Quote Originally Posted by Ender EnZed View Post
Think of it as a challenge.

Ride at a slow pace that she's comfortable at and then see how much faster you can go while keeping it smooth enough that she can't tell anything has changed.
Heh. Their is some merit to this but it's not the easiest thing to pull off. My G/F pillioned begrudgingly after previous bad experiences so I rode very smooth. Bit by bit we leaned further, accelerated harder & braked a bit later as her anticipation of what was going to happen next developed. Didn't take long before I was getting poked in the ribs to give it the herbs. She has her own ride now.
It's a sharing experience built on trust & consideration, doubly rewarding for that fact.
Enjoy.