Another rider down. 14th August 2005

**Pixie** · 15th August 2005, 23:54

RIP oldfart

**enigma51** · 16th August 2005, 09:57

Originally Posted by Kwaka-Kid

thanks everybody, and Hi to Paul + Maryanne. I have shown mum through most of these posts, and thats kinda helped, thanks maryanne for your post.

Other then that cheers everybody, i dont know how i come across as strong or whatever because i swear its far from how it is, though someone has to keep the regular flow of things going, and things need to be sorted for mum, she needs support and thats what im here for.

I will now just say the worst thing i have ever had to do in life is alone be the one to tell my own mum that her husband wont be coming home. Twas the hardest and longest 10 mins of my life and by far the worst. Thanks dad for coming so quick and being there to support me, and of course mum.

Just wanted to say I know we have to be strong through this Bruce and that you will be watching us, but you’ve left such a gap in our lives it just might take awhile. In the mean time make sure there aint’ just two zeddys waiting up there for you and dad but a third for me as well, don’t stress though - ill give you a good 80 years yet to get her ready for me!

Like i said to you last night its not something I wanted you to do but in a way i think its better you told your mom than the police or a medic. And logan dont worry if you need a "Shoulder" im there for you mate.

**v.ros`** · 16th August 2005, 10:06

RIP Bruce.

**Deano** · 16th August 2005, 10:33

Originally Posted by Kwaka-Kid

Just wanted to say I know we have to be strong through this Bruce and that you will be watching us, but you’ve left such a gap in our lives it just might take awhile. In the mean time make sure there aint’ just two zeddys waiting up there for you and dad but a third for me as well, don’t stress though - ill give you a good 80 years yet to get her ready for me!

I hope you and the family can take solace in the knowledge that Bruce is cruising the great highway in the sky, doing something he loves.

**ManDownUnder** · 16th August 2005, 10:45

Originally Posted by enigma51

...And logan dont worry if you need a "Shoulder" im there for you mate.

I think you speak for many of us - there's no shortage of people out there thinking about you Logan. Mate - I hardly know you but this has been on my mind.

Was wondering about throwing it in last night on the way home. Too much carnage, too many deaths. But no, I'm going to grow from this - learn and enjoy.

I don't claim to know Bruce, not sure I ever met him, but I know you can usually judge a person from the company they keep, and their reaction in times of need.

Bruce must have been a good guy, and sounds like you're good man too Logan.

Time will heal, but don't be in a hurry to heal. My step dad passed away Mar 2001 and it's an honour to visit his graveside now, and I do so when time permits.

Good luck Logan - and we're here for you. Talking helps, and exercise helps. Go for a run or a walk or throw stones out to sea. It all helps and gives you time to stop, think and say your goodbyes.

It's sad to hear it ended like this - wish I could do more.
MDU

**_Gina_** · 16th August 2005, 11:24

Originally Posted by ManDownUnder

Was wondering about throwing it in last night on the way home.

I was too

**enigma51** · 16th August 2005, 11:34

Guys the last thing bruce would want is for people to stop riding. He loved his riding and died doing something he loved. The only thing that is important is that we put aside petty things and take everyday as your last. If your upset with someone get it out and make things right dont sit on it. You feel pretty crap when there is unresolved things which 99% of the time is something you should not be feeling crap about.

Reverent enigma will now stop preaching!

**FEINT** · 16th August 2005, 12:05

RIP Bruce A.k.a Oldfart. Thoughts are with his family.

**gamgee** · 16th August 2005, 12:46

oh no, when i first read this it hadn't put a name, that sucks, RIP bruce!!!

**Hitcher** · 16th August 2005, 13:12

Sad news. I can't believe I missed seeing this thread on Sunday. Our thoughts are with you Logan and your family.

Brett & Jane

**Eurygnomes** · 16th August 2005, 13:43

Hey KK.

Am really saddened to find this out, but am really glad that he got an opportunity to see your 20th birthday...and your new house. From what I've read, he really respected you as a person - which is just awesome to see - and I know you returned the sentiment.

I've not met either of you, but consider you family regardless, so take care of you, as well as your Mum.

And rest easy Bruce, we'll take care of the lad.
Nomes

**Brains** · 16th August 2005, 14:31

Never met the man, which is my loss because he certainly sounds like a stand up sorta guy. Thoughts with Logan, his mum, and Bruces many friends.

Brendan.

**Lou Girardin** · 16th August 2005, 14:50

Without seeming insensitive, can anyone shed light on what happened?
Sometimes the circumstances of an accident like this makes a difference to those concerned.

**enigma51** · 16th August 2005, 14:55

Originally Posted by Lou Girardin

Without seeming insensitive, can anyone shed light on what happened?
Sometimes the circumstances of an accident like this makes a difference to those concerned.

At this point in time it is still under investigation as to what exactly happend and to speculate on what happend would not be fair on family and friends

**Warr** · 16th August 2005, 17:15

Originally Posted by Lou Girardin

Without seeming insensitive, can anyone shed light on what happened?
Sometimes the circumstances of an accident like this makes a difference to those concerned.

There is an article in todays Waikato Times regarding Bruce.
Link