to have another scan at 32 weeks, so we managed to find out then, but I was bitterly disappointed not to find out at the 19 week scan :(

XxKiTtiExX
19th March 2009, 20:37
Don't pin your hopes on knowing - I wanted to find out at my anatomy scan, but my little man was being coy and he had his umbilical between his legs. I had to have another scan at 32 weeks, so we managed to find out then, but I was bitterly disappointed not to find out at the 19 week scan :(

Hopefully I don't have to wait that long lol

MsKABC
19th March 2009, 20:41
Hopefully I don't have to wait that long lol

I'm sure your lil bubba won't be quite so unco-operative as mine! I remember getting into the car afterward and bursting into tears. My husband was like, "WTF? We just found out our baby is healthy - why the hell are you crying?" I'd psyched myself up so much toward finding out boy/girl, and when it didn't happen I was sooo disappointed! :laugh:

BiK3RChiK
19th March 2009, 20:55
Ooooh, babies! Congratulations Kittie! I hope everything goes well for you this time.. I so loved being pregnant! It was absolutely fabulous. I felt on top of my game every second of it! Every time I see a mummies tummy I want to go up and feel it. LOL Not that I want any more kids.. I just so loved being preggers.:love:

:hug:'s to you

XxKiTtiExX
24th April 2009, 14:52
Have been back and forth to Whangarei since my 12 week scan for baby. Tests have been sent away that I shall hopefully have good results for within the next week or so. Back to Whangarei on the 6th of May for a full anatomy scan. I'm pushing for another ultrasound at 28 weeks. Can't believe I'm almost halfway there. :banana:

I'm betting its a boy :whistle:

Laava
24th April 2009, 15:24
Sure looks like a little dude on a bike in there!:banana:

Maha
24th April 2009, 15:29
Sure looks like a little dude on a bike in there!:banana:

It does eh? you can actually make out the two wheels...:2thumbsup

Laava
24th April 2009, 15:32
Is that the KB wave?

XxKiTtiExX
24th April 2009, 15:36
They are already getting practice in with the kick start. :2thumbsup
Though I've still got my fingers crossed hoping for a boy basher (girl), but gut feeling says boy.
Hopefully no more trips to Whangarei after my final appointment on the 19th (so long as all continues to go so well).
Can't wait, give me some rest!

XxKiTtiExX
24th April 2009, 15:37
No Laava if its anything like anyone in my family he/she will be a harley rider. And harley riders don't wave!!! Sheesh! :girlfight:

R6_kid
24th April 2009, 15:43
thats a sexy belly if i ever saw one! :2thumbsup

Number One
24th April 2009, 19:35
Congrats, good luck and good vibes to you both

1st October is a good day to be born that's for sure :2thumbsup

Laava - I laughed my arse off at your 'interpretation' of the scan - well done ;)

Oh and yes - very cute wee belly bump :sunny:

emaN
24th April 2009, 20:09
congrats!
it's awesome fun innit? and these few months are an exciting time in a way all their own! :)
all the best! & look forward to the news!

XxKiTtiExX
6th May 2009, 17:50
Decided to follow my gut feeling that this baby would be a boy. Confirmed today at 18 weeks and 6 days that we are now waiting for the arrival of our precious little boy in another 21 weeks! AND WHAT A BOY!!!!!!!! He's lazy and all he seems to want to do is rest. (Despite our poking and prodding in an attempt to make him move so we could take a better look. Huge comparison considering my daughter just wouldn't stay still).
Everything is perfect from what was seen again today. And everything done so far all is looking absolutely fantastic. I have decided against putting him at risk by going for further tests. Difficult decision to make but I feel its the right one.
Roll on 21 weeks. ;)

stify
6th May 2009, 17:59
glad everything is all good :yes:

Mom
6th May 2009, 18:02
21 weeks...

Will pass in a flash, so nice to know he is healthy and well too sweets. Good call on further tests, I am sure everything will be fine this time.

Cheshire Cat
6th May 2009, 18:14
Aawwww!! Good luck!:2thumbsup

XxKiTtiExX
16th July 2009, 22:28
Just a quick update..

Ended up having to go back for further testing as there was a couple of things that came up on the full anatomy ultrasound that Whangarei wasn't happy about (after they sent the results away). No issues after the testing and results came back clear. :woohoo:

Officially 29 weeks as of today. Can't believe that in 2 weeks time I'll have made it as far along as I did with our little girl. Time just flys by...

