Are you willing to fight IRD?Originally Posted by Quasievil
IRD only need two things to determine how it all works out....
One primary caregiver... HER
One payer... YOU.
You are right, they will shaft you cause you are the payer. Even with equal shared care custody, I know of guys still being billed for child support, when they have there children week on week off. A smack down the middle 50/50. Even chirstmas con day is half. IRD still bill him for child support.
My sugestion to you is, if you are willing to fight, it can be showen how you can get to the minimum amount throught IRD, then as your spouse is not on dpb, she will quickly come to you and be willing to discuss a private arrangement to get more than the 12 bucks or whatever the minimum is. It will put you in a better negotiating position. Then you can have her supply info showing actual costs and inconveniances she has due to the primary caregiveing position she is currently in and you can offer to have your Son more often to relieve her of that. And she will have on paper some costs you can call down the middle. You will of course then deduct the half cost you carry on the times you have your Son.
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