Definition of cheating?

[Ixion]

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[cowpoos]

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nah its not

[cowpoos]

nah its not

still not locked

[cowpoos]

still not locked

hellllllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooooo ixion

[_Gina_]

just to see if wasn't just CowPoos who could post.......

[chanceyy]

hmm well it was locked when i checked last nite

but since its not

I agree with those others who state that once the trust is gone its gone .....

trust, honesty, & communication all go hand in hand

why would anyone want to settle for mince when you have prime rib at home !!

If ya want to go off & bonk the world then do the right thing & break off with ya relationship first ..

[cowpoos]

just to see if wasn't just CowPoos who could post.......

yeah funni ain't it

[Macktheknife]

I reckon it is whatever the couple has agreed to be exclusive about. Many people have no real problem with a kiss for example, but no prolonged lip-lock tonsil hockey. I know someone who has no issue with anything up to and including oral sex, she is quite happy for her partner to do this. I was surprised but, hey whatever rocks your boat.
I think it should be discussed and agreed by the partners involved, whatever that covers.
Good luck PF.

[merv]

aha....and here was me thinking it was yunga tart, lol, glad thats been explained....

Same thing I thought a while ago so I asked to be sure.

[yungatart]

To be honest, I don't care what you call me -not even bothered if you call me tart- as long as its not late for my dinner!

[merv]

I'm with you on that. Yeah I reckon I don't want to be late to anything except my own funeral.

[Colapop]

To be honest, I don't care what you call me -not even bothered if you call me tart- as long as its not late for my dinner!

So... can I call you sometime..?

[smokeyging]

thats true...

And yeah I'm asking in regards to a relationship... thats been pretty serious, not just a partner of like... a few weeks... talking years here

Woman usually have a darned good idea if they are being cheated on. Something will go wrong in the relationship and if it isn’t sorted there and then, both usually start bitching at each other till they both forget what the original bitch was all about in the first place. Then of course it just gets worse after that. If you think the relationship can’t be saved then dumb the bugger. Otherwise marriage counsellors can work wonders. Someone in this thread said that once the trust is gone from cheating etc chances are it will probably not come back. This I agree with. At the end of the day you will have to make the final decision. I know woman can’t handle that loneliness too well, but….

[Disco Dan]

PF

In terms of relationships, Rule of thumb, I reckon its anything that you would not do with "another" in front of your partner. Complicated issue really.

i agree with this one! imagine your GF or BF was standing right next to you.. would you still, say that, do that etc etc..

[chanceyy]

Woman usually have a darned good idea if they are being cheated on.

I know woman can’t handle that loneliness too well, but….

in response to your first sentence .. men/woman usually have a darn good idea if they are being cheated on ... the stupid part is the partner cheating thinks that the other partner has no idea, but there are clues .. also over 90% of cheaters get caught ..

& can you clarify how you "know" that woman can't handle that loneliness to well ??

sounds a bit like a generalisation .. & from the incidents in the last week .. it appears the men do not handle break ups/indiscrections that well, more than the woman