Don't know which is expanding most though.. Butt or gut :shit:

Foxzee
16th July 2009, 22:39
Awesome news....you go girl......keep safe:yes:

Laava
16th July 2009, 22:41
Awwww_ look! Friendly little tyke huh? I became 11 uncles this morning when my youngest bro had their 1st off spring.[Girl]

XxKiTtiExX
16th July 2009, 22:49
Laava wheres the baby?

Edit: Cancel that..

Jesus joseph and mary... Arm coming out my belly button wtf. You weirdo lol

Congrats on becoming an uncle!

XxKiTtiExX
10th September 2009, 18:34
Officially made it to 37 weeks today, it feels like a milestone. Had a bit of a scare 5 weeks ago with contractions and spent the night in whangarei being monitored. Had everyone worried that he wasn't going to stay put. Finished up at work and have been busy resting, and stay put he has! Baby is considered "baked" and it wouldn't be an issue if he was to come now rather than his due date. :sweatdrop

Tummy has gone from expanding 1cm a week to 2.5cm a week :eek5: 3 more weeks until my due date.. Come on little baby mummy wants you out :shifty:

Devil
10th September 2009, 19:47
Good to hear. Hopefully doesn't rip you a new one :crazy:

Good luck! :scooter:

XxKiTtiExX
10th September 2009, 21:24
Good to hear. Hopefully doesn't rip you a new one :crazy:

Good luck! :scooter:


What goes in, must come out. You'd be amazed at what a women can spit out minus ripping themselves a new one. :laugh:

BiK3RChiK
10th September 2009, 21:30
Here's hoping you hold on for the next 2 weeks Kittie... I had my babies early and they were little! Complications come with little...

All the best with the baby:sunny:

roadracingoldfart
10th September 2009, 21:32
What goes in, must come out. You'd be amazed at what a women can spit out minus ripping themselves a new one. :laugh:


I got told to " rip one off " to hurry the delivery lol . Im a good boy and did what i had to.

Antinatal class cow said ,
"for you men , its like passing a pineapple out your ass "
to which i asked foreward or backwards? , they got hooks on them ,
She was not ammused i tell you.

Good luck , nearly there.
Paul.

ynot slow
10th September 2009, 21:50
We were supposed to have a baby on 24thDec,doc said that was ok but not xmas day when we had the last meeting with him,turned out she had ideas of her own as well,and decided to arrive on the 2nd Dec,22 days early,born breech and only 4lb 15oz in old terms,or 2.15kg?She was ok and slept most of xmas day.Those days even being number 2 birth mum and baby stayed in hospital for a week to be sure.

XxKiTtiExX
10th September 2009, 21:54
Here's hoping you hold on for the next 2 weeks Kittie... I had my babies early and they were little! Complications come with little...

All the best with the baby:sunny:

Believe me there are certainly no concerns about this one being little. At 37 weeks babies developed enough to manage on the outside world (lungs etc) so we won't be needing to rush to Whangarei. He'll just be spending the next how ever long getting fat. Not going to think about the c word right now though, everything will be sweet.

Will post up as soon as baby arrives *hugZ*


I got told to " rip one off " to hurry the delivery lol . Im a good boy and did what i had to.

Antinatal class cow said ,
"for you men , its like passing a pineapple out your ass "
to which i asked foreward or backwards? , they got hooks on them ,
She was not ammused i tell you.

Good luck , nearly there.
Paul.


Like passing a pineapple out your ass??? And they wonder why I refused to go to antenatal classes. Good reply though. I think having someone chinese burn your private parts repeatedly about describes it. But a pineapple!? :crazy:

Laava
10th September 2009, 22:33
I got told to " rip one off " to hurry the delivery lol . Im a good boy and did what i had to.
Paul.

Hot sex hot curry and a hot bath! And I guess the woman could share that too if she has been good!

Mom
10th September 2009, 22:38
I am so looking forward to seeing a pic of this little fella. You have had a few ups and downs along the way, but, not long to go now.

ynot slow
11th September 2009, 10:31
And don't be upset when you ask what's the baby look like,and get a reply "similar to a skinned possum".Us guys are all sensitive about letting our feelings show lol.

Gwinch
11th September 2009, 12:33
Come on little baby mummy wants you out :shifty:

Can't wait to meet the little guy hon. :) So proud of you!

Mom
11th September 2009, 17:44
Hot sex hot curry and a hot bath! And I guess the woman could share that too if she has been good!

Bouncing on a trampoline however, is not actually such a good idea DAMHIK :pinch:

Laava
11th September 2009, 23:11
Oh no, that is an image I could do without at the mo.
So, we gonna wet the babies head in due course Kittie?

Goblin
12th September 2009, 10:44
So good to see all is going well.

Dont forget to start scotchbrighting your nipples if you want to breast feed. Get them good n tough before baby comes.:soon: