
Originally Posted by
Edbear
I'd like to be a Dad for as long as possible, inspirational or not. I see your point, but I think you, as others here have missed mine.
My point is about choosing an activity that has a very high chance of death or serious injury when one has family responsibilities. Note I have already made the difference between racing on tracks or circuits designed for it and have said I'd like to do a track day. I'm not advocating the "cotton wool" approach to life. My accident clearly illustrates the hazards of daily life and it won't stop me driving or riding.
Craig, as with many other riders make their choices as to acceptable risk, and even Valentino can break his leg along with the best of them. Would Craig and Valentino race the IoM TT?
I'm talking about circumstances over and above the "norm", not living in a bubble. Maybe my aversion to skydiving is more personal than based on safety - as has been pointed out it is fairly safe these days - but then I may choose other activities that other people wouldn't want to do.
Try to understand my viewpoint here.
As to being a "Sensible" Dad, I have mentioned I have nearly died 5 times, and the circumstances and situations I have been through and survived, have resulted in my children, sons-in-law, my wife and extended family to call me an inspiration to them. My children and my siblings call me their hero. I'm not gloating, as I simply feel I've had some tough times but I'm no different from many others who have likewise suffered and endured setbacks of all kinds including noted and respected members of this forum.
As a family we have always been outgoing and adventurous, enjoying NZ's environment from mountain to sea, my wife and I have enjoyed many miles of biking together, and I've already said more than once that I'd like to experience a track day. So you're being a bit unfair to insinuate I am a passive spectator to life and not an inspiration to my family.
Please, again, understand that I am differentiating between doing an activity, in this case motorcycle racing, in a purpose designed environment as against an unforgiving environment not designed for such high speeds and with precious little room for error, where the risk factor jumps by an order of magnitude. Okay if one is single without family to care for perhaps, but these children have lost their beloved Dad, and it should give us all pause to think.
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