Sorry about the loss of your sister. That sucks. As above you are still with us. A good thing.
I crashed the Gixxer on the Taupo track on Friday. Nice slid and wore the leather pants out. Two small holes where the leather folded and took the brunt of the weight. The only pain was from the plastic zip that melted in the leg of the pants and let a small part of the leg get burns from the track.
Good gear is the only way to go. Keep saying it and others will get it in time.
Take care and heal well.
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