
Originally Posted by
Molly
I understand what you're saying and, no, I didn't just sit on my bike and did try to engage in conversation. Re. the bloke who never approached the group. Did you take the trouble to go over and say hello, introduce yourself, introduce him to a few members? I really hope so. It's pretty shitty to invite people along and leave them feeling uncomfortable. The onus really is on the organisers to make attendees feel welcome; precisely the same etiquette that'd apply if you invited somebody into your home.
Anyway, I'm not going to get into an argument wth you about it. I don't know what your involvement in those rides is but I made an honest observation based on one particular night. It might just be something for you to think about. I suppose once you get to a certain size it's possible for it to become a bit of a clique - not to need to bother with new arrivals - which is largely what's wrong with most established groups. It's unfortunate but it happens.
Take it easy and ride safe.
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