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    Sensitive in an unsensitive world

    1. Emotionally sensitive people feel emotions often and deeply. They feel as if they “wear their emotions on their sleeves.”

    2. They are keenly aware of the emotions of people around them.

    3. Sensitive people are easily hurt or upset. An insult or unkind remark will affect them deeply.

    4. In a similar vein, sensitive people strive to avoid conflicts. They dread arguments and other types of confrontations because the negativity affects them so much.

    5. Sensitive people are not able to shake off emotions easily. Once they are saddened or upset by something, they cannot just switch gears and forget it.

    6. Sensitive people are greatly affected by emotions they witness. They feel deeply for others’ suffering. Many sensitive people avoid sad movies or watching the news because they cannot bear the weighty emotions that would drive to their core and stick with them afterwards.

    7. Sensitive people are prone to suffer from recurrent depression, anxiety or other psychological disorders.

    8. One the positive side, sensitive people are also keenly aware of and affected by beauty in art, music and nature. They are the world’s greatest artists and art appreciators.

    9. Sensitive people are prone to stimulus overload. That is, they can’t stand large crowds, loud noise, or hectic environments. They feel overwhelmed and depleted by too much stimuli.

    10. Sensitive people are born that way. They were sensitive children.

    Sensitive people typically exhibit all or nearly all of the above descriptors.

    One of the sure signs of a truly sensitive person is that he feels animosity toward his sensitive nature. Most sensitive people whole-heartedly wish they were tougher and more thick-skinned. They feel like their sensitivity is a weakness. They wish things didn’t bother them so much. They wish their emotions weren’t so obvious to other people. They wish they could let things go and not worry so much. They aren’t comfortable with their sensitivity, and wish they could do something to get rid of it (or at least get rid of the negative aspects of it). Therefore some sensitive adults have learned how to hide their sensitivity from others.




    Dammit now I know why I feel so strongly towards the people that give me shit or the emotions that i feel through day to day life.

    I've been in denial and bottling up all my emotions
    And heres myself thinking I'm just a crybaby

    lol a little different post but now i know i just got to share it for anyone else that may feel the same.

    Does anyone know good ways of getting intouch with your sensitive side? or what to do about it?

    apparently 20% of people are hyper sensitive people.

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    I consider them "targets".


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    One of my teachers likes to use it as an advantage against me, evil lady she is.

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    I know a girl like this, as descirbed above. makes life a bit tricky for her at times. but there are up sides as well, she is one of those people who everyone likes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spyke View Post
    Does anyone know good ways of getting intouch with your sensitive side? or what to do about it?
    Somehow I can't see you in your sister's clothes...

    What are you worried about? The world is full of different types. It's all part of life's rich tapestry. Accept the way you are, otherwise you are just going to be unhappy.
    Do you realise how many holes there could be if people would just take the time to take the dirt out of them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MSTRS View Post
    Somehow I can't see you in your sister's clothes...

    What are you worried about? The world is full of different types. It's all part of life's rich tapestry. Accept the way you are, otherwise you are just going to be unhappy.
    Hmmm I can't see myself in those clothes either, thanks for the advice

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    I am a sensitive person trapped in an insensitive bastards body.
    "Some people are like clouds, once they fuck off, it's a great day!"

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    I have feelings, hit me hard enough and I feel it, I am capable of deep feelings to, though you have to hit me fucken hard, though be fast on your feet, I will hit you back giving you feelings to.

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    Reckon they should harden the fuck up then.

    Just cant beat that line. It's so multifunctional.

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    I'm afraid the world eats sensitive people for breakfast. and lunch. and dinner.

    You will change in time, after many tough things happen to you, often leaving you feeling angry and victimised. Better you decide to change of your own accord earlier rather than later, rather than leave the world to push you into it.

    I always remember "Always show kindness, up to the point where kindness is taken for weakness."

    There will be lots of people who think you are kind and caring. Keep them close to you and do anything for them, like you already do. Don't be afraid to ask them for help with your things as well.

    There will be lots of people who think you are weak. They will be wrong, and their little gag will backfire on them heavily, taking much more from them that they ever imagined it could. People will be puzzled as hell when they can't beat you.

    Keep these tools close to you and gain experience with them - logic, fun, spontaneity, accuracy, perfection, kindness, and emotional literacy.


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    It's an insensitive world.

    definition: deficient in human sensibility, acuteness of feeling, or consideration; unfeeling; callous: an insensitive person.

    Be pleased. At least you're empathetic. Try going through life not getting people.
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    Bloody emos. Just go back to cutting y'self, OK.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DangerousBastard View Post
    I'm afraid the world eats sensitive people for breakfast. and lunch. and dinner.

    You will change in time, after many tough things happen to you, often leaving you feeling angry and victimised. Better you decide to change of your own accord earlier rather than later, rather than leave the world to push you into it.

    I always remember "Always show kindness, up to the point where kindness is taken for weakness."

    There will be lots of people who think you are kind and caring. Keep them close to you and do anything for them, like you already do. Don't be afraid to ask them for help with your things as well.

    There will be lots of people who think you are weak. They will be wrong, and their little gag will backfire on them heavily, taking much more from them that they ever imagined it could. People will be puzzled as hell when they can't beat you.

    Keep these tools close to you and gain experience with them - logic, fun, spontaneity, accuracy, perfection, kindness, and emotional literacy.


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    I have a low tolerance for drama queens.I don't think I'm alone in this attitude - so why do they do it when it annoys so many people....don't they have a conscience?
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    Thats a good point motu, the army would straighten me up.
    I have a low tolerence for dooshbags aswell but they still annoy me.

    I'm no emo, but those blades are so tempting

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